Thread 81903976

Starting to seriously think that maybe I don't actually like men and would just really like to be one

>>81903976 (OP)
What makes you think that? Not try to piss you off btw im just curious abt stuff like this.

>>81903976 (OP)
moid here

just wanna say, theres no way imma share my dick with you

>>81903976 (OP)
What gave you that dumbass idea?

>>81903986
>>81903994
I like masculinity, I was brought up by a stern father who wanted a son. He loved me very much regardless, but I feel like my socialization and values growing up were boyish. I only had boy friends, I thought crying was for sissies, and I got into wrestling matches with them (and my father once I was old enough lol). Currently I lift, I like nerd shit that genuinely only men like, and I like being strong and chivalrous. I see these traits in men and I think I like them for it, but really maybe it's more admiration than anything. Like yeah, I also want to be like that. I even had a "fuck feminism" phase as a teen, but I realized it was a bit silly and not very chivalrous of me

>>81904040
Feminism is just a collection of retarded self-serving but destructive ideological pollution, tomboys are better. Tomboys are great, just stay yourself. Crying is indeed for sissies, being an emotional wreck is not a good trait. Cool that you had a good dad, I'd consider a girl like you worth dating for sure, most women these days are braindead and brainwashed.

>>81904040
Anon, you don't have to fall for the pooner mind virus. You can be masculine and still be a girl, there's literally nothing wrong with that.

>>81904110
*still be comfortable as a girl

>>81904087
>Feminism is just a collection of retarded self-serving but destructive ideological pollution, tomboys are better
By feminism do you mean femininity? You phrased that like feminism was antonym to tomboy, when in reality most masculine women are feminists
>Crying is indeed for sissies,
Crying is not for sissies dork, only insecure people are afraid of being seen crying. Ire is also an emotion but it's socially acceptable for men to be emotional wrecks as long as the emotion is anger, but that's stupid

>>81904110
I wouldn't define myself as a tomboy because people seem to envision tomboys as hot feminine women who wear shorts and have short hair

YOU WILL NEVER BE A... wait a goddamn minute.

>>81904138
No, feminism is an ideology that puts women on a pedestal and femininity are just things that are considered girly. Similar in name but very different. I see you've been told that men should be vulnerable right? That's a psyop made to invite men to invalidate themselves. Men are not socially allowed to be angry or do anything in anger, you might be confusing the current immigration issue and low quality men committing violent crimes with the concept of being socially acceptable, but it isn't like that.

>>81904167
>Men are not socially allowed to be angry or do anything in anger, you might be confusing the current immigration issue and low quality men committing violent crimes with the concept of being socially acceptable, but it isn't like that.
What the fuck is this diatribe lmaoo

>>81903976 (OP)
why can't you just be normal, anon?

>>81904185
That's a pretty poorly thought out bad faith assumption. If you think everything you don't understand or disagree with must be due to some form of malice or other factor instead of reality then you'll stay a drooler forever.

>>81904203
A touch of the tism probably

>>81903976 (OP)
If that's what you really want for yourself then go for it. This isn't really the best place to be asking for support nor can anyone really offer you insight that will make the decision for you. It can take a lot of soul searching and making sure it's the best decision for yourself to avoid any sort of regret down the road. I wish you happiness in whatever you choose and please be aware there are lots of support groups for those in your position

>>81904226
no, i mean like, you're just a girl who likes "manly" shit - how did this translate to "i wanna be a man now"

>>81904235
screw off tranny retard. there is no situation where someone should mutilate themselves and permanently mangle their body in order to pretend to be the other gender, you even suggesting it as an option means you're trash, hurry up and be part of the statistic, there's plenty of videos out there of testimonies from girls and boys that had their lives ruined by the tranny brainwashing and teachers/doctors convincing naive children to mutilate themselves which they then regret due to being an abomination and now only live to serve as an example of others of how to avoid ruining your life

>>81904235
Thank you anon
>>81904263
Lulwat

As the saying goes nona: "grass is greener." You don't have to like men, but don't ruin your body for stupid delusions.

>>81903976 (OP)
I don't think you need to conform. Just do what you like without thinking about labels. You don't have to be a man to do those things.

>>81904154
Yeah but that mostly matter for porn or style tomby just means a girl who act like boys

>>81904297
Being a woman is a label as well
>>81904316
Yeah see that's what I mean. That's just a cute girl with short hair, I look more like Adam Sandler than her

>>81904263
I'm sorry you feel that way anon and truly hope that nobody close to you ever succumbs to depression or worse because of transphobic people like you in the world

>>81904428
>Being a woman is a label as well
I know, anon. I just notice people limit themselves to fit into labels and it's a bad thing. It makes a person unbalanced in my opinion.
>I look more like Adam Sandler
So a proper wrestler build then?

>>81904537
I think it's okay that we all have labels like that. Gender is a social construct but it doesn't mean it's not real. I like being a woman, but I also like being masculine and that leads being referred to as a dude some times, the post is less about questioning my gender identity and more about my sexuality
>So a proper wrestler build then?
Pretty much, I have an hourglass figure but I'm buff and very much not twinkish

>>81904428
>I look more like Adam Sandler than her
Are you a Jewess?

>>81904609
>I like being a woman, but I also like being masculine
Does that mean that you do or don't like anal?

>>81904609
>Gender is a social construct but it doesn't mean it's not real.
I get what you mean. It's a weird thing because the human body is capable of so much but I see people artificially making themselves worse. I guess I'm just confused as well because I've always been out of place in the world. I do feel masculine but I don't always express it in a typical way.
>more about my sexuality
Wouldn't it be great to have a partner you admire and respect though? Or you think you'd prefer taking care of someone weaker?
>Pretty much, I have an hourglass figure but I'm buff and very much not twinkish
Nooooo, don't go lesbian

>>81904700
How do you express your masculinity?
>Wouldn't it be great to have a partner you admire and respect though? Or you think you'd prefer taking care of someone weaker?
It's not that black and white. I guess in all I appreciate people with "androgynous attitudes", if that makes sense? 2 of the 3 boys I've been in love with turned out to be gay lol. They weren't necessarily femboys or anything, in fact one of them was pretty masculine, but they weren't afraid of being seen crying, groomed themselves, and liked cooking. They also were into something I wasn't, like say, some stem discipline, and that's something I also respect and admire even if I don't want to adopt the hobby myself
>>81904667
No, but I've been told I look Jewish because I have a strong nose :P

>>81904927
>How do you express your masculinity?
I think I'm tough and assured, but I don't like attention. I prefer being humble instead of being "confident", not that I'm not confident in my abilities. I like to be in control but I am not outwardly dominant. I prefer letting people express themselves and I guide them if I need to. I'm also generally not a very aggressive person unless I'm forced. I try to be very nice but I absolutely can make someone suffer if I have to, one way or the other. I guess I just like to preserve harmony so I prefer to be subtle in general, especially since trying to impose my values isn't gonna go well as I am just a bit weird and my standards in general are too high. Body-wise, I don't go for raw strength, I try to be balanced, so I'm still quite lean.
>androgynous attitudes
Hmmm, I wonder if my attitudes count as that? But yeah, I guess I want a gf with attitudes like that too. I don't think toughness and humility should be one or the other.
>that's something I also respect and admire even if I don't want to adopt the hobby myself
That would be ideal. Having a few common interests but also different enough to have a different perspective to life. Did you end up dating anyone?

>>81904428
> I look more like Adam Sandler than her

Then don't cut your hair or wear shorts, that stuff is just modern media trying to put tomboys into a recognizable style but in truth all you need for a tomboy is a biological woman who behaves like a man, a way better example is Robin from How I Met Your Mother, she looks like a Stacy but she prefers to do male activities and act like one

>>81904138
>Crying is not for sissies dork
Crying is 100% for sissies. Now being a sissy is okay if you happen to be a small child or a very feminine woman, but for the most part well put together adults should not be crying, especially in public.

Anyways. Being a man isn't just about liking manly things. Something strange is that I can pick up on you being a femanon from the way you type. The semester are different at basic physiological levels and you will always mannerisms that mark you as a woman.

I don't say this as a means of intimidation or anything. It's just how things are. But I will say I dont think anyone is truly happier after attempting to change their sex. An admiration for masculine traits is fine, even healthy, so long as it does not become an obsession. It sounds like you could be bordering on that and I would try to sit and think on that for a while.

Take care of yourself, anon. And please don't hurt yourself.

>>81905303
>The semester
*sexes
I apologize, my autocorrect has apparently decided to smoke crack

>>81904214
Youre a drooling poltard.

>op is gone
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