Thread 81877922

6 more years until i get powers

>>81877922 (OP)
10 years ago is when being a virgin was no longer considered humiliating.

>>81877922 (OP)
I lost it like a week after turning 21 and it wasn't with a prostitute.

>>81877922 (OP)
It's considered comical today too. Even Chris-chan had enough sense to hire a prostitute before he turned 30.

I think the goal post has moved considerably in the last few years, the Pandemic did not favors but we were already headed the way we are for a while. Still haven't lost mine, and I doubt I I ever will.

>>81877922 (OP)
It still is. Like only 3-5% of men are still virgins at 30.

>>81878391
>everyone else is just like me
This is a symptom of being trapped in your room irl and in echo chambers online

>>81878429
I'm not saying that, dipshit. irl, online, it's becoming more common to be a virgin in the modern day. It's not everyone you meet, but it's up from a decade ago.

>>81878407
I think it's more like 1%.

>>81877922 (OP)
It was way easier 15-20 years ago, Normies didn't have as much access to the web........There were a couple of dudes 21-25 picking up 17 year olds (age of consent was 17) everyone from my graduating class is married except for myself (got bigger goals).

Half of men don't reproduce. Some studies suggest that it's more than half. You can still have a legacy despite that. But tfw no gf has literally always been part and parcel of being a male.

>>81877922 (OP)
That meme chart is outdated

Real one is
>14 and below: You have attractive genes and good looks, you have been deemed worthy of having sex by the gynocracy.

>15 and over: You are an excess male, a surplus scrotal sack. Your only hope is to become rich and play your given role as an oofy-doofy betabux deluxe. If you are lucky and if you work hard you will have the honor of being the retirement plan for a well-used woman in her mid 30s.

>>81878497
>married except for myself (got bigger goals)

That doesn't make any sense

>>81877922 (OP)
7 more years! 7 more years! 7 more years! 7 more years! 7 more years! 7 more years! 7 more years!
I can't fucking wait to become a wizard. casting spells and shit. abra-cadabra bitch I cast fireball!

>>81878531
>142 self reported values

They didn't even test if they could lit what they claimed anon

>>81878615
I hope I get to choose my class. I wanna be a sun soul Monk so I can throw Hadokens.

>>81877922 (OP)
Less than two years. The truth is I knew I'd be alone forever when I was 18 in my senior year of highschool.

>>81877922 (OP)
why are virgin men seen as losers/failures but virgin women are generally respected and seen as pure/innocent? why the double standard? im a khhv foid and i dont really care about being a virgin it doesn't stress me out. just focus on finding the person for you or if u really wanna nut just fuck a prostitute

>>81878705
Something, something, masculinity or being a good fuck or whatever. Beats the hell outta me. It's always been a stupid take to me as well imo.

>>81878479
Cool, I get to be the 1% of something

>>81878723
ive also argued that you can just...not tell people if ur a virgin or not. you wouldn't walk around with a shirt that says "i've never gotten my wisdom teeth taken out" like who gives a fuck?

>>81878705
Well, the weight of seduction and performance falls on the man, so it is expected to have these expectations

>>81878461
>I'm not saying that
>But I am saying that
Okay?

>>81877922 (OP)
Who the fuck even cares about technically having sex when these women suck. They don't even care about being physically attractive anymore and go above and beyond to fake it instead of just not eating for a bit. You got a few minutes on her after however many guys and afterwards she gets even more dicks. Most these people bragging about sex they had but they're still falling at life not getting what they actually want or need.

>>81878407
What's the % of virgin 30yo women?

>>81878705
I will tell you the truth
I used to be a socialite in school and do you know what i discovered? All the mid girls and mid boys were terrified of speaking to one another or fumbled the social game when i tried to get them together. Naturally all the men end up chasing stacy because she is the most sociable and knows how to speak to boys.
UNIRONICALLY 90% OF MEN GET UNVIRGINED BY THE SAME SMALL GROUP OF 2-3 WOMEN WHILE MOST GET FUCKING NOTHING.
There is no such thing as an incel because the women that truly *fuck would fuck even an animal and they dont give a fuck if you are ugly or not, all you have to do is talk to them.
100% of the problem of no gf or no bf is created because people dont talk to each other 1 on 1 anymore and when they do they completely fuck it up or have insane spectations

>>81878922
You have the reading comprehension of a gerbil, you underdeveloped muffler sucking kike.

>>81877922 (OP)
No, this was made by someone young. It's like how Homer Simpson got older.

>>81877922 (OP)
5 years and I will unlock my magic potential.

>>81877922 (OP)
its the norm today, 1 in 4 guys are going to be single their whole life

30 wasn't viewed as comical it was just viewed as a distinct type of person you could end up as if you don't do anything

>>81879475
>not everyone is a virgin but it's going up
>how do you know
>well I'm a virgin and my online friends are virgins
>do you have any real life friends?
>no I don't
>how do you know then?
>I read pop journo articles with "studies" which in any other context I would reject
Okay?

>>81878479
This can't be real. I'm in my late 20s and I know for a fact that half of my friends are virgins (unless they have secretly fucked prostitutes, which I'm not ruling out). Maybe this is just an effect of stemcel spergs attracting each other.

>>81877922 (OP)
i feel like we need another term to differentiate virgins and failed normie not virgins, seeing an escort prostitute should be BELOW remaining just a virgin, its the reason why the number of virgins is so low since losers cheat by seeing a prostitute and think they're now above regular virgins

>>81878407
>>81878479
Yeah this is bullshit. That data is old and men just lie. I'm a 32 y/o male virgin. Most men are single and don't interact with women. I see more lesbian couples now than hetero couples which you hardly see anymore.

>>81880115
It was in fact viewed as comical 20 years ago

>>81878336
Sorry but to prevent you from getting your powers we will send out a 4/10 femcel to rape your cock now
It's just business

>>81880300
>guys did you know if you throw away everything you love until you hate everything in life and want to die then you can finally get laid while probably not even liking it at that point

>>81880333
Just die then? Only in the last 40 years has it been possible for a pathetic fuck like you to exist. Shut the fuck up

>>81878336
I got two more years. I am sure I will make it.

>>81877922 (OP)
Indeed. Just goes to show how much fuck apps and social media ruined everything, by making women Chad-only.
Now averagecels exist. They would have been laid before the 10s. Now it's a sick fucking world.
I'd have been a virgin now in my late 30s, had I not escortceled in my 20s. I had hoped to graduate to unpaid sex, but nope.

>>81878336
i did tip to slit. but never inserted. im getting real worried about my eligibility

>>81881136
dunno how you even work up the balls to do paid sex. it seems so absurd. what what the first time like?

>>81878407
I don't think it's that comical. The rate of virginity and sexlessness in young people is rising. I think the idea of a 30 year old virgin is becoming more normalized.

>>81880361
What's pathetic? That literally is what happened in the movie and happens all the time irl. Fag

>>81881136
>averagecels
They were called AFCs even back then. The main difference is that people drank alcohol and partied more.

>>81877922 (OP)
>1 year before I get necromancer power and a kewl sword
based can't wait

>>81878479
>i turn 25 in january
oh man, finally i am the top 1% in something.

>>81878407
>>81878479
It's true. I remember being attracted to this cope in my early 20s, that me being a virgin at that age was just a part of a larger societal shift, and that it wasn't just because I specifically was so incredibly worthless and repulsive in women's eyes. But then I tried to research it more, and everything credible I came across pointed to the fact that it was still incredible rare to be a virgin at 25 or 30. And I realized that I'm indeed this repulsive. Seen as worse than rapists and murderers. Seen as worse than men with physical deformities. Just complete bottom-of-the-barrel trash with no appeal whatsoever. It hurt a lot and destroyed any shreds of my self-image attractiveness-wise I had left. I can't imagine ever asking a woman out ever again. Especially considering that I'm apparently seen as getting even worse the older I get, because women get less and less tolerant of inexperience.

>>81881981
Man, the US is learning that their prez is a literal pedophile and rapist and was best friends with a human trafficker. Material success doesn't mean anything about moral value, that includes getting interest from attractive women. You're /here/. Larping aside, you should know that.

>>81881981
I think having sex once isn't that hard to manage, you could just see a prostitute. But I don't think most young guys are having regular sex. Like I managed to get into a LDR and lost my virginity but I've had sex with anyone else and have been alone for the past 5 years. And I know plenty of guys in their early 20s that have never had sex or been in a relationship.

>>81882016
When talking about women's perception of my attractiveness, I was only talking about that in itself. I don't extrapolate their judgement as being somehow indicative of whether I'm a good person or not. If anything, if I was a bad person I'd probably do better with women, because I'd most likely be more disagreeable.

>>81881981
i have no idea where i fit into this puzzle. i was a loser weirdo nerdo kid in highschool, but...girls asked me out to the prom with them. i would ave never of gone on a date, ate at a restaurant with them then went home and attempted to have sex with them like this was normal, the shit you read in books and whatever. tried/did it all but the actual, sexing part. no penis in vagoo. otherwise yeah, did all that shit and sorta thought it sucked. i dunno how you could possible arguing being like 1 inch closer would suddenly fix all the problems in my life

>>81882054
>If anything, if I was a bad person I'd probably do better with women
Yeah the dark triad shit is real. Just accept it and stop judging yourself, women respect men more who see them as they are.

>>81881829
I'd had a close encounter with a woman I met on 'early days' FB, but she noped out of there.
I figured that I didn't want to pass 21 without any fucks, so at least I wouldn't have to lie too much.
I used an escort agency in my city, there are many, and I had a cute escort over. Nice tits, first ones I ever felt up.
She was nice about it. Apparently, my mother heard that I had someone over, but stayed discreet (she was based, I miss her).
So my first time was okay; fucked her on the floor, but I had trouble staying hard in the rubber and I never came.
Did it another 17 times over the next nine years and I still never came. Turned out I need to be desired to be aroused. Had a few regulars.
I left it alone for eight years, then tried another one in February. Never got to fuck her, but she did make me cum (finally) with a lubed handjob.
I've had seven 'chances' to get an unpaid fuck this year and they all failed (ghosting, red flags, etc). Now currently have another one on the hook.
In a way it also came full circle, as the one DTF who did meet me noped out when she came to my place. Even though she couldn't accom.
I'm hoping that the one I'm speaking to now, a teacher in her 50s with big tits, will take me back to hers and I finally get an unpaid fuck.
>>81881908
Yes, but it seems much more widespread now, thanks to fuck apps and social media. The 2008 cataclysm couldn't have helped either.
There does seem to be a lack of affordable 'third places' for people to meet at. Yet women are always on guard, cockblocked, or unavailable.

>>81882247
man what your horror story is "we had sex on the reg. and then we met up randomly and ended up having sex again nearly a decade later".

>>81882247
>it seems much more widespread now, thanks to fuck apps and social media
There's just an overall bad vibe in the world that's been growing for years. It's hard to pin down.

>>81882314
To clarify, the woman who noped out when I was 21 was not the same woman who noped out last month.
I think my only hope of getting laid is with a post-fertile MILF/GILF who is attracted/curious enough to actually fuck a misfit like me.
Despite my autism and bald manletism, I get some likes and matches; but it usually never leads to a convo, let alone a fuck.
I'm now trying to be brutally honest and direct about myself in my bios now. Admitting that I've barely had sex, have anxiety, etc.
Seems like it's a surprise to women (and fags) that I don't get laid. I would never admit to a foid that I fucked escorts though. kek
>>81882351
IMO, the 2008 cataclysm and the ramping up of globalism even more rapidly after that has caused a lot of problems in the West.

>>81882394
I couldn't even read this paragraph. Get your shit together anon. Why do you look down on women when you're the way you are? They're bad but you're seemingly worse.

Anyone got any videos of men over 30 discussing being virgin?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XTO-fe7uSK8

>>81881820
You are not eligible, get out normalnigger.

>>81880184
You can't trust these GSS because they don't account for the bias of disaffected young men being even less willing to do surveys than normal.
Where are they getting information on male virginity rates? Unless they are doing no-knock raids into homes they are surveying basically none of the 30 year old male virgins.

>>81879332
you can't just take an incel argument, flip the genders, and pretend it's still true dumbass

>>81878705
I'm neither a virgin nor a man and I've always seen guys who get with trash tier girls as way bigger losers than adult virgins. All the men I know irl who I consider "losers" date women who are one off comment away from me embedding them into the sidewalk. I have way more respect for the nerds I talk to on discord who just play games all day.