How were you treated by your parents growing up?

>>81815357 (OP)
Idk I don't really remember.

left to school and authorities to raise me

>>81815357 (OP)
My dad violent beat me. My mom was too much of a puss to do anything until a school counselor called CPS because of how gaunt I was.

divorced when i was young and growing up they had expectations that the other one was doing the parental teaching crap, so i ended up having to learn how to do laundry, cook, dress, etc. when i was an adult and on my own

Alkie dad bpd narc mom

>>81815357 (OP)
>repeatedly beaten up by my single mother until i was a bloody mess because she hated taking care of an autistics child
>now i have 3 scars on my forehead, only one of which i can recall getting while passing out in the pool of my own blood on the floor
um.. girls love scars, right?

>>81815451
>>81815433
dont beat your children, okay?

>>81815357 (OP)
Very high expectations and indoctrinated me how much of a failure i am when i didn't meet them. Rarely beaten when my mom had a mental breakdown. One outside i may look kinda successful but on the inside i resent myself

Dad left, mom worked many jobs to give me and my lil bro (from a different guy years later) the world. I would visit my dad for the summer every year or so when I was little but eventually stopped. He would always want me to be the good son and call him and tell him stuff but he's never really done anything for me and takes me to see him do scummy shit when I visited anyways. One day I asked him for a bit of help since I didn't wanna trouble my mom who already helps me in every single way she can. He apparently couldn't give me anything because of some stupid excuse. He's always posting himself on boats, in resorts, or at clubs, and with tons of jewelry, and doing things with his other kids (I'm his eldest by many years) on socials. I pretty much stopped talking to him after that. He continues to call me and text but I never answer or reply and my mom doesn't blame me either. I just don't care anymore.

>>81815466
I doubt I'll ever have the income to have children, so nothing to worry about there.

>father diagnosed ASPD
>mother consumed by schizophrenia
I could write a book. My childhood wouldnt be out of place in the Early Life section on a serial killers Wikipedia article.

>>81815357 (OP)
That image is literally the opposite. The only guys pining for muh mommy gf are submissive betas.

>>81815845
>The only guys pining for muh mommy gf are submissive betas.
Half of them are extremist chuds to that

>>81815357 (OP)
my dad spent my entire childhood trying to toughen me up and make me less of an anxious mess to no avail
my mom mostly was nice to me

>>81815357 (OP)
Mommy was mean to me and scolded me over every little thing. Very emotionally unstable. It's like what people describe having a bpd gf is like. Made me into an avoidant pussy. My dad was chill though, just too busy with work to notice me being isolated and under emotional stress from walking on eggshells all day.

I have both daddy issues and mummy issues, and I am not in this image. I am the faceless Wojak.

>>81815357 (OP)
Not well given I'm here
It wasn't bad at first but then I started getting bullied in school and my mom saw that, and a thought along the lines of "Holy shit this kid is miserable after coming home from school, I want to do that too!" occured, and she started verbally abusing me and making me feel like a burden on everyone, making me actively suicidal at 11.
My dad is a pussy betacuck and it's why he had to knock up a mentally unstable single mom to have kids, he never intervened or tried to stand up for me, yet the dickwad will hold how I turned out against me as if it's not his dogshit genetics that contribute to this mess.
Everything is technically "ok" now and for everyone's sake I pretend it is, but I'm still a pathetic failed male and it can't be fixed or compensated for in any way.

My father was 6ft4, strong as an ox, and terrorised me physically and emotionally until the day he died. I was raised as a man raises a dog. I will never recover, he broke me irreparably. The constant onslaught against everything that was me was too much to bear. I never surrendered my sense of self, or bowed to his will, but the struggle has taken the fight out of me and I dont want to be alive and havent wanted to for many years now

>>81815466
Not going to have them, it's the perfect punishment to my parents for abusing me
No offspring, your bloodline ends with me because you couldn't regulate your emotions and had to beef with a 10 year old child who loved you.

Hitler actually had daddy issues btw

>>81815357 (OP)
This image represents women, for men it's the other way around

>>81815905
You sound like a weak little bitch. Do you think that if I subjected you to SAW style traps and gauntlets you would actually toughen up or become more of a weak little bitch. Men with mental issues like anxiety disgust me. You shouldnt exist.

>>81816198
True, I'm sexually attracted to older men despite my dad not having been abusive.
Anons can theorize why that's the case.

hugging all anons ITT and whipping their parents and retards like >>81816249

>>81815357 (OP)
I ended up like this so, I guess lovingly but with no standards.

>>81815357 (OP)
What does it say about me if I have both, my dad was neglectful and addicted to drugs while my mom was abusive. I've hated myself since I was seven and I can't remember a time in my life that I ever liked myself as a person at all.

>>81815357 (OP)
My mom is a fragile narcissist and my dad is an emotionally volatile asshole.
I was berated everyday and emotionally abused from a young age, had to take beatings for my siblings behavior because I was the oldest, being chased around the house by my angry dad, not getting any love from either parent, etc.
It's actually impressive that I didn't turn out worse than I did because I basically had to raise myself and teach myself to be human

>>81815357 (OP)
They poisoned me, deprived me of nutrients, sexually tortured me, permanently disfigured me, neglected me, etc. I hate them. They ruined my life and they're still making it worse to this day

Not worse than most I guess. They enroled me in the best school in the city, fed me really well, but that was the extent of it. Mother was distant, silly woman, dim-witted and was just working most of the time. Father was glued to tv, didn't teach me shit. Also he was screaming at me a lot, I was his little slave, fetcher of tv remote and computer worker. He didn't care to do anything with me, but if mom couldn't discipline me, she would tell the father and he would shout until I submit, I was afraid of my father. They left me raised by PC, I was playing DOTA, CS Source, CS:GO and single player games for hours on end if I wasn't in school, that didn't end well for my social skills, to say the least, now I am here. I blocked my father, didn't spoke to hem in 8 years, I guess. I speak with my mom once in two month. I am probably an asshole, sometimes I wish I was a bigger man and patch things up with parents, they love me and I hurt them with ghosting, but I also blame them for a lot of my mental problems. 27 years old KHV reporting in.

>>81815357 (OP)
>How were you treated by your parents growing up?
so-so I guess.

>>81815357 (OP)
My dad was in prison. My mom treated me okay until I was 8 and then she started purposefully sabotaging me and started to hate me. I don't know why. But my mom then had my brother with a different dude who literally went to prison too. He then got out of jail and my mom started to treat me like shit. I was like 12/13 and she didn't talk to me for a whole year. They had insane fights where everything in the house would get broken. I'd come out of my room and all of the food would be destroyed. I lost so much weight because there wasn't anything to eat. I'd just eat chicken patties and fudge rounds and stay in room to avoid the screaming.

her bf then left her because he was cheating (women really know how to pick em) and then she started to turn all of the hatred towards me. I moved out at 18 and barely talk to her. she doesn't talk to me either. she couldnt just be a normal mom who loved me.

>have both daddy and mommy issues
>end up as a bisexual nazi
Funny how that works.

>>81815357 (OP)
I don't think my parents ever gave me life advice, asked how i was doing, or provided any emotional support at all. They took care of me financially and that was it.

>ages 0 - 10
physical abuse - i remember the beatings for inane shit
everytime i bring it up, my parents say they don't remember, or if they do remember they laugh at my face
>ages 12 - 17
neglect - they worked from sunrise to sunset, didnt have many friends growing up so i just stayed in my room all day
>ages 18 - now
somehow i developed stockholm syndrome along the way, because i still give like 70% of my pay to parents - groceries, bills, mortgage, etc.

i dont know how to leave
i feel like my only escape is for them to die - dad's already under so its just my mom left haha

>>81816249
projecting lol
you can run but you can't hide

>>81815357 (OP)
My parents were pretty nice
The biggest problem I have with them is them not expecting anything from me in life.
They never pushed me towards anything.
They are extremely passive and gave that passivity to me. I have a hard time just getting up and doing anything because they would always wish to postpone stuff or just not care.

>>81815357 (OP)
My parents divorced shortly after my third grade year.
My mom had a huge work ethic but only ever worked long hours at dead end jobs to pay the bills. She occasionally took her time out of her day to tell me what a failure I was and how I was going to fail at everything I ever tried because I wanted to take a day off from school or how boring I was because I didn't like to make friends nor talk to people. She married some narcissistic depressed alcoholic and they get blackout drunk together every other day a 2 o'clock in the afternoon except for the odd week where they get blackout drunk 3 days in a row. She also bough a bunch of dogs and never potty trained them so they pissed and shit in the house so much that when they replaced the living room carpet the piss had completely seeped through it to the point where there was giant 5 foot in diameter piss stain on the hardwood floor underneath.
My dad was a retarded weed dealer who played the xbox all day and refused to feed me and my siblings when my mom was working so on my mom's work days I would literally eat plain bread from the pantry. He would tell me how pathetic and retarded I was for not knowing common knowledge things at age 6 that he never bothered to teach me because he played call of duty and command and conquer on the xbox for 12 hours a day. He beat the shit out of my mom to the point where she got minor brain damage and he went to jail for a year because after he split up with my mom he knocked up some psycho methhead whore who got him arrested for kidnapping/false imprisonment. He was homeless and addicted to meth for like 5 years after that and nowadays he works as a maintenance guy and is a bible thumper who thinks he talks to god in his head.

>>81815357 (OP)
I was raised by my grandparents, mother's side. Father distanced himself shortly after my birth and did drugs, he's clean now though unless you count snorting tobacco if he still does that. Tried reconnecting with him in my teens but he became rude towards my grandparents at one point and made stupid comments and now I could care less for him, not to mention he now has a new wife who had her own kids, and didn't pay child support for more than a decade, but has money to hire a lawyer to say he did pay (he did, but way too little for too short of a time).
Still on good terms with mom though, even if it was her decision to give me to my grandparents.

>>81815357 (OP)
my parents were around, but they were always busy with their day job or working around the house instead of helping me build up skills

I didn't see my mother "fully" until I was 14 and she stopped working 7x12s.

my dad was the avoidant one. he was cool, showed me things but never helped me attain to his vision (or close to it) of what he wanted me to be.

I remember how emotionally volatile they both were over the stupidest and simplest things, like the time he pepper-sprayed me for me not wanting to go to college.

at 32 I'm still mentally lost in life, my mother never let-go of her workaholism. and my dad has gone crazy.

tldr parents are mad and disappointed in me.

>>81815357 (OP)
Was right for years even put a gun in my mouth and pulled the trigger but I forgot I never kept it loaded but turns out my mom was just manic from being victim of the American prescription pill epidemic.

>>81815357 (OP)
I am both sides of this image.

>>81816414
This guy fucks. Be like this guy.

>>81815357 (OP)
Name the differences between daddy and mommy issues and the turnout/results of them.

Y'all childhood sounds so fucking miserable. I guess I'll try to be nicer on this board.

>>81815357 (OP)
Both of my parents are Narcissists from rotten families my mother has Fetal alcohol syndrome and my father was sexually assaulted as a choir boy in church he an alcoholic that covered himself in shitty tattoos to hide the pain. They're very broken people that think like shallow delusional twelve year olds at 65 typical of baby boomers. Thank god baby boomers are all getting old enough to die finally. My childhood was awful I don't have a single good memory in life. They're also the worst kind of poor people the type that have spent their entire lives deep in debt and working blue collar shit jobs to put on a charade to pretend they aren't poor loser failures (they are) also typical of baby boomers.

>>81815357 (OP)
My dad admitted to me drunk one night that he purposely sabotaged my entire life. my mom is dead and I'm an alcoholic.

>>81816151
>had to beef with a 10 year old child who loved you.
I always found this hilarious. My parents beefing with me when I was a 7 year old or whatever. Jfl. I think my mentally ill father saw me as competition.

>mom
loved, took care but never hesitated to slap me, punish me and get disagreeable
>dad
errrr...he made money I guess? never abused me, at least...was kinda demeaning, didn't care much

>>81815357 (OP)
The physical abuse contributed to my mental retardation. It hurts because I used to be smart.

>>81816249
the traps would probably kill me very quickly, i dont have much willpower to live these days

>>81815357 (OP)
>quirky wojak slop "boys are different from girls" SLOP KILL AND RAPE OP

Which is worse, having no father figure or having a father figure who is an extremely poor role model? (Passive, lazy, emotionally absent, unskilled, jobless, etc)
Mine was the latter.

>>81819976
my dad hasn't admitted this to me, but i know he thinks he's competing with me. i'm a disaster. no idea why he'd want to compete with that.

if i yell at him he looks scared and shuts up when he's belittling me though. so that's fun.

>>81818317
>he pepper-sprayed me for me not wanting to go to college
Kek, how gay of your dad.

>>81815357 (OP)
What's the explanation to this fenomenon?

>>81821376
Depends entirely on which of the latter it is
Like if your father is simply neglectful and doesn't care about you, but still provides a living, then you'll be relatively fine. You'll probably miss out of alot of important 'male' skills and you'll probably be a bit of pussy. But you'll be fine.

If your father is abusive, then yea no, it would've been better to be fatherless. There's no telling how bad you can be fucked up. You could become emotionally distant, prone to outbursts easily, suffering from a lack of self-respect, etc. So much can go wrong with a bad father figure.