Thread 81817909

I fucking hate being a male so much.
My problems likely would have not existed as a female.
As a guy you are expected to basically be a superhuman(tall, fit well educated, well dressed, rich) or you are nothing and a subhuman basically. As a woman you can literally be a fucking stinky neet and still be genuinely desired and be at a good place in life.
Girls will always have some guy dreaming about them.
Some boys are destined to be undesired for the rest of their life and live inadequate lives.
If you are a girl it's okay to just be taken care of as an adult. You can marry a rich guy and you can have those standards while it's realistic for you.
As a man you are a manchild if you do that.
>hurr durr I know a guy that has a wife that provides for him
And he's probably really fucking tall and hot.
As a woman your height or genes don't matter much anyway. Height is a nonfactor for most men in dating and you don't have to be intimidating and expected to protect others like a man.
If you are ugly there is always makeup.
You don't need a good education, you can always be stay at home and basically live like a neet.
Women are social creatures by nature compared to men. Men need to provide something material or spiritual to have a place in this world. We cannot give birth and therefore have to cope our whole lives creating art and technology.

>>81817909 (OP)
I think female privilege is overstated by this board, but I personally would be tremendously higher status if female due to the specifics of my personality and life situation. it's just one of those things I guess.

>>81817909 (OP)
>another failmale
i'd put a ring on you and dick you down everyday, op

>>81818026
are your standards really that low OP is surely atrocious!~

>>81817940
you would still be a fucking loser regardless

>>81818047
maybe
maybe not

hey OP, are you ugly?

>>81817909 (OP)
first of all, tldr. you really expect people to read all that.
females might have an unfair advantage and be selectively picked over men in current day, but if you WERE a woman you would essentially be stuck with the brain of a child for the entirety of your life and be forever relegated to being the second sex who comes in second to men in all disciplines under the sun. would be rather be a pampered child or a conscious agent of will?

>>81817909 (OP)
You've just described the autism-to-trans-woman pipeline. Congrats if you figured it out yourself, or congrats to the person who groomed you. I don't think you will ever understand why it's so much better to be a man, so keep going with where you are going.

>>81818099
nta but as a failmale I hate guys like you because I'm trying not to be a failed male but then I read things like what you posted and I just immediately go back into wishing I could be a sissy housewife for a loving husband who completely emasculates me and turns me into his obedient, loving wife.

>>81817909 (OP)
It would have been a lot more bearable 200+ years ago

>>81818158
that's what a burka is for by the way. muslim countries have figured it all out and that's why it seems like there are no single males.

>>81818158
>"FUCK YOU!"
>"but also pwetty pwese can you fuck me, daddy?"
you guys are just so fucking cute its unreal

>>81818158
you need to externalise your hatred and anger instead of directing it at yourself. unironically start killing people instead of this sissy nonsense

>>81818174
haha true but I am very white. sadly I'd probably settle for a burka if it meant I was in the female role.

>>81818182
yeah but also fuck you! I'm over here trying to like fix things and then I read this type of thing and my brain short circuits

>>81818200
no

>>81818204
burka, sundress, cute thong panties, pushup bra, whatever, you could really be a great woman.

>>81818081
actually I wouldn't. I'm everything nerdy men desire in a woman, I'm just not a woman. as it is I'm only a loser by male standards; my parents are rich enough that me not having a job doesn't matter except for marriageability purposes, but not so rich that it doesn't matter for that.

>>81818026
>>81818117
>>81818158
I am not a faggot and trooning out only ends in disaster. I am not trans.
>>81818101
Even so if the have the brains of children they still meet their purpose. They don't need something greater,
>>81818099
No I'm prety ugly.

>>81818216
I'm definitely more of a sundress, thong and pushup bra failmale instead of a burka one.

>>81818246
You would easily become trans and improve your life significantly

>>81818204
>yeah
you weren't supposed to agree you dumb fuck
you were supposed to get mad and tell me to kill myself or something

the thing about being a man is that we're the "active" part and women are the "passive" part
BE active! do something, force yourself, take what you think is rightfully yours

waiting around for folks to save you or wanting a man to come up and swoop you off your feet, that's "passive", that's fembrained

>>81818298
>you weren't supposed to agree you dumb fuck
but ahhhh...I just don't get mad at most things and I hate confrontation and what you said was true so I can't even get mad about it anyways!!

>the thing about being a man is that we're the "active" part and women are the "passive" part
>BE active! do something, force yourself, take what you think is rightfully yours
that's what they say and I'm trying, I swear I am but I'm just not wired that way enough or something, it's not fair. everyone knows I'm passive and won't start arguments or fights and things like that.

and hmph it may be fembrained to wish a man would sweep me off my feet, but it's still a very nice fantasy...

But you're a cat.

>>81817909 (OP)
Superficial and shallow are cope words used by people with shitty genetics that shouldn't breed anyway

>>81818410
>wish a man would sweep me off my feet
you do know what that entails right? right??

>>81818410
you're useless, anon
>I'm trying, I swear I am
dont just try, DO and do it harder
>and hmph
stop typing like a fag as a start

>>81817909 (OP)
If I were a woman I would just be married by now and that's it.
I HATE WORKING
I HATE WORKING
I HATE WORKING

>>81818464
Build a bitcoin mining farm then

>>81818486
not worth the returns in current day

>>81818448
yes! well mostly...every guy has different ideas I'm sure. it doesn't seem so bad...

>>81818450
>you're useless, anon
i know...that's my whole problem as I said!
>dont just try, DO and do it harder
ok Master Yoda, I will try harder...
>stop typing like a fag as a start
I'm sorry I'll try to stop typing like a fag

>>81817940
>>81817909 (OP)
Women just have a different set of problems than men, they are just as fucked as we are. Most women are losers if you actually have female friends you would know. The female lifespan is a road straight to nowhere unless some man comes along and saves them and turns them into mothers and wives along the way. Otherwise they just rotmaxx ultraneet

>>81817909 (OP)
two problems with your line of thinking
first, women have their own set of problems (never taken seriously, seen only for their "beauty" or their ability to have children, some get catcalled in the streets, etc.)
which we can't relate for the most part because we experience those differently and to a different degree, so...

second is that you make it seem like your life revolves around women
since they don't seem to give you the time of day, or at least, not the attention you want, you're miserable as a result
you also seem to care too much about what society thinks of you which is pretty fucked and a possible third problem with your line of thinking
get a hobby that makes you happy, get a job good enough to sustain yourself, work to live and not the other way around, find something else to fulfill your life with
if a woman comes along then great, but if not, you won't feel miserable

tl;dr stop talking about unrelatable shit and stop giving a fuck what others think of you, find something else to make your life fulfilling if women aren't cutting it for you

>>81818547
I know some women who are really some big fucking losers, and I mean incel/neet/bedrot level and they still have boyfriends

>>81818547
>>81818558
oh, these are good
never thought of it way

>>81818527
good boy :)
hope you get "cured" or something

>>81818547
>just as fucked as we are
Yeah but they still get to have people care about them. They still get to be loved, they still get to experience affection, they get to matter.

>>81818558
I just want to be cared about. I can't get that as an ugly, autistic man. But a woman just like me could.

>>81818669
make friends instead, anon
i want to be cared about too but i find it tons of times easier to make friends with people than getting a woman that interested in me, so i just focus on making frens
frens enrich your life, and they have a much higher chance of not fucking your life up unlike a date

>>81818547
>Most women are losers if you actually have female friends you would know
They are losers how?
They all have vibrant social lives and get in easy in colleges and education and jobs.

>>81818625
>good boy :)
Anon!! you are such a tease why are you teasing me like this :(
>hope you get "cured" or something
right??? I will find a cute and stop being a failmale!

>>81818718
>will find a cute
a cute what? guy?

>>81818703
I have like 1 friends and a couple acquaintances. But idk it's just not the same. Friends don't really hug you and they aren't there for you when you're sad. At least that's how friendships have been throughout my life. They just don't feel very deep

>>81818558
>seen only for their "beauty" or their ability to have children
They literally don't need more. A man needs to be taken serious because he has to. If a man isn't taken serious he is nothing. A woman that is just a concubine still lives a better life than a loser man.
>some get catcalled in the streets
I get that can be extremely annoying but that's about it.
>you make it seem like your life revolves around women
That's a bad way to put it. I think love, sex and romance are some of the most important things. It's more about that. Life doesn't revolve solely around that but it's important.
>you also seem to care too much about what society thinks of you
Literally the opposite. Where do you get that assumption from?
I don't care much about whether normies think I'm weird or a loser. I care about whether my life is actually going in a good way objectively or not. I do care somewhat about what others think about me but not nearly as much as most people do, not even here.
>get a hobby that makes you happy,
Like what? I feel like I have few interests or I missed out on the part of my life where you develop those. I play vidya. Anime is fine. I like browsing here. I go to the gym. I nevere cared about sports or other stuff like that. I don't live a place where it's easy for me to hike or fish or do outdoors hobby stuff.
>get a job good enough to sustain yourself,
I can sustaian myself. I still live with my parents and will find a job until I can't do that anymore. I am in school and get money from studying.
>find something else to fulfill your life with
Easier said than done.

>>81818786
well anon, your concept of "friend" needs a bit of work then
i have 1 friend but he's there when i need him, we saved each other's asses throughout a good amount of time, despite being online (don't ask me how we did those feats, kek)
but yes, friends can hug you when you need a hug, they're there for you when you're sad, they support you through tough times, they share a laugh with you, they drag you around to do some stuff with them, and vice versa
if your "friends" never did that then you were their friend, not the other way around

make actual friends, anon
real friends you can really trust, it's a trial and error process and will be painful, but it certainly is easier than getting a date while being similarly fulfulling
besides, at the end of the day, a date's passion has a time to expire, after it does then only the friendship remains (with some benefits), and if the friendship is frail, the relationship crumbles

>>81817909 (OP)
If you even for a second think "being a male is so hard i'd rather be a hole" you were always going to turn out like this. a fucking troon. KILL YOURSELF. Women don't actually live good lives. THEY ARE HOLES FOR PROCREATION. It's like envying house pets for fuck's sake.

>>81818762
NO! it was just a typo I meant CURE I just type cute a lot some things are cute ok

I think if I was a 6'5 gigachad I still would be autistic.

>>81817909 (OP)
That is great and all. I just have autogynephilia which I want to be a woman.

>>81818718
you're such a fag anon holy shit, there is no hope for you

>>81818896
>some things are cute ok
yeah, look in the mirror and you'll find one

>>81817909 (OP)
I'd rather be a man than a woman. The only reason to be a woman would to be to make dating easy. But women are legit retarded. They're not logical and run on emotions. I've met so many of them and they're so different from men. They don't get autistically involved like men do in their hobbies. It's always shallow. Plus, women only have advantages because we live in modern society with laws. If we lived 1500 years ago, women would be raped daily

>>81818944
FINE I'll stop saying "cute." what do manly men say instead??

>>81818979
Anon!! stop it you are bullying me!

>>81819001
>bullying
this was a test

>>81819013
explain! what kind of test...

>>81819001
>>81819013
>>81819022
STOP RUINING THE THREAD WITH YOUR FAGGOT FLIRTING!!!!

>>81818813
>They literally don't need more.
but do you?
that's the biggest question
>A woman that is just a concubine still lives a better life than a loser man.
that's like saying monkeys live better lives than fish
not sure which perspective you're coming from but it's not always the case, your point of view is one of many

>extremely annoying
it can escalate to sexual assault though
plus it also fucks with their psychological health, like they're not sure if the guy will just catcall them or if he's going to put his hands on her or worse
that's pretty nightmarish, to not be able to walk around safely

>Where do you get that assumption from?
oh i dunno, maybe it's that insane vagina envy because "some people" think women's lives are that much better than a man's
but that makes me wonder, how the fuck do you determine objectively that your life is going a good way or not?
is there some consensus on that? is a ceo's life better than a traveller's or an accountant or just some lowly cook who really enjoys cooking?
you're the only one who can gauge whether your life is going a good way or not, because i mean, even the weird loser neets here, in my point of view, already live good enough lives despite their wailing and bitching, solely because they're not out in the streets murdering, robbing, sinking into addiction or doing other terrible shit with their lives
but they'll vehemently disagree with me

>Like what?
you want me to tell you what you enjoy?
go explore some other things if you can, things you haven't tried

>I can sustaian myself.
for now, do scale that up into your adult life and you'll already be living nicely enough to figure out the rest

>Easier said than done.
true, but i can only point you the way, i can't carry you there
up to you to ignore me or figure it out, or find a better solution

>>81819022
to see if you can stop being a fag
at any of those points you could've just said "fuck you nigger i'm not a fag"
but you played along

>>81819051
>to see if you can stop being a fag
so you're saying it's hopeless for me..?? maybe it's true I'm just "born this way" or whatever they say...

>at any of those points you could've just said
and I can't say that, it's rude. but I did say to stop bullying me and making me blush! that counts doesn't it!?

so I didn't play along, see!!

>>81817909 (OP)
imagine if youre reborn as a female but youre lesbian and ugly as fuck so you have the same problems you used to have as a male lol

>>81817909 (OP)
I agree but what's with the fags here? I hope God smites you all soon, or spreads aids so you'd stop perverting random threads with your grooming faggotry.
>>81818284
Genuine groomer

>>81819105
>so you're saying it's hopeless for me..??
I mean it kinda seems like it to me

>>81818233
the women desired by nerdy men are also losers. you just don't recognize them as such because you're a retarded male

>>81819387
Women can't really be losers. Not like how men can be. Society just doesn't view them like that.

>>81819387
no lol, if you're worth half a shit you can easily have a reverse harem of bisexual software engineers if that's a lifestyle you prefer. just be high-IQ charming and sexual and you don't really have to do shit.

>>81819197
Most gay romance is just grooming

>>81820157
seems many of them are willingly groomed too, judging by this thread at least