Thread 81794433

i feel too ashamed to show my e-bf my face he has no clue how ugly i really am please help

>>81794433 (OP)
same im so scared

>>81794444
are you really actually ugly or just insecure? i've always been bullied because of my looks

>>81794433 (OP)
are you ugly ugly or just unconventional attractive?
are you fat? how are you doing in the body department?
i can build a strategy if i know what you are working with

>>81794433 (OP)
>>81794444
just do it fembot just tell him to be honest if it doesn't work out just move on

>>81794468
you can be bullied for looks and still be cute imo ive seen it happen b4

>>81794476
> i can build a strategy
strategy for what? for me to look better? i already know what my issues are

>>81794433 (OP)
I broke up with my e-gf because I didn't wanna show my face. And, I'm not exactly happy, but I guess my ego is still in tact.

If any girls want to send someone pictures of their face I am available for calling you pretty

>>81794485
i'm objectively very not cute

>>81794490
i got some selfies where i look like a twink vampire chadlite saved for an emergency like that
she might not find me hot but im gonna make her pussy wet online

>>81794490
how long did you date for? were you able to put it off for a long time?

>>81794500
That sucks femanon. Cucked by genetics again despite your personality and charm. Feels bad man

>>81794500
>i'm objectively very not cute
i find that girls here are usually jsut the unconventional attractive types. some robots are like this as well and both have low self esteem.
you could be that or you could be genuinely ugly at that point i need to know about your body type
are you thin, fat? hourglass?
you can bait him into being attracted to you if you make him think with his dick first men love a butterface

>>81794511
6 months. I ended up breaking up saying some dumb shit like "oh it's not working out". 2 months after breaking up, I still have feelings, but she moved on lol

>>81794536
>6 months e-relationship without knowing each other's faces
this shit was never working out anon im sorry not showing each other your face like a week in shows lack of commitment

>>81794553
I agree. I think it was more of a pseudo-relationship where we both pretended to be with each other and give eachother cute messages. I see how simps are created though.

i did the same thing but from the other side. he was ugly plus in a different country so i just said i couldn't do with the distance(which is mostly true) he loved me more then i did him so i ended it for his own good...i felt like i was using him idk why

>>81794579
i feel abd for you anons that need any type of affection like that
im desperate for a relationship but if theres no hugging cuddling kissing and hot young adult sex then i dont want to waste my time

>>81794582
euro and american anons should stop dating each other unless you plan to see each other frequently
just date someone your own country ffs

>>81794533
just life i guess..
>>81794534
>i find that girls here are usually jsut the unconventional attractive types.
i seriously am not
he hasn't seen my body yet but he likes my body from the description, so i guess i'm okay there, but i don't want it to become overly sexual so i don't want to rely too much on that either
>>81794536
how were you able to put it off for that long? did you give any particular excuses??

>>81794468
im genuinely not pretty, even my family has called me ugly before. ive tried wearing makeup to look better for my online bf but it does nothing. I already know hes going to end our relationship after he sees my face. Ihate being ugly

>>81794606
lol, i agree. it was just heartache all around. 0/10 would not recoment

>>81794654
aw i'm sorry femanon, i wish i could find a nice girl like you had a good personality her looks wouldn't matter

>>81794654
i'm sorry nona, it's the same for me..
how long have you been together? have you seen his face yet?
>>81794582
i've thought about doing that but it just feels too cruel, plus i love him

>>81794653
>he hasn't seen my body yet but he likes my body from the description, so i guess i'm okay there, but i don't want it to become overly sexual so i don't want to rely too much on that either
yeah i get wanting to take it slow so you dont get used and abused but you gotta spice things up in a long distance relationship
ironically in a long distance this is the woman's role opposed to how it happens irl
men wont care if you are a (non fat) 1/10 if theyre sexually satisfied. also important (you) are sexually satisfied too
>>81794654
read above

I love ugly people
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=axN8L0ndQXA&t=1487s

>>81794756
i like ugly if the ugly is nerdy but i cant really handle fat

>>81794756
It's annoying how embeds don't keep the start time; I swear they used to

>>81794770
is it supposed to start at 24:47? it does for me

>>81794654
>My family has called me ugly
Who said that to you? Was it your parents? People shouldn't life with parents like that

>>81794785
Yeah I like the lyric in that song

>>81794671
ty anon, I hope you find someone too
>>81794694
We've been together for like 2 months now, and yeah he showed me his face already. I told him before that im not pretty, and he says that hes fine with that but im scared hes just lying idk what to do

>>81794987
You probably just have to bite the bullet at some point. What happens, happens

>>81794653
She didn't want to share pics nor VC. I didn't want to either so it was pretty convenient. Early on, I accepted that she was going to break up soon and move on... But she just didn't. I ended up in some weird position that I wasn't prepared for.

>How do you know she was female
I don't have proof, but the way she behaved was very much like a woman. Also, the irony is that if she were a man, I would've put 10x more effort into the relationship because I don't really fear men's standards.

my current gf isn't as pretty as my exes but I think she's way better as a gf. you're probably his best gf, too.

>>81794987
i can't really give you advice since i'm in the same situation but personally i'll probably either show him an edited picture (snow app) or just break up eventually. if i do break up with him i'll be honest, i think that's less cruel than making up some other excuse
>>81795012
doesn't it make more sense to put more effort the higher the standards are?
>>81795031
i hope i am, probably too early to say

>>81795091
holy low self esteem. Do you want me to hype you up anon? You seem like you need it
>I don't really fear men's standards.
you probably dont really know them desu

>>81795129
>Do you want me to hype you up anon?
i won't send you my pictures. there's nothing to hype
>you probably dont really know them desu
i do know them

>>81795091
When you're a 3/10, no

>>81795166
im just trying to help
your self esteem is comically low to the point youre gonna ruin your erelationship
even if you are an ugly woman you can make a guy insanely happy out there
>i won't send you my pictures. there's nothing to hype
again ill repeat what i said to the other anon if you dont know what each other look like youre not committing the relationship and it wont go anywhere
dont fuck blow this shit just because of ur insecurity

My internet gf doesn't want to share her face for whatever reason. I don't want to pressure her into showing it, even if I am a little curious.
I was really worried that she would stop liking me when I sent mine over but she said I was cute and that was a huge relief. I'm sure it'll be the same for her when she does it.
In the off-chance you're her, remember that an American 6 is a British 8 ;^)

>>81795429
my nigga snufkin just be careful out there

I broke up with my e-gf of one month because I was scared to see her face (I had already shown her mine)
It was starting to get too deep and I didn't want to be the guy to dump a girl the moment I see her face if she was ugly.

>>81795476
But what if she was really pretty?

>>81796490
I doubt she was she was always talking about how fat she was.

>>81794765
hey fuck off dont make fun of my erectile dysfunction

>>81796499
then why did you date her?

>>81796524
I wanted female companionship
It was nice talking to someone who actually liked me

>>81796543
you're kind of evil for that though

>>81796554
Not really. As soon as I realised it probably wasn't going to work out I pulled the plug.

>>81796571
i bet you knew you weren't attracted to fat girls before you started dating, you should have known

>>81796586
I didn't know she was fat when we started dating. I thought a lot about trying to make it work once I found out.

>>81796595
why do you get into a relationship with someone without knowing something like that? you kind of set yourself up for that one

>>81796611
See >>81796543
>I wanted female companionship
>It was nice talking to someone who actually liked me

I agree with your point though, people should face reveal early and often.