>>81792287depends on the situation, things can be precarious for guys but if you're in a social setting without external consequences then you should generally pursue those you find attractive but make sure to give them an out. Confidence is attractive, you don't want to make a big deal, emotions are not for "do we like eachother" that's a huge red flag, casually express interest, if she's not receptive drop it, if she wants the attention back after that she knows she has to signal you back now. Oh and don't open with "let's go on a date" open with casual conversation, maybe a witty remark, then express straightforward interest (timidity is really bad on this step)