>>81868831 (OP)Yes but don't just go thinking one is going to fall over heels for you. Be polite, get to know them, and treat them like they're a friend or work colleague where there isn't any pressure to impress. The more you can become comfortable talking with them the more it will translate to other people. Be open and honest about your esteem issues with a bit of levity and
avoiding making it all about you. They aren't psychologists but they can help offer some insight from a girls perspective