>>81806553You're also quite reasonable, maybe even humble, from the first glance.
You're still young, so you have time to develop and enrichen your identity, which is why I wouldn't worry about you being "bland".
If you have something you value or spend a lot of time with, that might be something you could focus on to give yourself some depth.
Good memory also comes in handy for gifts, I always loved when women made a present that's related to our history, it shows they care.
I think you're undervaluing yourself, but you seem rational enough to know you can change the things you feel poorly about, at least personality-wise (although I personally enjoy quietness in everyone).
Keep your hopes up, happiness is out there for you.