Well by standing up to my boyfriend yesterday when he was about to beat me I fucking finally actually managed to get him to see that hes been being a horrible person and hasn't changed at all despite what he says and that he has been threatening me less.
He finally actually admitted Im right on a bunch of shit for the first time ever, but honestly? It just pisses me off that its yet another case of a woman having to do a complicated ass dance to make a man think they came up with an idea theirself instead of just fucking listening.
But I need to give him grace, or else he wont listen to anyone else in the future because he had a bad experiance listening to me.
He finally actually admitted Im right on a bunch of shit for the first time ever, but honestly? It just pisses me off that its yet another case of a woman having to do a complicated ass dance to make a man think they came up with an idea theirself instead of just fucking listening.
But I need to give him grace, or else he wont listen to anyone else in the future because he had a bad experiance listening to me.