How do you guys cope about being ugly? And I dont even mean average looks or a potential for looks ascension by self improvement, I mean the truly ugly ones who are sub4, never had friends and always excluded to be made fun of, khhv, the type where girls would cry if you approached them even with no ill intention, the type where even tiktok/snapchat filters still dont make you look good
How do you all cope and what do you do in life
Im turning 19 soon and I dropped out of school because it was too difficult to even show up there, and hence Im not in uni nor do I work, the last friend I had was in kindergarten
Ill just be a neet until I die, and my parents already made peace with the fact Ill never amount to anything
My sister absolutely hates me for being a loser in my room all day, but she wouldnt understand because shes female and looks fine
I dont remember the last time I was happy

>>81794898 (OP)
>How do you guys cope about being ugly?
i neet until the end of time and don't go outside unless it's dark

>>81794917
I havent gone outside in a full year

>>81794898 (OP)
I don't really know. I'm 30 and even though I've dated I feel like people just get disappointed once the honeymoon phase wears off. Honestly might actually kill myself at some point

>>81795023
i have to go outside once every couple months to get pills to keep my hair from falling out so i don't become even uglier because my pharmacy won't deliver, and i like depression nightwalks at the waterfront park in the winter since there's either nobody there or only sleeping homeless

i realized that i dont want the girl of my dreams to have to wake up next to an ugly face every morning so im going 3 years all in on self improvement and if i dont get anywhere? maybe quit my job and become an hero

I cope by thinking about getting plastic surgery and then imagining people wanting to talk to me.

Holy shit, I'm so pathetic

>>81795132
I dont even remember the last time I had a proper conversation with someone in my life who isnt my family
Im already too far gone and my life didnt even start
Might actually kill myself

I got bullied since before kindergarten.
I coped by trying to get a good job but I realised noone cares. I could get surgery but I don't think it will make me happy. I'm too old, almost 40.
I used to drink a lot, but my health got bad, now I have genuinely no idea what I should do with my life, I'm just existing and waiting for death.

>>81794898 (OP)
average men are considered ugly and arent really given any chances besides betabuxx
being a sub4 and being 5/10 or 6/10 is the same thing

>>81795197
Not really. Your quality of life degrades as you go down. When you're 6/10 you're invisible. When you're a sub4, your presence becomes hostile to all. People will trust you less, less likely to give you a job, will be much colder when interacting, more likely of people thinking you're a pedo, people will be less patient with you, people will refuse to be friends with you, etc. The BP goes far beyond dating, and truecels can attest to this

>>81795248
Oh yeah I agree with you 100%
but dating wise 6/10 = sub5

>>81795197
>>81795256
Basically what >>81795248 said
I dont even want to bother with dating because I know it will never happen, but being actually ugly just makes living impossible
Literally determined from birth to be a hermit who hides from society which mistreats you for no reason
I personally never did anything to people and have a timid nature but people still went out of their way to shit on my life before I truly withdrew from life all because I was ugly and dared to exist in their general vicinity

>>81795182
>I'm just existing and waiting for death.
Are you friendless?

>>81796012
I have 3 friends but they have families and we all live in different countries now because of work. I have no friends where I live.

>>81796031
I see my old friends a few times per year and we talk online. I'm not really in pain, it's more that there's nothing I can realistically achieve anymore. Maybe get a raise from time to time, but no family of my own, my passions are gone, my energy is low etc.