Instead of complaining why don't you incels just grow emotionally?

>>81825607 (OP)
She could have been telling the absolute truth but I would ignore just because she is dressed like a whore

>>81825607 (OP)
>Tinder swindler type dudes are good at emotions
>They dont have looks or finances to support their scheme
lol

>>81825635
I just look her big titties the whole time

>>81825607 (OP)
>woman dressed like a whore to get my attention because she wants to tell me something
no thanks didn't click teehee

>>81825607 (OP)
>grow emotionally?
Vulnerable narcissist incels are incapable of emotion

>>81825607 (OP)
Imagine thinking she really believes this line of bullshit.

>>81825607 (OP)
>w*men are so self-centered they think it's a revolutionary concept that someone listens to the other person during a conversation, instead of just "waiting for their turn to speak"

>>81825607 (OP)
>It's about emotional growth
>It's about listening skills
Quick someone post the looks vs personality graph.
What the hell am I supposed to be listening to if they won't even talk to me in the first place

>>81825607 (OP)
what a fat piggy

>>81825607 (OP)
>women want a free therapist along with everything else

>>81825607 (OP)
I did, that's why I'm complaining, because now I see how immature and childish most women are. Especially the ones that were telling me to grow emotionally.

>>81825678
My nigger, this guy gets it.

>>81825607 (OP)
>Ummm have you thought about not being emotionally dependent on others??? No, I don't apply this criteria for myself and will rarely give you actual validation (if ever), but how else are we going to get betabux providers if moids keep checking out?

She's right in a sense (at least the first part, I got bored half way through) but she obviously ignored how important looks are. Looks are your foot in the door on dating apps, but if you can relate to women emotionally AS WELL as being hot, women lose their shit. It's actually a cheat code and a bit immoral to use considering how retarded women are, but it works.

>>81825607 (OP)
I kinda just looked at her cleavage instead of the text.

>>81825678
Not to mention that if it is the right male then she will disregard her supposed requirement fro this kind of emotional intelligence as long as he makes her tingle.

>>81825681
>what a fat piggy
She's not that big

Why do zoomers use those retarded single-word subtitles? It makes the whole thing unreadable.

How does emotional growth happen when 99.9999% of women never even give you a chance based on your looks? This is like saying "you just have to interview well to get that high paying job" when the high paying job never even looks at your resume in the first place before binning it.

>>81825607 (OP)
>ah yes you not having a single match or is surely because of le magical therapy

>>81825796
She needs to get fatter.

>>81825607 (OP)
translation
listen faggot i dont fucking care about your self respect if i dont have your pathetic whiney ass by the balls i dont wanna breathe your air
all the girls been fucking the same sexy whore guys for years since we dont want a man to have feelings for us and now you HAVE TO give me a place to live and validation if u want sex i am going to lie about who i fucked and cuck you and if you dont fucking fear my selfish whore ways you are a creepy loser because the only reason the sexiest guy on the entire earth isnt groveling at my feet and buying me cars and houses is because im too fucking feminist and good for him
so now i will fucking lie to you you disgusting little bitch until you BELIEVE you are creepy since you arent those fifteen guys me and my thousands of femsisters all fucked and if u dont think that makes you creepy ur a INCEL FAGGOT LOSER GIVE ME YOUR MONEY AND HOUSE I FUCKING HATE YOU
in the SOLE case this doesnt ANNIHILATE your self worth i will convince the pretty young girls to be whores so that they will have a go at perpetuating my wrath and hatred of you when they finally see through my bullshit

>>81825607 (OP)
translation
listen faggot i dont fucking care about your self respect if i dont have your pathetic whiney ass by the balls i dont wanna breathe your air
all the girls have been fucking the same sexy whore guys for years since we dont want a man to have feelings for us and now you HAVE TO give me a place to live and validation if u want sex i am going to lie about who i fucked and cuck you and if you dont fucking FEAR my selfish whore ways you are a creepy loser because the only reason the sexiest guy on the entire earth isnt groveling at my feet and buying me cars and houses is because im too fucking feminist and good for him
so now i will fucking lie to you you disgusting little bitch until you BELIEVE you are creepy since you arent those fifteen guys me and my thousands of femsisters all fucked and if u dont think that makes you creepy ur a INCEL FAGGOT LOSER GIVE ME YOUR MONEY AND HOUSE I FUCKING HATE YOU
in the SOLE case this doesnt ANNIHILATE your self worth i will convince the pretty young girls to be whores so that they will have a go at perpetuating my wrath and hatred of you when they finally see through my bullshit

>Halo Effect superimposing good traits onto the guys who look good and I swipe right on within a split second but I don't want to seem shallow so I make up this gibberish about emotional growth or whatever

Also I hope this fat jewbitch gets captured by the BHC (Big Hamas Cock)

>>81825867
She could stand to gain a few pounds

>dating apps
>"it's not about looks"
>"it's about emotional growth" ( you literally can't even tell anything about someone when you immediately reject them because of their looks )
Women telling the truth challenge (impossible)

>>81825965
Every single video you see of a woman using one of these apps they swipe even faster than men and it's like 1.6 swipes per second, they're not reading shit.

>>81825607 (OP)
I'm not sure I want to take advice, let alone dating advice, from a woman that takes "boyfriend applications"

>>81825607 (OP)
she doesn't even believe the shit she's saying. anyway she could have put the captions on her boobs so i could at least have had a nice view while reading this word salad. I wasted 98 seconds of my life and im never gonna get back

>>81825635
Yeah, that's like taking financial advice from a homeless dude

>>81825607 (OP)
Where am I supposed to show off the great life I have built for myself?

So I've sorted everything out. I'm fit, academically educated, financially successful, own a house and have plenty of interesting hobbies that I'm skilled at. I attend social events and go out on the weekends. And still there is no one in sight. For years on end. Is this what it is? Some of us get lucky and some don't? Dating is starting to seem less like an activity that everyone engages in and more like serving a life sentence with possibility of parole. Maybe one day I'll get extremely lucky and be able to get out there again, but, for now, I'm stuck behind bars watching everyone else live life.

>>81825607 (OP)
>the rapey out of nowhere
Sounds like shilling to me. Is this bitch a the rapist or what?

>>81825607 (OP)
SJW women have a problem. Because they have the SJW mental illness, they can't be happy until the only way for a man to be happy is if he's a self martyring cuckold. But because they are a woman, in order to be happy they need to have intimacy with chad and be railed by him.

She's a SJW baiting men into changing into the extremist collectivist doormat type. It's the same thing they were doing when they plastered social media with "A man voting for kamala harris makes me want to have sex with him". SJWs are using sex as a bargaining chip to make society more leftist, gay, and cucky, like bonobo society.
But when a chad goes by, she'll be unable to resist because their devotion to their SJW cause is weak compared to their sexual desires. She'll still cheat on you with chad and then demand your forgiveness because infinite forgiveness is part of the SJW's code of conduct for men, and so is accepting women's sexual liberation (the priviledge to fuck as many chads as she wants without having to feel bad, no negative impact to her reputation, no slut shaming allowed).
If you accept, you lose bc you're a cuck in a loveless marraige while chad gets the best of her. If you don't accept, she'll shame you, try to humiliate you publicly with whatever ammo she has from being in your private affairs, and divorce rape you. It's a lose lose with women like that, the only winning move is to not play.
Just let her be and be really greatful she will never be your problem.
Foids only have the power you give them. It's why they hate porn and AI gfs, it ruins their leverage. Porn sluts outperform the average foid at sex and it makes the foid think that they might not be able to get what they want and that thought mortifies them.

>>81825607 (OP)
Nah, think of dating apps as an ARG game you play.
Your goal is to fuck, the women also want to fuck, but they won't just fuck anybody the game is to convince them to fuck you.

Pick the right words at the right time, ask them on a date at the right place at the right time, go back to yours/theirs at the right place at the right time.

That's all it ever was. All you need to do is practice. Try a bunch of stuff. You'll fail alot, but once you get something that works then you're good to keep doing it. Like pretty much every woman will take her panties off for you if you're consistently funny and it's not even that hard to be funny.

>>81825914
This is kind of what a woman on Tinder said about me when my colleague told her I wasn't pursuing relationships at the moment.

Even he thought it was fucked up.

>>81825607 (OP)
So, men are to blame. Ok. But shes fat, so it really takes the authority away from her. Also, its obvious that a guy with zero matches or who is ghosted at the second message cannot prove how "emotionally grown" he is, so yea, i dont fucking care

>>81825635
I was ignoring her because she's fat, truth be told.

>>81826207
why were you using tinder with a colleague are u a homosexual

>>81826250
No, I wasn't using Tinder at the time, but he tried dragging me into it. Apparently it backfired.

>>81825607 (OP)
>On a quest to make men feel seen and heard.
So she's a pick-me?

>>81826406
>I'm only trying to do what's best for you
Typical opener for an abusive relationship.

>>81826657
>Typical opener for an abusive relationship.
Imagine if she abused you by holding you down and smothering you with her tits
That would be awful

>>81826970
>Imagine if
There's already a porn of it.
>Imagine getting what chad does while you don't.
cuck brained. Hit her up, she'd like you as a beta simp.

>ACT THIS WAY OR ELSE
fuckin fascist

>>81826406
She is on quest to be on my 600 lbs life.

>>81825607 (OP)
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>>81825607 (OP)
How do people lie like that without feeling a speck of shame?
You want someone that actually cares? Yeah right.

>>81825993
not that you're wrong at all but man that's a simp-trap. these OF girls don't get their main money from dudes subscribing then jacking off to shit. they get their money through guys on a parasocial trip. she's pulling out the big guns. looking for that whale. i can almost respect it in a sense. almost.

>>81826406
she's either more clever than most of her kind or has a good mind (read: e-pimp) running a play for her. imagine it. you just gotta get half a dozen crypto rich guys that got lucky as shit, or older guys also monetarily endowed on that hook. there are a few certain varieties of men that would take that bait big time. jacking off to a woman with gigantic tits, but she's talking to em all horny WHILE being "emotionally available" and telling them it'll all be okay. plus maybe just maybe oh man they might meet her and fuck her? shit, she might actually do it for all i know. couple grand a pop? have these cunts coming back again and again until their bank accounts are dry. not to mention the gifts and "providing a lifestyle" if they get in way deep?

like i said, much more clever than most of her kind, or a smart e-pimp.

>>81825993
>boyfriend applications
>look inside
>"How much do you make in a year (money doesn't matter to me I'm just curious)
kek sure you are

I don't want to "grow" by someone else's standards.

>>81826406
She's just exploiting lonely men to promote her OF, pretending that she "totally" understands your suffering as a male while she jiggles her tits, inviting you to check her profile for more and click on that link

>>81826183
How do i be funny i forgot how

>>81828702
say things that make you laugh and go aheheeh but avoid things that are only suited for such places as these. the funniest people always say things they think are funny, not things they think other people will think are funny

>>81825607 (OP)
She has an onlyfans so I don't care about anything she says. It's all an advertisement.

This lady is em-dashing us. That means she is trying to connect ideas about single mens existence to something else she watched on TikTok, this time about emotional growth, which may not be correlated. The format is short form video. The end result is more of the same a schizophrenic reality.
The schizophrenic is not able to unify the past, present, and future of his own biographical experience into a coherent narrative. He is condemned to live a perpetual present with which the various moments of his past have little connection. - Fredric Jameson, Postmodernism and Consumer Society
The em-dashing is a disordered way of thinking which attempts to connect or unify things where the end result is insidious...this time ignoring mens state and getting lost in online in some other rabbit hole of concern about emotions. She might believe all men are emotionally stunted in the first place and tried to solve it. It is a symptom of Gen Zs way of thinking. Em-dash everything. AI began using this way of writing for some reason. Makes me scared.

>>81825607 (OP)
>the reason people lose in swiping is... a factor that isn't even applicable until you actually meet.
Thank you giant titted foid with a three digit bodycount for these PRO TIPS.

>>81825607 (OP)
>just grow emotionally?
by buying Product from only licensed and accredited therapists

what the fuck is with the mentality - motherfucker do you think i am living in a fucking test tube right now? people develop with their social environments, mine was shit, therefore i am shit, therefore you are now going to have a BAD TIME. get fucked

>>81826183
>Your goal is to fuck
but this is r9k

>>81825607 (OP)
this is false because the guys who listen dont even get a profile view, instantly discarded as soon as a woman scans your face with their anti less than 8/10 terminator skynet vision. I say this as a man with a gf, im not even an incel but I recognise how fucking bad it is and when I was on dating apps it was like grinding an MMO. I did get dates, some worked, none lasted

>>81825607 (OP)
OMG this is exactly like the job market kek

>>81825607 (OP)
I hope she remembers that emotional growth speech when she ages out of chads roster and doesn't ragepost about men in age gap relationships / passport bros then.

>>81829799
This, she is on chad speed dial when chad wants a BBW which means she will be passed around like crazy. For now she likes it but it will not last long and then she will want first chad, then chad-lite and eventually even chud to pay up.

>>81825607 (OP)
didn't listen too busy fapping

bait used to originally be believable

>>81825607 (OP)
how can i listen to a bitch who sends me 6 words across 4 messages and then ghosts?

>>81825607 (OP)
I'm fapping so hard to her tits right now.

>>81825607 (OP)
This girl's a 2/10.
Fat + ugly face.
But she probably thinks she's a 7 because guys on the apps will fuck her on the DL, and she does videos online with her tits hanging out.

Ten years ago, the average woman wouldn't dare post photos of themselves dressed the way she is. She's just doing videos dressed like that like it's normal..

>>81825993
She's unironically ugly.
I've fucked better looking girls with similar tits, and I still did it on the downlow..

>>81825607 (OP)
>>81825635
>>81825644
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>>81825649
you think 'men' like this are capable of introspection?
>>81825660
its this

>>81825607 (OP)
This is engagement bait for incels so they have an emotional reaction to some internet whore saying something provocative. They will look her up and find her OF and then goon to her. Stop falling for the most obvious bait ever assembled

>>81825802
Lack of effects on the screen=less focus.

>>81832405
emotions are an extension of sexuality anyways.

>>81825607 (OP)
this outfit frames her body very weirdly. Looks like her legs go up to her tits

>Instead of complaining why don't you incels just grow emotionally?
How about our looks-matches actually fuck us out of our neuroses, and not reject us for Chad? Cunt.

>>81825607 (OP)
My two long term GFs got bored of me and threw me away
Women don't know what they want. Abuse maybe

>>81825607 (OP)
Sex with her boobs

>>81826406
>lets heal together
>pay to see my tits
I hope the worst for her.

>>81832219
teehee I still have no idea what this thread or the webm is about whore. cope and seethe.

>Sees profile on dating app consisting of pictures of someone
>Swipes left on them
>"He would have gotten a match if he had emotional growth"
????

the whole emotional intelligence meme is just the new 'persoinality', another way for women to distract and deflect from the fact that ONLY looks matter to them
its all about FACE

>>81825607 (OP)
I have 10/10 emotional skills after surviving 20 years of agony, but they wouldn't know that because I'm so ugly they don't speak to me

>>81825607 (OP)
>most guys are practically invisible

>>81837328
NO ONE HEARS A WORD

Geez, by golly, I wonder who made this thread?

Also any time a woman say it's not about looks and money, she's lying because she knows that's 100% exactly what it's about and it's scientifically proven over and over.

>>81838308
Me
I made it

>>81825993
I want to make her my gf so I can whore her out and pocket all the money

Where do you find women built like her irl?

>>81839413
breeding barns

Just visiting this place once makes me believe /r9k/ is just a despair trap

>>81825635
FPBP
However, you did right in not listening to her. The whore dresses like a whore and speaks like a retard

>>81825607 (OP)
>Oh wait let me just post a quick picture of myself showing how good of a listener I am, because clearly it was that my picture didn't show how good I was at listening

Hell yeah nigga. I was a lonely teenaged hate machine, with a new computer and an overteeth--I got awarded a psychology degree, the day that 4chan died. And now we're singing, grad school as a therapist, I--want to help people instead of hurting them by, them good old trolls on that asian chan, singing this will be the day we get laid; this will be the day we get laid.

t. loves talking to people and learning about people and personal growth.
Idk how technically true the OP image is but a lot of people I meet in like clinical sort of settings do have some kind of block here sometimes, it seems. What could you be doing better right now to allow yourself to grow past your personal flaws? I do get matches on dating sites btw but I've been at it a while

The reason behind women not swiping on my dating profile is not due to their evaluation of my """"emotional intelligence""""

You know what's scary?
This is how women get at their most empathetic.

And these types of clueless women become therapists. This is the exact sort of advice men actually pay for when they go to women therapist. If you have a femlae therapist, she's just a hot wealthy 25 year old who lived in a bubble her whole life and still thinks she knows how to give advice. Preppy girls with bad grades who bullied everyone in highschool are the girls who become therapists.
Male therapists are not much better. They were miseducated (brainwashed) by these same clueless bimbos, only now older.

>>81840334
So are you saying that after I go to therapy and learn to force my brain to stop recognizing the hypocrist behind the systemic issues that I face as a straight, white, man, that women will be able to intuit all of that just by looking at my dating app pics?

>>81840791
No, anon. These women carefully see every profile pic. They read the description. They analyze the background of your photos. And after careful consideration they will always pick the 5'2 skinnyfat guy with a witty description over the 6'5 guy showing his abs. Women are just so emotionally intelligent, you see.


But for real. If you want bluepilled advice that isn't so moronic. Dont go to dating sites, ask women out IRL. Dating sites are a meat market even if you believe in the bluepill. Asking women out IRL is probably bad advice too, depending on where you live you might get arrested for being ugly near a woman.

>>81825607 (OP)
How does this even make sense
How are you even supposed to be emotionaly supporting a woman when you cant even begin a relationship with them and get them to talk to you if you aren't a chad?

>>81825607 (OP)
What she is saying is complete bullshit, but even if it's not...how are you supposed to show your "emotional growth" and listening skills if you get 1 match a week and your matches always stop responding after a message or two?

>>81825607 (OP)
I'm unemotional

>>81825607 (OP)
She seems unstable

>>81828634
women will do shit like this and wonder why men think they're evil

>>81825607 (OP)
what's her bigsluttyboobiesfans?

>>81825607 (OP)
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>>81826406
fucking tragic hank ass

>>81825607 (OP)
>not about looks or money
Imagine actually listening to this retarded roastie and thinking she is correct.
Looks are first impression and long term dating.
Money si so fucking important to women for a relationship that if like me, you are a broke jobless neet, only botches you can get are the same

she doesn't even post nudes on her OF lmao the audacity of this bitch