>>81893608>Why are men shocked time and time again when they go for or cherrypick stories from mentally ill women with childhood trauma, and these women end up seeking what they experienced as a kid in a partner?I think
>>81893587 has something about the "exciting" part but the other factor is simply information control.
I don't approach women, I actively avoid them because I was raised hearing how much women hate men approaching them in public. This ignores all the opinions of women who like it or who like it under certain circumstances.
Same here. "He was an abusive ass but I still miss his good dick, God he was AMAZING at sex" sticks out in the mind more than "I want a husband who's kind and wants to built a family." The later is more mature than young men are ready for and unfortunately kinda bland.
Aside from that, crazy bitches with shitty exs are more willing to talk about their sexual experiences and be excited about it, which is contagious but frustrating when denied to men. Good girls just don't talk about it and don't get men sexually excited. So the only women getting these men excited and thinking about sex actively reject them and date losers, resulting in men focusing on them out of frustration.