my ex bf is considering cutting off our friendship. i dont know what to do anymore. i feel so bad :(

>>81794529 (OP)
>ex
>friendship
stop torturing yourself

>>81794529 (OP)
It's the person who got broken up with who decides if they can remain friends, not the person who broke up with them.

>>81794529 (OP)
You shouldn't have broken up with him if you cared about him.

>>81794529 (OP)
im in this exact situation but im the guy

>>81794545
literally how am i torturing myself. id rather have him as a friend than not have him in my life at all
>>81794566
HE broke up with ME lmaooo
>>81794583
glod luck bro. our situation is hell

why do you fucking cunts come here

>>81794589
>id rather have him as a friend than not have him in my life at all
do you want more from him? much more? then yes, you are torturing yourself

>>81794589
why is he considering breaking off the friendship?

>>81794589
>id rather have him as a friend than not have him in my life at all
damn describe your ex i wanna be the type of guy women would say this about

>>81794545
literally this
tryint this shit with my ex gf was the worst mistake of my life
she was just a reminder of she cheated on me and deep down i was resentful and wasnt in contact ro be a friend, i was in contact to cause problems because she hurt me so bad i wanted to lash out at her, but it was a wasre of time and i qasnt emotionally okay for a full year because of it, i couldve been okay in like 3 months otherwise i bet
finally got over once she blocked me and i gave up making new accounts

>>81794529 (OP)
Is this Jana?

>>81794529 (OP)
Interesting... how tall is he exactly?

>>81794529 (OP)
Nice tits jana, ofc

>>81794793
yes
>>81794825
hes 5'11

>>81794942
i'm 6'2 you should date me instead and be my bff after we break up

>>81794953
i dont really care about height. i only want him. i want my ex bf. i miss him. i need my sweet boy back.

>>81794942
Are you the same femanon that posted like a year ago about how your boyfriend was really rough in bed?

>>81794980
no im not her

>>81794942
Maybe it's for the best. You are unstable and it may scare him. If he does leave you, respect his decision.

>>81795004
if he ever leaves me i will show up at his front door. im being serious. ill fly to another continent to see him

>>81794975
eh youre gonna move on you bpd women all do

>>81795019
Do you see why he doesn't want to be your friend anymore??
Try being more rational and he may still want to be your friend.

>>81794953
Please date this insane bitch and get her off this board. I'm sick of her spamming this ain't your personal blog bitch

>>81795048
idk man >>81795019 made me change my mind

>>81795028
This chicks genuinely insane. Talking to her makes you feel like you're dissociating. You cannot talk to her like a normal person, and her narcissism is a bigger problem than her bpd

>>81794589
what is so hell about your situation

>>81795065
Her ex also clearly has some control over her, she made a thread saying she blocked a lot of people because her ex told her to. Seems like her ex wants a fuck buddy without all the commitment involved and she's shitting it up on this board.

>>81794589
>HE broke up with ME lmaooo
Why?

>>81795082
her ex is pretty based

>>81796288
>gay e-boy simp

>>81794529 (OP)
Only narcissists keep ex's as friends so if you get hit by a bus that would be cool

>>81796310
no i just respect the grind of manipulating a crazy girl so you can have a fuck buddy

>>81796317
i've heard it's super common among gay people. my aunt's a lesbian and she lives in a small college town, and i remember all of her ex's being at her birthday party and were friendly. i don't have anything to say about why that is further along than I don't believe they're all narcissists

>>81796406
lesbians are basically dead bedroom from the start, they're all just friends the entire time. and women love to keep their exes on the hook forever anyway for the permanent attention drip. these factors combined means that a gaggle of lesbos will potentially all attend each others events indefinitely.

>>81796406
>I don't believe they're all narcissists
Well you are free to *believe* whatever bullshit you want

>>81794529 (OP)
Stay on discord, normie fag

>>81796431
Like how women believe every person they dislike is a narcissist?

I don't get it. She seems fun to talk to, she's cute, obsessive (some guys like that), she's hot. Why'd her bf dump her? Was it the distance?

>>81797074
apparently i remind him too much of his ex and he got flashbacks and couldnt handle that

>>81797074
I'm her other ex, I can tell you why I dumped her
1. She was fun to talk to until she did the BPD thing and went crazy
2. She's not cute, without any of those weird ass filters or anything she doesn't look very good.
3. Obsessive - Obsession is good to a certain point, why am I the first thing you look forward to when you wake up. Fuckk outta my face.
4. She's not hot.
Basically it's a simple problem, you're inputting too much energy in and outputting less energy. There are prettier, more sane women that have those qualities you share.

>>81796288
True, anything that keeps her crying everyday and basically ruining herself makes me happy. He should actually block her so she starts having a meltdown LMAO

>>81797303
>Obsession is good to a certain point
>why am I the first thing you look forward to when you wake up
that's like. the bare minimum to count as obsession

>>81797303
ignoring the filter stuff, beauty is subjective. I think she looks pretty cute.

>>81797245
honestly this is such a cop out. Was his ex a serial killer or some shit?

if I wasn't in my 30's I'd totally go visit you and take you out to a concert or some shit.

>>81797338
That's the bare minimum I can take.
>>81797350
I have no clue who her ex is. All I can really say is she's turning 19 soon and still acts like a child. You seem really into her which is a shame, in different circumstances like when I met her she would have dated you the next day. Idk why she's so hung up about this guy as if there won't be 50 other dudes like her

>>81797412
>That's the bare minimum I can take.
then don't say you want obsession??

>>81797426
That is still obsession, it's irregular for people to do that. I told my gf specifically not to do it. Some of you guys just want a maid or something
>Good morning master, I immediately woke up and got ready for you! How are you on this morning

>>81794552
>It's the person who got broken up with who decides if they can remain friends, not the person who broke up with them.
wdym?

>>81797492
I want to her wake up excited to see me, I want to be the highlight of her day. You just didn't like her much

>>81797519
I love my gf. I just don't want her to be influenced easily by the things I do or don't do, she has a mind of her own and it shouldn't be molded to fit my likings and ideals. Find a gf with self respect man or else you'll have a girl like this

>>81797545
I sort of get what you mean, but when you really *really* like someone, you're going to be a little pathetic and needy

>>81797568
I can sort of see, how is it going like with this girl? I can tell you what she likes and doesn't like and things

All I want is an obsessive women I can obsess over, but I won't ever be able to have that. Even if I do somehow find someone, I'd probably drive her away with my obsession, why live?

>>81797500
It means if a girl breaks up with you and pulls the let's be friends card, then you say "nah go fuck yourself" and never talk to them again