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Anonymous No.81868831 [Report] >>81868892 >>81868970 >>81869753 >>81870453 >>81871605 >>81874271 >>81874818
Will going to a cafe and talking to girls help my self esteem?
Anonymous No.81868892 [Report] >>81868977
>>81868831 (OP)
Yes but don't just go thinking one is going to fall over heels for you. Be polite, get to know them, and treat them like they're a friend or work colleague where there isn't any pressure to impress. The more you can become comfortable talking with them the more it will translate to other people. Be open and honest about your esteem issues with a bit of levity and
avoiding making it all about you. They aren't psychologists but they can help offer some insight from a girls perspective
Anonymous No.81868970 [Report]
>>81868831 (OP)
I want to kiss a kawaii maid!
Anonymous No.81868977 [Report] >>81869024
>>81868892
I don't know about this famalam
Sounds like a good way to get labelled a creep
Don't women hate the cold approach now?
Anonymous No.81869024 [Report] >>81869078
>>81868977
That is a cafe where it's their job to interact with the patrons and offer someone to chat to for companionship. As long as you're respectful and don't treat it like an escort agency even though those exist low key you'll be fine
Anonymous No.81869078 [Report] >>81869167
>>81869024
I wish we had places like these in the western world. I get its not a substitute for real romantic affection but it is a shame that there's no real places left to talk to women.
Anonymous No.81869167 [Report] >>81872656
>>81869078
there are a few but your best bet is the strippers where they offer lap services. go on the off nights and be prepared to pay. it'll still be cheaper than therapy
Anonymous No.81869753 [Report]
>>81868831 (OP)
These girls are so fucking cute
Anonymous No.81870453 [Report] >>81872557
>>81868831 (OP)
i wanna go to a lard cafe but i need to speak better japanese
i can just imagine these cows groping and feeding each other
Anonymous No.81871605 [Report] >>81872043
>>81868831 (OP)
they just want your money but they know their job is making you feel good
Anonymous No.81872043 [Report]
>>81871605
I'm pretty sure anon is aware of this but it could still improve their esteem and help make them more comfortable talking with people
Anonymous No.81872557 [Report]
>>81870453
Is this the apex of the female form ?
Anonymous No.81872656 [Report] >>81872702
>>81869167
do strippers / escorts even do such a thing? I always thought they were just for sex.
Anonymous No.81872702 [Report]
>>81872656
of course they do. Not all of them but they're still people and most tend to be a sort of socialite that spend a lot of time around people understanding their habits. Escorts aren't just for sex either. Lots of people hire them for companionship and they can absolutely help with becoming more comfortable talking with others. Heck I've known guys who will use escorts just to raise their status a little so they can attract other girls. Kinda like the marriage effect
Anonymous No.81873064 [Report]
I think we should focus on plump qts !
Anonymous No.81873073 [Report]
Pump the plump. Put your stick in the thicc. Slam the ham. Gape the cake. That is all.
Anonymous No.81874215 [Report]
I am begging you, if you can then please post more plump cute grills
An0nymous No.81874271 [Report]
>>81868831 (OP)
>Will going to a cafe and talking to girls help my self esteem?
Those things are girls?
Anonymous No.81874382 [Report]
>working my way up to fucking chubby girl I know again
>meet really great girl that might actually be worth pursuing for real
>she doesn't have the chubby girl's massive knockers
>heart wants to focus on good girl but penis says "put me between those fucking tits again"
Why are fatties so powerful?
Anonymous No.81874818 [Report]
>>81868831 (OP)
how can they kneel like that? I envy the strength of their knees