>>81836875yes, that's one of my favorite parts but I think it's also really hard to fulfill without messing it up. I'm torn on whether it's the ultimate betrayal (to me) or like a cute expansion of the family lol. But it's also a big financial risk. Not to mention what it could do to the kids if they found out
Would you like your wife and your gf to be friends if you had the choice?
I think dreams like that are pretty common, even among women who have no interest in sharing their man, so I'd be careful. Just bringing it up could lead to a big argument if she's jealous. Maybe her jelaousy will mellow out over the years though (i mean technically you could just do it behind her back, not saying you should)
>>81836893i think it's probably rooted in some self esteem issues. At least partially, but I've mostly overcome those
Surprises are nice but quite hard to set up. I'm still a bit shy and going up to women in an attempt to make them fuck my husband feels kind of sleazy. And my friends all have partners and I really don't want to fuck their men in exchange for my bf fucking them.
Of course there's always swinger parties and kinky websites but I prefer something more organic.
I do browse the profiles of prostitutes in my area sometimes (it's legal here) wondering if they'd be an option but then again that's even sleazier but it'd be really fast and easy.