>>81881829I'd had a close encounter with a woman I met on 'early days' FB, but she noped out of there.
I figured that I didn't want to pass 21 without any fucks, so at least I wouldn't have to lie too much.
I used an escort agency in my city, there are many, and I had a cute escort over. Nice tits, first ones I ever felt up.
She was nice about it. Apparently, my mother heard that I had someone over, but stayed discreet (she was based, I miss her).
So my first time was okay; fucked her on the floor, but I had trouble staying hard in the rubber and I never came.
Did it another 17 times over the next nine years and I still never came. Turned out I need to be desired to be aroused. Had a few regulars.
I left it alone for eight years, then tried another one in February. Never got to fuck her, but she did make me cum (finally) with a lubed handjob.
I've had seven 'chances' to get an unpaid fuck this year and they all failed (ghosting, red flags, etc). Now currently have another one on the hook.
In a way it also came full circle, as the one DTF who did meet me noped out when she came to my place. Even though she couldn't accom.
I'm hoping that the one I'm speaking to now, a teacher in her 50s with big tits, will take me back to hers and I finally get an unpaid fuck.
>>81881908Yes, but it seems much more widespread now, thanks to fuck apps and social media. The 2008 cataclysm couldn't have helped either.
There does seem to be a lack of affordable 'third places' for people to meet at. Yet women are always on guard, cockblocked, or unavailable.