Autist here, help me with female gamers - /r9k/ (#81834532) [Archived: 332 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/15/2025, 10:14:26 AM No.81834532
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So I play league and lately I ended up duoing with some woman on vc. Throughout the game she kept encouraging me when I did well and I did not know how to respond so I said thanks occasionally and I did not speak much during the game. After the game ended it was kind of awkward and I just said gg. She kept me added but never contacted me after that.

Pls help me as an autist with 0 social skills what I could have said or done differently I am not sure what she thinks of me.
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 11:34:06 AM No.81835156
what would you have done differently if it was a dude you were vcing with instead?
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Anonymous
7/15/2025, 11:46:51 AM No.81835263
>>81835156
"git gud faggot you play like a girl" might not go over so well here.
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 1:05:53 PM No.81835845
>>81834532 (OP)
Step 1. Invite to play an extended session
2. Just chat, see if there's chemistry
3. "I enjoyed playing with you tonight, lets see if we can set up another time to play"
4. Leave her alone for a little bit, no one except the mentally ill like an obsessive constant messager
5. Keep playing and talking, if theres chemistry and tension ask personal questions, if you're not in the same country or state, proceed with caution
6. Don't have any expectations, maybe you'll get a new gaming buddy, maybe a gf, maybe a long distance gf, maybe she doesn't like you and stops responding. Don't get butthurt over anything and don't expect to walk away with a sex toy woman
Anonymous
7/15/2025, 1:07:35 PM No.81835860
>>81834532 (OP)

theres nothing to help you with. its over