Sudden erectile dysfunction - /r9k/ (#81855140) [Archived: 316 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:27:49 AM No.81855140
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>be me
>19 year old bisexual femboy
>also a 19 year old khhv
>meet an older girl (27) online who is into femboys
>we get to chatting
>turns out she is also really into virgins
>straight up offers to meet with me so she can take my first time
>even sends me nudes of her holding a piece of paper with her username on it as proof she isn't a catfish
>after some flirting we agree to meet up around the end of the month

The problem is, as the title suggests, that I can't get hard anymore. I used to have morning boners and would get erect at the slightest hint of stimulation, but my dick is completely dead now. I'm pretty sure this is because I'm too anxious about losing my virginity.
How do I get my dick to work again by the end of the month? I can't fumble this she is a 10/10 baddie if I fumble her due to sudden erectile dysfunction I'm killing myself
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:28:45 AM No.81855145
>>81855140 (OP)
>19
he's not 20 anymore it's over
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:29:35 AM No.81855151
>>81855140 (OP)
You can get cialis online in like 10 minutes nigger. Just do it.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:31:05 AM No.81855171
>>81855151
Don't boner pills not do anything for psychogenic issues?
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:32:29 AM No.81855179
>>81855151
I have considered viagra and shit like that but I heard that stuff fucks up your dick in the longterm. I'll use it if there is no other option but I'd prefer to get erect without relying on that.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:33:13 AM No.81855185
>>81855140 (OP)
Just be a giant pervert and develop a fetish for having a limp useless dick that can't even get up. That should get you hard
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:34:06 AM No.81855194
>>81855179
How often are you going to be taking it honestly. Once in a while is harmless.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:35:35 AM No.81855206
>>81855171
>psychogenic issues
LOL, is this a joke? it happens to mean what i thought it means
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:36:23 AM No.81855214
>>81855194
If I just take a boner pill I won't solve the core of the problem so my dick will still remain useless without the boner pills. The girl I'm refering to implied she'd be down to fuck multiple times, so I'd have to take boner pills over and over again if I don't sort out why my dick isn't working in the first place. I guess its possible that I'll become more confident once I have sex for the first time and that my dick will go back to normal after our first meeting, but thats not a guarantee.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:37:09 AM No.81855219
>>81855140 (OP)
How often do you fap / watch porn these days? Being nervous also absolutely has something to do with it but cut out the porn and fapping completely for at least a few days and get some good sleep and exercise
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:39:03 AM No.81855241
>>81855140 (OP)
>femboy
you cant say that without some sort of proof, man
post butte
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:40:01 AM No.81855255
>>81855219
I haven't watched any porn since we started chatting so thats around three days now. The only porn I fapped to in the last three days were her nudes (mostly because they're really hot and she wanted me to send her audio of me fapping). I did use to watch a lot of porn before that so that could play a role I guess? I do some light exercise and while I'm not super fit but I'm not fat or anything either
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:42:54 AM No.81855289
>>81855241
Nuh uh only she gets to see my butte now
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:44:16 AM No.81855299
>>81855289
i am she
post butte
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:46:28 AM No.81855322
>>81855299
If you really are she post pussy
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:47:30 AM No.81855333
>>81855255
3 days isnt very long but good keep it that way
I also struggled with erections when i first had sex but it eventually went away
Stressing about it during sex only makes it worse lol
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:50:00 AM No.81855357
>>81855333
So just relax and quit porn and it'll fix itself? I can do that, thanks for the only genuine advice in the whole thread
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:51:31 AM No.81855374
>>81855357
Id say so
In my case i was multiple times fapping every day despite not even being so horny so i would never get morning wood or random boners
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:51:36 AM No.81855376
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>>81855322
>pussy
meow meow
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:52:12 AM No.81855383
>>81855206
I can't figure out what you're trying to say.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 12:55:50 AM No.81855432
>>81855376
Her pussy isn't that color, you are not she >:(
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 1:04:02 AM No.81855495
>>81855140 (OP)
OP if it makes the nervousness a little better she probably understands the nervousness is making your dick soft, just chill and do as anons above advise
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 1:04:30 AM No.81855497
Trouble getting hard?
No problem, PM me, I'll give you my address, then you give it to her, and I dick her down for (you).
Easy peasy.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 1:07:50 AM No.81855520
>>81855140 (OP)
OP if she is really into virgins then she is probably used to that kind of nervousness.
If it happens and you're open with her about it she'll understand.
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 1:08:35 AM No.81855528
>>81855520
Shes also definitely a whore but i guess take what you can get
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Anonymous
7/17/2025, 1:09:05 AM No.81855530
>>81855495
She was understanding when we were chatting and I admitted I was a virgin. She was all like "I know you must be nervous, but I don't mind, I'll slowly walk you through it" so that checks out.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 1:11:50 AM No.81855562
>>81855528
She did have previous relationships so she would be a whore by this boards standards but I don't mind. I'd rather have someone older and understanding walk me through my first time than try and figure out sex with another virgin.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 2:14:49 AM No.81856128
>>81855140 (OP)
lmao this is like that isekai anime
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 2:28:47 AM No.81856262
>>81855140 (OP)
I think you need to chop your dick off and replace it with a neo vagina, problem solved.
Anonymous
7/17/2025, 2:29:44 AM No.81856273
>>81855140 (OP)
>Sudden erectile dysfunction
holy crap a talking fish