>>81878152
Women are not "angels" we, as boys, tend to believe at first. It is only with experience we realize they're people like everyone else. You don't see any guy on the street as a loving, good person, right? Same with women. By being needy, unable to let go due to your experiences growing up, all you will find is pain, eventually. No woman will replace your mother, none of them will become the affectionate, person who will love you no matter what. Instead, you must be ready to be silently evaluated, judged every day. "Is this guy really the one?" "Is he capable of supporting me and a family?" If she feels like you haven't done your homework, haven't crossed the boundary between a boy and a man, the years you spend together will be based all around fun, but you'll start noticing she's "shifty" around the topic of settling and starting a family.
Don't let yourself getting roped in into such a relationship. I had a few relationships in my life which just happened, I never ever looked for a woman. I never used a dating app or a site. Women, just like men nowadays, can be teenagers in adult bodies. All about fun, afraid of "missing out" on something, which tends to turn them into consumerism obsessed empty shells of a person. They will avoid important topics, while entertaining everything that is fun, that may be sex, even lots of it, travels, buying stuff you two don't "need", but "the fear of missing out" or "our friends have one, we should too!" type of arguments. Look for women who want to have a family but not "one day", "maybe in the next 10 years".
