>>81844659 (OP)my end of highschool / post highschool GF I went down on a lot. It was nearly a staple part of our buildup to penetrative sex. We were both healthy, fit, and ethnically compatible (german/ english + irish ). There's a pheromone component there were alien ethnic combos are just not going to feel the same pull.
She also had a tendency to starfish and was very difficult to please. One time I was tongue motoring her clit and entrance for like 10 minutes straight. My jaw was tired. Every muscle in my face ached. I took over with my hand for a split second just to ask, "should I keep going?"
And she just did that scoff sound and sarcastically said. "YES"
But then immediately stopped me like I'd ruined it.
We had a lot of sex... she blew me a lot and took in the mouth (but eventually started spitting) too. But maybe the fact my parents subjected my dick to the jewish mutilation ritual prevented a certain natural satisfaction in our relationship that eventually killed it.
Fast forward some years to when I was dating a chinese grad student she would pretty much go into clenching spasms moments after entering her - but we (both ways) didn't have that hungry mutual oral game.
>t. failed normieThe girlfriends where I ate box, no one taught me, and I wasn't asked. I was just drawn to it and did it (though frequent blowjobs did play a large part in making me feel obligated). Are you fit, are you healthy, are you young (fertile), and do you have raw ravenous lust for your partner in quiet moments just by catching his scent? Are your hormones functioning properly (no birth control, good diet, generous quality animal fats and proteins or at least an understanding of how to supplement them)?