>>81792618 (OP)
Humans are wired to reproduce. Our society also wires us to care about relationships and raising children to perpetuate society. Various social conditioning lines up with our animal traits of slamming genitals until we release, so we assume they are automatically a part of human biological wiring. Cart before the horse.
If you aren't having sex, you aren't living up to those standards and are shamed for not doing so. We are raised to be afraid of disappointing those with power over us, family, the people who hold our livelihoods/jobs over our heads, etc. So we conflate it as a means of survival too.
I don't feel the same need (even as a man) because I was severed by my environment. I jack off but I don't get lonely. My response at first was spite and fury, why would I ever want to share an experience like sex with these subhumans? These evil pieces of filth? As time went on I realized that when those shitty kids and childish teachers were removed from my life, I kind of enjoyed the tranquility. I didn't hate people so much if they weren't actively antagonizing me. I had solitude and more importantly, peace. It's been over a decade since then and while I've had to integrate with society a bit, sex is still not even remotely a concern. I've observed that people get much more distracted (myself as well) when we are talking and socializing, to the point that it actively meddles with executing basic tasks. There's no time to stop and reflect on anything. So most people probably don't stop, and don't think much on why outcasts are bitter. They distract themselves with the screens now too. There is less time to disconnect and think about things. I would even say that the answer you're asking for would probably show up faster to yourself if you hadn't posted anything and just stopped, too. Yet we push heavily on unproductive socialization and never reflect on why we feel our emotions, or at least more than what's on the surface.
Not enough space, not continuing.
