Thread 81782454

Really we were suppose to get a gf in high school, no later than college. Its insane that so many men are waiting until they are 10+ years into their sexual prime to start looking for a mate.

>>81782454 (OP)
Chad is not waiting and the rest of us don't matter. What the hell are you talking about

>>81782454 (OP)
i do not care about getting a gf i just want to put my penis inside a vagina and make out a bit for foreplay

>>81782454 (OP)
No girl wanted me back then and I didn't had anything. I was living with my poor parents,my father being an alcoholic who was aggressive. I would have never ever taken a girl with me there. Yeah sure some girl showed some interest but I thought it was all fake. Then I became depressed and fat for 5 years. I have wasted so much of my life.

>>81782454 (OP)
Anon... it might not be an individual issue. Birthrates are falling across the world and this issue is affecting more men than a few isolated cases.

It might be that as a species we managed to hit the 'behavioral sink' that occurred in the rat utopia experiments. And there might not be an easy way to reverse it other than the destruction of the existing systems via some cataclysmic event and a drastic reduction in population.

We got too successful for our own good. We solved too many problems, automated too many tasks, let a few people hoard all the resources and now the bill has come due.

I dont think there is really much any of us can do as individuals other than be swept away collectively by these forces beyond our control.

>>81782454 (OP)
I think there is actually something to that. Definitely makes guys more fucked up.

>>81782454 (OP)
In my experience the only way to get a gf was being in the same friend circles as her and/or being recommended to her. Or being a literal junkie.
The latter was out of question for me, dropouts 2-3 years older than us would come near our middle/highschool and just do fuck all but chill and sometimes pick up the trashy-ish girls (sometimes seemingly well adjusted ones too, babbys first blackpill). The first option eventually as well since girls were absolutely repulsed from me in middle school and late highschool
I blew my one and only chance at a gf away because i'm a mentally ill bpd subhuman

was thinking about this today
even if all goes well i wont be able to have a family until im in my mid 30s at the earliest
its over

Nobody tells young men that dating is a rat race that only gets harder as you age. All you really needed was a dad to dress you, push you into sports and give you a nice beating for acting like a bitch. That would have pushed you far ahead of half of your male peers growing up. Competing as a full grown adult is much harder and by that time many girls have been taken of the market or accumulated years of experience over us.

>>81782454 (OP)
Well, I played video games.

>>81782454 (OP)
Didn't read, but I love that image so much.

>>81782454 (OP)
I had my first proper girlfriend at 14, but none of my relationships ever lasted more than a year. Average 2-4 months. There were days where I broke up with a chick only to be at another chick's house within 12 hours. All the girls I knew started slutting around for drugs at 11-12 years old and brag about it to this day.

>>81783871
> implying I even want old roasties

Normalfags can keep them all for themselves for all I care

>>81784265
At least you got some experience. My parents advised me against getting into a relationship until I had finished uni and now I am 23 yo virgin with no clue on how to get a girl. The only issue I have in my life is this one, and it could have been easily handled by paying attention to any of the girls that were fond of me during uni or hs, getting to know new people is way harder now that I am working in a male dominated field.

>>81784345
>My parents advised me against getting into a relationship until I had finished uni
Genuinely terrible advice, I don't know how anyone could do that to their child. When I got my first girlfriend, my parents did try to dissuade me a bit (my mother did, at least. She didn't like how much older the girl was) but I didn't listen to either of them and my dad somewhat enabled it by giving me money to spend.

As a teenager, it's extremely important that you spend a good amount of time interacting with the opposite sex and making an idiot out of yourself, because you have the capability to do so without ruining your life. A teenage boy fucking up by asking a girl who doesn't like him out is just a rejection, an adult man doing it can look like a rapist and have his entire life destroyed.

>>81784382
Yeah, now I will have to learn the rough way.

Now that I think about it, I bet they didn't really expect me to do as they said, it was just a "dont say any slurs" kind of advise that no one really expected me to heed, but I was so much of a certified good (retard) boy I took it too seriously.