>>81837040 (OP)This is why I go to a woman hairdresser and show her a picture.
They unironically do better and I'm a black dude saying this since I get a curly/mulatto perm (since it's easier to maintain than an afro)
I even saw my hairdresser do a dudes lineup and it was better than most barbers in my city that I've seen.
Showing a picture of what you want also helps btw.