i feel like theres a pattern here - /r9k/ (#81844959) [Archived: 290 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:36:14 AM No.81844959
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>meet someone i like after being heartbroken
>ruins me
>takes me 4 months to get over them
>meet someone new
>ruins me
>takes me 6 months to feel at peace
>meet someone new
>ruins me

oh boy oh boy i cant wait to see how long it takes me to get over this one
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:37:50 AM No.81844972
>>81844959 (OP)
maybe just maybe don't go into relationships then nigga
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:38:59 AM No.81844977
>>81844959 (OP)
well you have bpd but i do go through something a bit similar here?
i make robot friends and we build a strong connection to each other like we just get the other person and talk for hours at times but then they ghost me and i think about them for a while feeling bad. i hate online friendships
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:39:24 AM No.81844983
>>81844959 (OP)
Same but i'm a fag and it only happened twice
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:41:39 AM No.81844997
>>81844972
its not relationships. 50/50 onesided crush or situationship

>>81844977
all my online friends end up mean or end up liking me. i get it
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:42:06 AM No.81844999
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>>81844959 (OP)
I am in a similar situation and I feel like the new person is planning to murder me. I have proof.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:43:13 AM No.81845010
Stfu normalfaggot
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:43:50 AM No.81845014
>>81844997
>all my online friends end up mean or end up liking me. i get it
that sucks i think i am never going to maintain a friend for more than a year either irl or online fuck my life
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:44:30 AM No.81845022
>>81845010
this tbphwyfngasayfanfpysfb
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:46:15 AM No.81845034
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>>81845010
>>81845022
You can't sybau me.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:46:47 AM No.81845038
>>81844999
How can they murder you over the internet, please give detailed instructions
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:47:09 AM No.81845046
>>81844999
you should go to the police or a mental hospital
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:47:28 AM No.81845048
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>>81844999
the numbers...
of the post...
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:51:00 AM No.81845069
>>81844959 (OP)
so this is what happens to a foid after losing their virginity
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:56:08 AM No.81845106
>>81844997
And how many guys do you reject at the same time that you keep on the backburner?
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 3:58:54 AM No.81845135
>>81845069
im khhv

>>81845106
none im pretty straight forward. sorry you were rejected i guess
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 4:05:28 AM No.81845200
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>>81844959 (OP)
>meet Chad
>he ruins your pussy and ghosts you
>meet Chad
>he ruins your pussy and ghosts you
>meet Chad
>he ruins your pussy and ghosts you
>meet Chad
>he ruins your pussy and ghosts you
>meet Chad
>he ruins your pussy and ghosts you
>meet Chad
>he ruins your pussy and ghosts you
Ftfy
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 4:07:35 AM No.81845217
>>81845200
very cute chick all girls should look like this imo
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 4:26:54 AM No.81845390
>>81844959 (OP)
No such thing as foid loneliness only a foid refusing to date
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 4:29:03 AM No.81845407
why did my ex gf's keep messaging and meeting up with me after dumping me for years. They'd send me provocative pics, 1 without a new bf would do sexual favours for me too.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 4:44:43 AM No.81845535
>>81845200
read >>81845135 and >>81844997 dumbass

>>81845390
no such thing as male loneliness just a picky moid
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 4:46:14 AM No.81845552
>>81845535
i think most men will date a girl that loves them thats al lwe want
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 4:51:46 AM No.81845608
>>81844959 (OP)
aye op, if you're not larping i hope it gets better and you find better people to invest your time in. it's not easy, but so long as it's in person there's always someone hiding that's worth a damn
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 5:00:08 AM No.81845681
>>81845535
Sure stay to your stupid foid logic you dumb bitch, how about you watch a video on the subject faggot
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 5:16:22 AM No.81845810
mansplaining in here is crazy
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 5:41:02 AM No.81846022
>>81845535
>no such thing as male loneliness just a picky moid
Bullshit. You will never understand the male experience.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 5:42:47 AM No.81846029
>>81845535
I will literally date you if you add me and we get along but you're going to have some excuse to not date, which will conveniently come about after seeing a picture of me.
Cut the crap please.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:21:01 AM No.81846342
>>81846029
i dont want you. why would i want you. who are you. where am i complaining about being single? i am complaining about how long it takes me to get over someone and then having to do it all over again. i cant force myself to like you
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 6:58:10 AM No.81846621
>>81846342
>Just a picky mood
>Ew no I wouldn't give a non picky guy a chance
Gottem
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:51:19 AM No.81846982
>>81846621
blah blah blah ur failing at mainsplaining blah anyway does anyone here like bomberman
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 7:56:58 AM No.81847015
>>81846982
ME I LOVE BOMBERMAN HERO
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 8:07:47 AM No.81847079
>>81847015
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nPb2xhiyBXE&ab_channel=Video-GameOSTHQ
i used to listen to this song for like a hour while working
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 8:12:12 AM No.81847120
>>81846982
>Mainsplaining
You claimed that men are picky, and I proved that you're full of shit and that's not the issue. Now get off my board
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 8:14:02 AM No.81847131
>>81847120
man it sucks you guys are arguing with each other bomberman is great i love it so much
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 8:46:48 AM No.81847342
maybe just stay single
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:01:26 AM No.81847423
>>81847015
>>81847131
omg hello anon
ive been getting into it a little bit because my friend made me play power bomberman (is that a poser game?)

>>81847120
lmao i didnt even realize you were referring to that. i was being sarcastic to the anon i was responding to

>>81847342
ive been single all my life tyvm
i think i have alot of time before liking someone. i dont really get crushes, i get very devoted.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:09:09 AM No.81847473
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>>81844959 (OP)
i knew a bpd and they scared me into cowardly isolating myself and ghosting them, im sorry im prob the type that hurt you.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:09:33 AM No.81847480
Is there some way I could encourage you to take a nap on a busy highway
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:46:00 AM No.81847674
>>81847473
im not bpd

>>81847480
yeah lay some pillows down
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:48:17 AM No.81847685
>>81847674
>im not bpd
sorry then, just sounded a little like what bpds describe going through
i hope you find someone and are happy for a long time
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:51:02 AM No.81847711
God, I hate you trannies. Go bother someone else with your 'problems'.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:53:55 AM No.81847728
>>81847685
well, you too

>>81847711
this is a public imageboard you are choosing to get mad and look at my thread instead of hiding it (which, if everyone does, instead of whining, will lead to less bad quality posts as a mass)

but i love bothering people
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 9:54:53 AM No.81847740
>>81847728
>Not denying being a tranny
Kek
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 10:09:08 AM No.81847827
>>81847740
you wanna make out with me so bad
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 10:12:18 AM No.81847854
>>81847827
ill make out with your cock with my asshole faggot
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 10:31:41 AM No.81847953
>>81847827
>tranny
>autistic
>insufferable personality
>constantly thinking about sex
Thats why normal people dont take you guys seriously
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 10:40:09 AM No.81847987
>>81847953
sorry anon i dont date... such a gentleman though uwu
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 11:46:45 AM No.81848300
>>81844959 (OP)
Stop breaking up with people
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 11:49:49 AM No.81848324
>>81847473
How? They are the least scary people on earth. They'll do anything you want and do anything to appease you.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 11:53:52 AM No.81848348
>>81848324
their obsessiveness scares me, i dont have the energy to be there as much as a bpd needs. they can also get triggered very randomly and get really upset which is scary as well because you dont know what will set them off
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 11:55:09 AM No.81848355
>>81844959 (OP)
stop "dating" people online retard
also if you unironically use the word situationship you need to rope ASAP
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 11:56:42 AM No.81848364
>>81848348
Their trigger is changing the way you treat them, or avoiding them for long periods of time. Few need constant attention like the memes. It's just not being completely avoidant or dismissive.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:08:26 PM No.81848433
>>81848364
theyd get triggered over stuff i always did sometimes tho
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:11:08 PM No.81848450
>>81848433
That's just them being a foid. Though foods with it are way more extreme. But foids who'd destroy themselves for even accidentally upsetting you are far from scary. Just concerning.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:12:11 PM No.81848456
>>81848450
...they werent a woman lol
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:16:49 PM No.81848495
>>81848456
Hmm, that's odd. You are sure their trigger wasn't you randomly ghosting them, or avoiding spending time with them for very long extended periods of time? That's more the male ones.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:19:15 PM No.81848514
>>81848495
nah, theyd get upset over little things i do in texting, like i use "lol" alot as filler and when im generally rly anxious and they started interpreting it as me laughing at them when its just normal for me
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:32:12 PM No.81848618
>>81848514
Sorry to hear that then. Every female BPD (or suspected BPD) I have know was batshit and swapped to a new attachment fast, every male BPD (or suspected BPD) I have known was only triggered if someone was verbally abusive, avoidant, or ghosting and bedrotted for months or years after losing someone. In my case (I don't have BPD but I have some attachment issues similar). What set me off was someone I was engaged to being distant and refusing to spend time with me for an entire month, randomly deleting ways to contact them and ghosting (this is someone I am engaged to, not some rando e-date) so I had to frantically chase them down, or outright mocking my appearance, health, or aptitude in things I was accomplished in.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:33:44 PM No.81848633
>>81848618
Oh, and threats to leave.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:41:38 PM No.81848680
>>81848633
The kicker is they claimed to be 'scared' at the end of that month of genuine abandonment, because I became severely depressed. When obviously I was the one scared, and their choice to ghost someone they were in engaged to isn't something even people without issues would consider normal or something that wouldn't lead to conflict.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:47:42 PM No.81848708
>>81848364
nigga i dated a bpdemon things were great for two months then she stabbed me and fucked off to georgia.
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Anonymous
7/16/2025, 12:49:44 PM No.81848721
>>81848708
Foid demons are satanic.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 1:59:35 PM No.81849147
>>81848618
i see, im sorry you dealt with that anon. getting ghosted out of nowhere for a.month by someone so important would make anyone upset.
Anonymous
7/16/2025, 4:01:40 PM No.81850178
Add me I'm desperate lonely incel