>be single mom with incel son
>he won't take mind-altering jew drugs to fix his issues
>take all your incel son's copes away
>complain that things aren't getting better

The comments are absolutely brutal normie advice. The top comment literally suggests in the first sentence to drag him out of the house.

https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/1m3ee3e/how_do_i_help_my_son/

why don't single moms have daughters instead? it's always a fucking son

I can't even get upset anymore. All I can do is laugh

>>81907778 (OP)
This is normal and quite frankly beautiful. Hopefully he never procreates.

>>81907778 (OP)
>in a band
So a normie, fuck off

>>81907807
single mothers never have a problem with their daughters because they think
>wow, my daughter ended up a washed-up whore like me! awesome!

>>81907778 (OP)
Weird how everyone is insisting in the comments that he needs a "male figure" in his life. At 21 years old that opportunity has passed, he is a grown adult now and he is on his own, it is entirely his mother's fault for not securing a figure like that in his life during childhood. Adding a "male figure" into his life now is pointless.

What can actually be done? Nothing. He will be miserable working a dead end job at walmart or in a shitty restaurant. He could go into the trades, but because he is such a wimp because he grew up without a father he'd probably quit after a week or less. His mother is just going to have to deal with the fact that she failed as a parent and tolerate the consequences of her actions: a permanent NEET virgin son.

>>81907956
Truthful nuke, at the least he's not an useless drug addict or a drunk.

>>81907778 (OP)
Autism is a curse. Dudes fucked

I see a lot of myself in this kid. Main difference is I went to college and got an engineering degree. Now I am working at a grocery store because I couldn't handle the workload of an engineering job lol. Seems that people like us are just doomed no matter what we do.

>>81907778 (OP)
Oof. Poor kid. He has made the Black Pill realisation that he is doomed, no matter what.
At least he is applying for jobs, but is predictably getting rejected and disheartened. As a mental case, he'd hate any job that he got anyway. The dumb father calls him gay because he's an incel. Not realising that women are Chad-only now. It is impossible to be motivated when there's zero chance of success. No wonder the kid just wants to cope and LDAR at home, but his bitch mother has removed his copes. If by some miracle he succeeds, he'd probably cut her off. Though it's more likelt that she'll probably be posting about his suicide within 12 months.

>>81907778 (OP)
>major life event in 2019
>father of the son is 'an asshole' who just wants to yell at the mother
She probably cheated on the dad and they split. Add Covid for the kid in his HS years and he never stood a chance.

>>81907778 (OP)
> be woman
> clearly from a humble background
> you fail at your humble tasks of keeping your legs closed and not reproducing with human scum
> unsurprisingly, your son turns into a depressed mess
> you are angry with the child you irresponsibly decided to bring to this world, and not only that, you demand that he just stops being a weak faggot (with nicer words of course) and starts making money (his problems? who cares lol)

Fuck, I was that kid a decade ago.
Thankfully, I managed to find a company that was willing to take me, despite not finishing my degree, and I escaped that witch (that now complains about missing me and that I don't visit her often enough of course). But I still remember those days with dread...

These stories genuinely makes me happy to read through.
No hope for either of them. The mother is a blown out roastie who already burnt through all her men. Her child resents her most likely and would go no contact on her if he could and both of them know they're fucked with no hope because mommy is too old to get a bf to help him and men's social clubs have been dead for years now.

Get fucked roastie bitch, enjoy spending the last quarter of your life watching your only legacy wither and die in front of you.
Feel a bit bad for the guy but we're all living through the same shit these days.

>>81908248
In that case a good dad would still try to make an effort for his son and protect him from his whore mother

>>81908569
Men are not obligated to fix a women's fuck up.

>>81908569
What can you do? Family law favors the woman.

>>81907807
Its doesnt change much, they still fail at raising and the daugher turns into a street whore aka next single mother

>>81908569
Its not even woth it, in most cases the kid is brainwashed into a faggot and the law favors and prioritizes the mother, better start again and abandon the failure

>>81908780
> you go girl
This, single mothers high five their daughters when they start banging 30 y/o men when they are 14.

>>81908897
Kek its so funny to see, bet at school and neighborhoods, " oh shes pregnant at 16? such a bless" and later finding out their mother got too at similar age and they have no father is the funniest shit

>>81907778 (OP)
Single mothers destroy nations.

They are the most evil people on the planet.

>>81907778 (OP)
And what are they wrong about? He not working, living with mom and not help her.
Better what she can throw him out of the house.

>>81907956
>He could go into the trades, but because he is such a wimp because he grew up without a father he'd probably quit after a week or less
unironically me. i'm a massive bitch and i don't understand why and i don't know how to fix it. i have no idea what i even can do in life

You hate to see it, but such is life for the autistic, fatherless, low status male.

I was a depressed young adult once, too, but I took responsibility for myself, got on meds that worked, and now I'm way happier and productive
you

>>81909553
>got on meds that worked, and now I'm way happier and productive
So what is the difference between that and becoming a heroin addict? Other than that you're productive (paying taxes).

>>81909744
I'm not sure I understand, there are a shit ton of drawbacks and expenses to doing hard drugs
I think taking a pill that cost me $20 for 3 months worth that curbs my mania and helps me get sleep is not comparable to heroin and you know it.

>>81907807
Men are more likely to be born in general

>>81909029
Unless you got connections kicking a youngster out the house is fucking stupid in this economy.

>>81907778 (OP)
He should never been born.
That is the best possible advice.

>>81909764
Oh I thought you were on anti-depressants. My point was that if someone's happiness comes from a pill, they're functionally not that different from a heroin addict.

But glad you can sleep now. Did you try any sleep studies?

>>81907956
>Weird how everyone is insisting in the comments that he needs a "male figure" in his life. At 21 years old that opportunity has passed, he is a grown adult now and he is on his own, it is entirely his mother's fault for not securing a figure like that in his life during childhood. Adding a "male figure" into his life now is pointless.
Absolutely. Before reaching adult age in growing stage male figures may be perceived as example and goal.
But after they are perceived as competition and reminder of the failure to losers.

Guy need unironically needs a girl friend in his life, she could fix him manipulating him into doing things for her sake. But today no girl would bother for losers. So its over.

>>81907778 (OP)
worst part is the amount of idiotic normalfags trying to give advice as if they know what he's going through
>just work bro
>just smoke bro
>just have friends and do stupid shit my dood

>>81909880
It was entirely due to mania that I couldn't sleep, so once I had an anti-psychotic, things got way better.
having taken antidepressants before, too, you've got the wrong impression. the pills do not make you happy, they make it easier to regulate your own emotions. They give you more control and ability to respond to factors. At least, that's what I found. They aren't a magic potion.

>>81909904
>19
>has no problem getting hired
>6'3
>has rich parents that can afford a 68 acre farm
>can afford college
>has friends
>has had multiple girlfriends and his only problem is getting ghosted once in a while
this are the retards trying to give advice to a 21yr old that has been failed by his entire family and left to die by society.

>>81909904
There is some sense in this advice. Only doing thing can move man forward. To bad he probably well below bar of start doing things, liek nobody will hire him.

>>81909940
This is realistic. I own a 25 acre farm worth 900k and women hate me. They do not really care about money anymore just height

>>81909904
>don't take away his electronics. why? he most likely has friends on there
I really doubt that.
>encourage him to work at Walmart;they have by far the most simple application process I've ever seen
I applied to work at Walmart, and the online form took 2 hours, partially because there were several questionnaires with like 75 questions. When I woke up the next day, I had an email from Walmart saying they weren't interested in hiring me. Other large retailers won't even set the robot to deny you the next day, they'll just auto-denied minutes after you fill out their massive applications. Take him to a temp agency or something sheesh.

>>81909957
of course you can move forward if you're tall have rich parents, a job, friends and a gf, the guy in the OP has literally nothing other than a single mom that seems just as losts in life as her son

>>81907778 (OP)
>Never raised my son to be self sufficient
>Took away his electronics for not being self sufficient durring a lockdown
>Moved to a new city so he had no friends of support structure during lockdowns when he can't make new friends
>made attempts to be self sufficient, but failed despite me constantly punishing him
>Tell him tp slay pussy, but also be respectful and don't end up as a socially shamed guy on social media by an attention seeking whore. He says juice isn't worth the squeeze so I think he's gay even though he isn't.
>Why is he so unprepared for life and unhappy?
Lady, you failed as a parent.
You offer no support, only shame. In fact every step you have taken has pulled the rug from under him.
You aren't trying to help him, you just think he'll "figure it out"

Only hope you have is push him to trade school, and fully fund it cause atleast that has a path forward. Otherwise stfu bitch.

>>81908134
read this as anime is a curse and proceeded to argue that im a weeb who has a job

The right move is to kick him out. He can afford to whinge about roasties and the jews because no matter what there's a roof over his head. Take that away and as long as he's not got a crippling case of schizophrenia, 99% odds that he'll work his shit out on his own

>single mother
>no friends
>no job
>probably autistic
>scrolls for +16 hours a day
Next E.R or Adam Lanza. Please don't let him carry.

>>81907778 (OP)
what is the point of reading these reddit threads and reposting them here?

useless whore mom fucks up her sons life and is confused because realizing she's part of the problem would require the humility of admitting fault (impossible for women)

poor boy needs to make one good friend who will be there for him and run, run and never look back. His parents are human scum and deserve nothing less than utter contempt for what they did to him.

>>81910192
i'd say it's 50/50 he either kills himself or endures years of extreme hardship and later success in life, i think it would be too cruel to just kick him out considering none of it was his fault, his family failed him, his dad failed him, his mom failed him, society as a whole has failed him, he's also got ARFID and im 100% sure he's also got autism, considering that he most likely will end up dying on the street.

>>81909919
>once I had an anti-psychotic, things got way better
haldol? you know that shit gives you brain damage right?

jif related

>>81909940
Normie nigger is 6'3 with a farmers build and a plot of land to inherit under his name. God I hate redditors so fucking much, fuck this kid.

>>81910192
Normally I'd agree....
One problem, bitch moved to a different city in the middle of COVID.
Any support structure he would have had to lean on to figure it out was stripped away by her.

His only path forward is training in a high demand job field with support.
So pay for him to get tradie training, then have him grind out his journeymen time, then have let him decide where he wants to go from there.
Kicking him out somewhere with no friends, no skills, no one he knows, and no support structure is just sentencing him to homelessness.

>>81910065
No, this is just zoomer men. I have a zoomer male relative by marriage and he is completely, utterly dependent, and he's 19 I think at this point? Can't drive, no interest in learning to drive, has to be driven everywhere, doesn't work, isn't in school, isn't making any moves to go to college, mostly just sits in front of a computer playing teenager games with his internet friends. Occasionally he'll meet up with his IRL friends and it's a mix of boys and girls and maybe some enbies or whatever they call them, he's obvious not some incel, he's by all accounts "normal" for his age group. He can have a normal conversation, he's not dumb, he's just. Normal? And that's the worst part.

Like any normal 19 year old these days, he can't do laundry, he can't do dishes, he doesn't know how to cook, he's never bought groceries, wouldn't know how, it would never even occur to him that's where the food comes from. Doesn't even really put food away after eating, he just leaves it there to rot or someone else comes along and puts it away. Probably doesn't even wipe his ass. Doubt he has a credit card or even a bank account fuck if I know, he doesn't care about "stuff" so in some ways that's good? I don't know.

I don't know if it's the corona lockdowns that made them like this but I find it grotesque and I can't stand being in that house for very long. He's an able bodied adult man and he lives like he got his legs blown off and PTSD from a war or something, zoomers are always going on about "trauma", what the FUCK do you kids have to be traumatized about, get real. Humanity is utterly, utterly fucked at this rate, they're useless, they're just lying down to rot, was it smart phones? Is it nihilism from watching MAGA take over (I guess I can't blame them for despairing, this is looking really bad for everyone).

>>81910287
bro don't you get it? just stop playing video games, get a job, start smoking and have friends to do stupid shit with brah ez, trust him he's 19 and has fairly good self awareness!

>>81910311
I moved around a few times as a kid, yeah it sucks to have to rebuild your friend group, I wouldn't be hanging out on 4chan if I was well adjusted but come on. Not being able to rizz up the ladies and "score" with anyone you meet does not mean you can't run a cash register and memorize the script for a basic retail job.

>>81910208
Because reddit is normie central. It is a chance for us to look at and see what the mindset of a regular normie redditer is and how they tackle a real life problem.
>Single mom has a son who failed to launch
>Most of that failure in this circumstance is on her and COVID lockdowns
>Rather than adapt and really think about how to fix this, she takes his shit away and punishes him for not being good enough.
>When he tries, she's confronted with the uncomfortable truth that the world she believes still exists is gone and it's not as simple as "get a job and fuck some pussy bruh"
I am happy to see atleast the first responses are just try to get to know his interests and take him to do fun stuff. That is at least part way to a solution.

The 2nd most popular suggestion was TAKE AWAY ALL HIS SHIT... except she did that and it didn't work. Doing it harder isn't gonna do any better.

She needs a plan forward for him. Trades and support gives him a way out.

>>81910369
how old are you? in the OP the mom says he's trying to find a job but no one hires him for his lack of experience, you probably haven't tried to find a job in the last 10 years, shit is fucked now specially for a 21yr old with no certificates no work experience, possibly autistic and completely despodent it's not like you just go to the job store give a firm handshake and get a job.

>>81909892
Why do you expect a woman to fix his life?

>>81910416
Most chain stores I go to have teens and early 20s kids working there, how did they get hired? I'm sure it's tough and it's not like it used to be, but these kids are getting the jobs somehow.

>>81907778 (OP)
Single moms make incel sons or whore daughters.

>>81910433
A woman ruined his life, why do you expect a woman to be unable to fix it?

>>81907778 (OP)
Dragging him outside won't help because no one wants him out there. Theres something going on at home. Kid's scared of the world, locked in his room 24/7, wouldn't be surprised if his mom was physically abusive because of his neurodivergency. The frustration in her post is palpable, she probably takes it out on him.

>>81910416
I was instantly hired at 20 with no interview and no job experience but I applied for landscaping.

>>81910352
>Is it nihilism from watching MAGA take over
Lol. It ain't "muh politics". Men have been told we are hated and not wanted for 2 decades now.
>Can't drive
Gotta give them a reason to want to drive.
If they never go out, uber everywhere when they do and don't have friends or a reason to drive... they won't drive.
There is a dude I work with who won't get a license. Shit blows my mind.
We saw it as the ultimate freedom.
They see it as an unnecessary insurance bill for not having anywhere to go.
>Can't do laundry
>No bank account
>Doesn't put food away
Teach him and make him.
That simple
This is shit his parents should be covering.
I didn't learn laundry till late in life. Was it cause I was a retard?
No, my mom would forbid me from doing it myself and punish me for trying.
Only when I moved out did I look it up and learn.
Help him open a bank account and explain how all of it works.
Punish him if he leaves food out

>>81910461
there's still the fact there are more workers than jobs, i honestly don't know what to tell you, im the same age as the guy in OP and have been trying to get a job since ages and nobody even calls me for interviews, meanwhile i have friends my same age that have no problem getting hired, i've copied their CV and everything they do and still nothing. in my experience it has been impossible to get a job nowadays.

>>81910369
Problem with this situation is it's not like a move in middle school. She moved as soon as he was 18 and then lockdowns happened.
She not only fucked his chances of networking, but lockdowns fucked everything else leaving a massive employment gap.
This is the kind of 1 2 punch that fucks you into the dirt.
It ain't even about rizzing up bitches.
This is "I can't get a recommendation from my buddy at McDonald's to become a fry cook"

>>81907778 (OP)
he is gonna an hero

>>81910555
I literally got my first job post covid just walking into the nearest fortune 500 and giving a form handshake and looking them right in the eyes, first try too with 0 experience. You probably just have autism or are a weird awkward faggot or some shit and people can instantly tell.

Faggot just needs a job and he would unironically get better within a year. Mommy just needs to use her normie nepo connections to get him one instead of expecting him to do it himself.

>>81910602
maybe but i don't think so considering i don't even get interviews, can normalfags smell autism through the internet?

>>81910521
This isn't a car culture thing. I don't like car culture, don't own a car myself, I think they're cancer, but it's kind of like social media, yeah it's awful and its destroying us, but you have to know how to use it and you have to be willing to occasionally take the bitter pill to function in society, some businesses won't even talk to you by phone it has to be insta or facebook or some shit.

So my view is get a damm license you parasite. You don't have to spend 3/4 of your money maintaining a car of your own, just be able to drive. How can you have any respect for yourself if you can't hop in the nearest car and drive a friend or loved on to the hospital or whatever.

And it's not uber either, doubt he has uber, since he doesn't have a credit card or a bank. He just gets the "adults" to drive him around, despite him being an able bodied adult himself.

I have my own ideas of how to fix this in his particular case but it's a symptom of a wider problem which is letting kids be "sensitive" and "traumatized" and "on the spectrum" to the point where you're making excuses for classic, million year old human laziness. There's a lot of room between being a joe rogan macho rah rah misogynist caveman-wannabe, and being a wilting lily that shirks basic adult obligations because of some pop psych from tiktok.

>>81907778 (OP)
She'll bash the father but is likely leaving out how she was a massive whore in the first place and did something to fuck the relationship up.
Even if she didn't, she chose to get with a piece of shit like the father.

Try to get him diagnosed with autism so he can get the SSI. Probably the best he's gonna get in life.

Lmao why are you niggers so useless. I'm a high school dropout and still managed to get a decent job and apartment with my girlfriend at 19. Have you ever considered putting in the slightest amount of effort

>>81910664
>dumb normalnigger with a gf has no empathy
figures, how did you find this board?

>>81910664
You were just lucky to be born normal, anon. All there is too it.

I don't think she's even concerned about his wellbeing. She wants him out of the house and on his own so she can FINALLY get rid of that responsibility.

I know a woman with a son with similar problems. She gave him to his grandparents as soon as shit got difficult and hopped back on the carousel. The idea that mothers are inherently decent is painfully unrealistic.

>>81910461
>Most chain stores I go to have teens and early 20s kids working there, how did they get hired?
They were randomly selected from a pool of hundreds or thousands of applicants. I don't know if Indeed still does this, but they used to tell you how many other Indeed users applied to the same job as you, and retailers had thousands of applicants for a single position. There are many, many people trying to get entry-level, no experience required jobs.

>>81910620
Suck it up before you give yourself a heart attack

>>81907778 (OP)
The future of all femcel's son's

>>81910684
>>81910689
I was a weird emo kid in middle school and coped with drugs and alcohol. I'm not a normie by any means

>>81910661
>Try to get him diagnosed with autism so he can get the SSI
all that shit just got murked by cheeto dumbass, he'll be lucky if he doesn't get aktion t4'd instead

good luck trying to explain how you were "merely pretending" to have autism before you get gassed by the miga death squads lol

>>81910727
>has had a gf
>was only weird in middle school
>has no empathy
>has no problem getting jobs
yeah you're a normalfag, being emo as a kid or doing drugs doesn't make you a robot, why do you feel the need to act like one?

>>81910727
Yeah dude that's totally not normal. When did you get your first gf?

>>81910727
Emo kids were always normies. Like every shitty social trend is made up entirely up normalfags.

>>81910714
Pretty sure indeed is bankrupt and they're selling off their user data to even more sketchy firms

>>81910727
>yes, i have a girlfriend but i did drugs n' alcohol therefore i'm not a normalfag!!!
fucking kill yourself
btw drugs are for normalfags too you fucking moron
also
>normie

>>81910773
Yeah, I used to hangout with emo kids when I was in middle school. They all had zero issues making friends and had no problems getting relationships.

>>81910714
this, as an example i just looked at a job working at KFC as a cook in my town it's been out since last week and currently has 342 applicants, basically you want a shitty job at kfc? you either fight with 300+ people or get fucked.

>>81910766
I was 13, she was 15 and cheated on me. I'm not some rizz God Chad
>>81910773
All the guys I played basketball with would call me a fag cause I listened to Black Veil Brides

>>81910404
sorry, but I still fail to see the point. ok, we see this particular normie (and perhaps a fraction of the redditors reading this) understand that life may not be easy. now what? they will scroll to the next reddit story and forget about it. these people will not and never change.
this is just a mixture of rage fuel, a reality tv show, and explaining a toddler how multiplication works only for it to forget it within minutes.

>>81910814
Nobody is reading 342 applicants for a fry cook job. They put the advertisement up because of some statutory requirement and then they gave the job to the old fry cook's roommate

>>81910817
you're still a normalfag with no empathy and should kys seriously why are you trying to act like a robot?

>>81910207
>single mother
>no friends
>no job
>probably autistic
>scrolls for +16 hours a day
literally me

>>81910817
>I was 13, she was 15
Yeah man, sorry. You're a normalfags. If you got to go through your teen years having normal social experiences, I don't think you can be considered weird.

>>81907956
>Weird how everyone is insisting in the comments that he needs a "male figure" in his life. At 21 years old that opportunity has passed
this. what was she doing 10 years ago? because that's when it should have happened

>>81910742
>Trump is... le fascist!
I thought your ilk got a software update that replaced this "angle of attack".

>>81910474
Stop expecting women to fix your lives.

>>81910817
>had a girlfriend when he was fucking 13
I seriously hope you get terminal brain cancer

>>81908202
This. It's sad to see, but it's even sadder to realize that people are still deliberately refusing to acknowledge the problem, even as it become more and more evident every day, and still places all the blame on the man.

>>81910619
I honestly just lied to get my first retail job, I just gave references to random companies phones numbers until an employer didn't check them. Normalfags will never admit it but most of them are lying or cheating their way to the middle.

>>81910868
drump isn't a "facshits", pedotard. he's a zionist, try to keep up.

>>81910352
>>81910521
>Teach him and make him.
He should have been taught as a child, it's too late to hammer discipline into him now. That I think is part of the problem, millennials are probably the first generation where both parents are working full time and don't have the time or energy to teach their kids the way of life, and it's only gotten worse with each generation since.

>>81907778 (OP)
Easy fix, just break his legs to give him 3-4 inches in hight, he will suddenly realize society isn't against white men, but white manlets.

>>81907778 (OP)
I was like this for a while and the only thing that made me change was myself. I got hospitalized because of illness (physical, not mental) and that's what made me realize I needed to do something with my life before I couldn't.

>81910620
But that's what you leftist women want, you've shamed and humiliated men into being meek, sensitive losers, enjoy your results.

>>81911060
My parents both worked and I was what they called a latchkey kid and I still figured out how to open a bank account, use public transportation, etc.

Of course I fucked up my credit and that took a while to fix but at least I took it upon myself to try these things.

>>81910850
I didn't have normal teen years. I was in and out of juvie/behavioral cause of my depression and drug problems. I still had the will to better myself though. I work at a car dealership and make a good living

>>81911122
Good for you, but realize that just because you could do it does not mean everyone can do it.

>>81907778 (OP)
i ended up like this and my mom is literally dead, my dad raised me from 12+ and i sit inside all day not leaving the house even after being kicked out. some people are just broken beyond repair.

>>81911060
this men should get back in the kitchen while women are the bread winners so that someone is around to teach (male) children postive masculine values

oh wait, men dont do that anyway they just fuck and run away like little incels oh well

>>81911123
Still way more normal than mine and you probably had no problem making friends. The main difference between you and the guy in OPs post is that you can navigate social relationships and find fulfillment in them. Shits easy for you.

if single moms aren't taking the virginities of their incel sons than they are simply evil

>>81911180
>men should get back in the kitchen while women are the bread winners so that someone is around to teach (male) children
I'd be fine with that but women aren't attracted to men that'd do that sort of thing. They expect you to make more of them and pay for everything.

>>81907778 (OP)
my mom did the same shit when I was younger
for some reason they think that taking away things you enjoy is going to get you to do things you don't enjoy
she stopped doing it when all it did was make me sleep all day instead of being on the pc all day

>>81907778 (OP)
>military is not an option
and why is this?

>>81910352
>Is it nihilism from watching MAGA take over (I guess I can't blame them for despairing, this is looking really bad for everyone).

c'mon man, we ain't seen NOTHING yet. wait 'til 2030. it's gonna knock your socks off.

I feel sorry for his son. Even though he wasn't given the tools, maybe one day he can be the parents he never had, if not for his children, at least for himself

>>81911217
tell me you never talked to a woman without telling me

>>81911346
You gotta be like a teenager or something if you think this isn't the case.

>>81910620
>I don't like car culture
Doesn't matter if you like it or not.
You have to adapt to the world.
>3/4th of money on a car
It's not even close to that much.
2 ubers is the price of 1 month of insurance. 1 uber is the price of 2 weeks worth of gas.
Yearly registration and state inspection is the price of 4 or 5 ubers.

Having a car doesn't mean you HAVE to use it.
Having a car ALSO means you have the option and are forever free to move along the highway wherever you need to go.

>>81911210
This. The mother should make her body available to her son if she can't find him a partner.

>>81907778 (OP)
>his father is a pos
yeah, the problem is you retard. this woman is the prime example of why her son doesn't want to bother, she reproduced with some 80iq zero self control retard. great, her son is not that, so why should her son bother? in a world completely stacked against him, that puts him at the bottom of every single hierarchy and list, that will always choose to harm or inconvenience him first over absolutely anyoen else, and when women are acting like his mother, why exactly -should- he bother perma grinding for some lottery chance?
man get fucking real

yeah that is only sensible one time, like the idea idea of martians is an impression

>>81911284
because he's a weak autist that will be shit on by every other grunt and she's aware of this

>>81911488
There's plenty of weird autist in the military. I'd say almost 50/50 split between chads and incels

>>81910856
she was still finding herself and living her best life

>>81910433
because that is how society has operated for ten thousand years you fucking retard, what do you mean?
i hate to break it to you but the era of women picking fully formed built up complete project men has literally only existed for less than 20 years.
for the other many thousand women were consistently paired up with works in progress, and they built their lives and built each other up TOGETHER.
bro are you people fucking brain damaged or what man, i swear to god the people of this era ignore the entirety of human history, insist we know better now, and society immediately begins to collapse because y'all don't have the first fucking clue about absolutely anything
men will only do things for women, period. if there is no women, they will not do anything. no matter how much you wish this to not be the case it doesn't fucking matter the entire species has operated this way from the point we stopped being marauding bands of raping murderers. fucking hell i hate you clowns

>>81908248
Nah, he was trying to set his son straight and mom decided to sabotage his entire life at 7 years old for max damage. No redditor had the balls to call her out of course.

>>81911797
Nah, the dad sounds like a shit head. Probably would just make the guy more miserable.

>>81912058
Clearly mom did an awesome job.

>>81911797
Bro...
She literally destroyed his life cause she couldn't handle dad setting boundaries and has not only fucked his upbringing, but ruined his shot at independence by moving him away from anyone else at 18 durring COVID.
Then she blames him.
What a cunt.

Lack of a father figure, typical.
Teenage boys need a mature male to guide them. What they learn as teens from whatever male they imprint on will determine their values for the rest of their lives. It explains every "hopeless" case here, anyone saying they are done with life at 20 has serious daddy issues.

>>81911681
>for the other many thousand women were consistently paired up with works in progress, and they built their lives and built each other up TOGETHER.
Thanks for shocking some sense into that retard, anon. This that I'm quoting is how you build long-lasting, pair-bonded, possibly life-long relationships

People also forget that women are imperfect beings that are not only capable of growth, too, but should, along with their men

>>81907778 (OP)
Stepping out of your comfort zone is vital for growth, and in cases like this it's clearly not a comfort zone. That's why you lot always feel so unhappy, you know you are shit and it's your own fault.

>>81907849
no true incel

>21 year old son
>take his belongings away
I think that's legally considered theft at that point.

>>81909553
Did you change your diet? Sincere question

>>81910521
For me I just don't have anyone willing to practice with me that isn't overbearing or distracting.
I don't enjoy driving but I acknowledge its necessity in this shitty American infrastructure.
I can't learn if I'm only given the opportunity not even once a month and if my only willing sit-in is my father who won't shut up and gets impatient about my shitty parking and demands me to get out of the car after a couple failed attempts. This isn't even getting into how I've had to bail his ass out multiple times despite working part-time and paying my share of the bills.
I'm 32 we're all too old for this shit. The old will eat the young.

>>81912819
>I don't enjoy driving
I didn't either until I took the nerd angle of it and bought a car that worked with openpilot. I wish I could get tesla FSD with a gas car. Watching my car drive itself is pretty funny. It's like an elementary school kid trying to drive my car.

>>81912819
Anon, I'm sorry your father is like that, but, just get one or two driving lessons, the rest comes easily with daily driving

>>81907778 (OP)
yeah i feel that feeling. why try? why do anything at all? what will it do for me?

when it gets really bad, i plan to shoot myself in the head with the cheapest single barrel shotgun i can find. thats my exit plan. thats as good as it gets.

the fuck am i supposed to do

>>81913821
Just rot dude, why die? We're approaching a time where machines and AI can do 90+% of the shitty jobs. Kill yourself slowly with alcohol like the rest of us.

>>81913821
>when it gets really bad, i plan to shoot myself in the head with the cheapest single barrel shotgun i can find
I can relate, I dropped out of high school and been a NEET ever since. Likewise, I already accepted that this life is not worth living throughout all of its hardships for people like me. When living comfortably as a NEET is no longer possible, I'll kill myself.

Some people are impossible to fix, that's just reality showing its true colors.

>>81910352
It's not politics, the world has gone to shit. Work doesn't pay and there is no work to be done.

>>81910856
>what was she doing 10 years ago?
Probably riding more sociopath chad cock.

why is there so much focus on the single mother part? ive had 2 parents my whole life and i'm literally this guy. Haven't went outside besides gym for 3 years. When you're autistic and realize there's no point doing anything why would you. Only normies wanna be corporate slaves for obese pussy

>>81914835
Being raised by a single mother fucks people up even if you are neurotypical, there are studies on this. Mandatory correlation is not causation mention.

>>81910274
why is it never young loser males fault that everyone didn't handhold him through life? and not every loser subhuman weakling has "autism"

>>81909904
>walmart
don't they have a literal exam before you are allowed to apply for stacking shelves

The father that's not in the picture is right, but for the wrong reasons. Women should motivate a man, but there's no hope for most men so there's no motivation.

>>81910727
that is the most normie shit I have read on this board

>>81914835
Single mothers churn out men like us at a higher rate, or criminals. It is what it is.

If he has ARFID he's 100% on the autism spectrum.
I have it and it's fucking embarrassing and stressful to go anywhere. No wonder he doesn't leave the house.

>>81912383
>Stepping out of your comfort zone is vital for growth
Nah, nothing ever gets better when I do that. Usually just gets worse.

>>81907778 (OP)
Ah, another fellow product of COVID lockdowns during high school, i see. I think that 1.5-2 years of lockdowns will prove to be the most significant fuckup ever made on recent history. Do you realise what lockdowns in your junior/senior year mean? It means no girlfriends, no friends, no prom, no school trips. It means that you end the part of your life when you're supposed to be making lifelong friend groups and experiencing lifelong formative memories by being locked in your room. Realise every person under 18 was forced to be an asocial NEET for almost 2 years. Before COVID i was doing martial arts, in a basketball team, going to competitions, gym etc. During COVID literally everything shut down, and when the lockdowns lifted most of the clubs were disbanded. We still had to wear masks the entire first year of uni and were not allowed to sit close together or stand in groups between classes, so nobody socialised. All the clubs and societies in my uni disbanded during COVID and none reformed. I tried to revive the uni choir, made flyers and everything... Like 3 people showed up. A lot of people i know never recovered mentally from the lockdowns and are glued to the screen and on discord for 12+ hours a day. The guy in OP is just a victim of circumstance, like many others.

>>81907778 (OP)
Honestly, alot of people out there must realize that their is little to no opportunities for american men anymore. The jobs are being outsourced to third worlders and ai, the women simply dont care about us, and we were robbed from having a decent future. If i told people on here its all by design, you probably wouldnt believe me.

Why are people criticising the kid
I had this same experience growing up and it only changed when I tried to kill my self and it scared me out of the spiral
I still didnt lose my autism adhd and dyspraxia and have had to live with it my whole life
Its not easy to stay sane with these horrible material conditions for men these days

>>81915829
I believe you but we kind of were never part of that design. We are an externality in economic speech, a whole generation of men.

>>81909904
This is my problem with normie advice and self-help books and all that shit in general - one of the first steps is to "talk to your trusted social circle of friends". Nigger, what social circle??? Like i was reading some book on how to stop having 0 confidence in myself and overcoming my self loathing that gets recommended everywhere, and you know what the advice given was after 200 pages? "just have a social safety net of good trusted people that will support you and help you and make you feel like you're imoortant to them" Like ??? No shit, but i'm a friendless self loathing loser with a psychotic manic mother and a PTSD riddled catatonic TV-gazing father living in bumfuck nowhere. From my attempts i've realised that if you're actually, genuinely fucked, there is no real solution other than "get lucky and have a friend group fall into your lap or beat your head against the wall for 20 years"

>>81911681
>men will only do things for women, period. if there is no women, they will not do anything. no matter how much you wish this to not be the case it doesn't fucking matter
Well fucking said, anon.

>>81911681
Well said, women need men and men need women.

>>81912058
We only have the moms perspective here retard

>>81913862
>>81913892
I know that feel, anons.
Though I am on 'bux, I'm still hoping for UBI so all the conditional and means-testing bullshit ends.
The sheer number of jobs (deliberately) lost to foreign slaves, tech, and AI makes it inevitable.
Letting billions die is not 'good optics', no matter how much the elites actually want it to happen.
Autists (of which there are many) are simply not compatible with these 'leftover' service jobs.
And all the foid make-work adult daycare nonsense. Wage-cucking is a misery that does not pay.

Single motherhood claims the life of another child in post-modernity

Sad! Many, many such cases

>>81915976
Okay, great. But you realise that 95% of women will never reach this conclusion on their own and will screech how it is literally rape for them, a 5/10, to have to be married to a guy who's 6/10 instead of getting their ass destroyed by 27 random 8/10 men on tinder, unless silenced and controlled by societal norns like in all of human history? Women don't care that to be fulfilled they need men and beautiful strong families and work towards that together with their husband, they are content with being miserable drug addicted blown out single mothers and parasites on society. And all the legal power structures in the world except from i guess the Taliban want to give them more control over everything, to kill their children, to remive men from workplaces, ti destroy marriages and families for 0 reason, etc.

>>81915483
I hadn't heard of that before this thread. Is that what they call a 'fussy eater' now? I have always been one.
TFW I have all the signs of autism (plus depression and anxiety diagnoses), but was never diagnosed as a kid.
Now closing in on 40, I've been trying to get formally diagnosed for a couple of years now, and I'm still waiting for a damn test.
Online tests say that I am definitely autist at the 30th percentile, the cusp of mild and severe. But it's not PC to admit that we have it.
God forbid that I was totally justified as being an unemployable NEET all these years, while the economy was completely shifted away from asocial people.

>>81914835
This. I have a father and a mother, been raised by both and ended up a wagie loser with no gf or friends. Some people are dealt with a better hand IG

>>81915694
>Nah, nothing ever gets better when I do that. Usually just gets worse.
Same, anon. I feel just as lonely going to a bar when it's busy.
Then I wish I was back rotting at home. Same difference.

>>81915849
Legitimate criticism would be more factual, they'd be giving tangible advice. That kid is in that situation because society hates him, so naturally society is going to bullshit him.

Why society hates him in the first place is a bigger question, you have to look into evolutionary psychology and the natural fear of strange men not of the tribe and contempt for underachieving whelps who don't contribute to the tribe and need ot be hazed into it. There is then a negative feedback loop where say, a 13 year old is depressed for a few months because his mother died or something, during this time he becomes a target for bullying for his behavior, which causes his friends to distance themselves from him and not invite him to activities, rapidly his social windows close and because he is just a kid he doesn't know any better and distracts himself with video games. Now he is in deep trouble because his social skills are lagging behind, while his friends go from kids to teenagers, he never goes to his first party, his first dance, never learns how to "rizz up" girls and so on. By the time he is 15 he is completely out of the loop and the other hyperjudgmental teenagers don't want anything to do with him.

>>81915829
>Honestly, alot of people out there must realize that their is little to no opportunities for american men anymore. The jobs are being outsourced to third worlders and ai, the women simply dont care about us, and we were robbed from having a decent future. If i told people on here its all by design, you probably wouldnt believe me.
Expand that to Western men and I've been saying the same thing, anon.
Two generations of men are invariably NEET and incel now. All by design.
Globalism and fuck apps ruined everything.

>>81916098
All that behaviour makes sense when we are in survival mode
Nothing about modernity is survival
Now we need autists and intelligent people more than we need hyper social fucktards who love to make talking to another human being a huge pain in the ass because of thousands of social codes and the normie preference for never stating anything openly

>>81915849
>Why are people criticising the kid
Because dumb nigger redditors would never attack the source of the problem, the mother and the failed policies they support that made the world hostile to young men.

>>81910934
It's simply biological fatalism at work. The whole process of life is raping and getting raped. Nothing can stop us from finally admitting we love burning in Hell already. How much we fucking love the idea of getting a taste of each and every unique horrific experience of being.

>>81916075
>Is that what they call a 'fussy eater' now?
Pretty much. Except on the more extreme end where you start dry heaving if it's a texture your brain decides to freak out about for no good reason. I've made some progress but any kind of gathering that involves food puts me on edge in case I make an ass of myself.
>Now closing in on 40, I've been trying to get formally diagnosed for a couple of years now, and I'm still waiting for a damn test.
I hope you can get an answer soon, anon. Try not to feel too bad about not having one though. Will having a diagnosis have any impact on your life? My guess is probably not, besides some realisations of "oh so THAT'S why I did that as a kid".

>>81916468
>Will having a diagnosis have any impact on your life?
NEETbux

>>81907778 (OP)
>his father was a POS
>btw i still had a kid with him
Lol. Lmao.

>>81916268
>we love burning in hell
deep bro

>>81916468
>Pretty much. Except on the more extreme end where you start dry heaving if it's a texture your brain decides to freak out about for no good reason. I've made some progress but any kind of gathering that involves food puts me on edge in case I make an ass of myself.
Ah. I retched every time I had vegetables, so I just avoid them.
Though my 'tism is such that I hate mixing food, like in fried breakfasts, and I usually eat the separate food items in the same order.
>I hope you can get an answer soon, anon. Try not to feel too bad about not having one though. Will having a diagnosis have any impact on your life? My guess is probably not, besides some realisations of "oh so THAT'S why I did that as a kid".
Thanks, anon. As the other anon said, a formal diagnosis will help me keep a firmer grip on my 'bux than I already have. Anything to strengthen my case is a good thing, as the assessors love throwing sick people off of it, and clearly autists are not welcome (or compatible) with this awful service economy.

>>81909794
>Unless you got connections
These are her son's problem, not her. He is not little boy, he is man.

>>81916695
>parents dont have to do nuffin
Brown hands typed this post

>>81910433
Are you too stupid to comprehend what you read? He said that she would manipulate him to do better. Granted, it would be worse in the long run when she bails and betrays him.

>>81917576
>he doesn't know that browns are the ones who live with their families for ages
Jackass hands typed your post.

>>81907778 (OP)
He should go work construction.

>>81912819
I spent $1,000 on driving lessons after my mom refused to teach me. She let me drive ONCE and because I wasn't perfect she had me pull over after five minutes. Turns out some random four foot tall indian woman making minimum wage had more patience for me than my mom.

>>81911060
>it's too late
If he is 19, it is not too late, fuckhead. Of course he has no future if he has been reliant on asshats like you to teach him.

>>81911284
She doesn't want him to be sent to die in the desert for Israel.

>>81916010
She tried to get him to help and all he did was say his son is gay and that women should motivate him. His dad would 100% make things worse.

>>81909892
I have a boyfriend like this and I can't "fix" his laziness, but at least he has a job and some interests in things like coding and video editing, just never pursues/completes anything he starts. I'd rather inspire him. Anyone have any advice for helping someone that likes gaming a lot to find time and be motivated to work on something creatively? Should I just ask him to show me whatever he's currently got or ask him what he thinks his next step will be?

How are so many people in this thread blaming the parent that actually stepped up instead of the deadbeat father?

>>81918026
Imagine being divorced raped by your wife for disciplining your 7 year old child only to have her come crawling back 14 years later begging for help after emotionally and mentally crippling said child. What do you expect him to do?

>>81911681
astronomically based post

>>81907778 (OP)
>single mom
>zero male figures
>inherited all the mental illnesses
>"he's suppose to beat the cycle"
It's over for him, not even being a doomer just stating an objective fact. Zero parental figures because moms 100% to busy fucking men or working (probably both), while his father is black.

This is the biggest evidence off us having barely any agency in our lives, im talking multiple generations of cause and effect.

>>81908176
I couldn't handle the mental stress of my first management job but I just got offered another one and I tempted to take it. Why is this world so cruel to us retarded softies

>>81913821
Not add to gun violence statistics, coward.

>>81907863
Ha! I mean, that made me laugh. It's probably so true. Big if true.

>>81918242
Put more effort into your shitpost, asshat.
>>81918258
You aren't special in this regard. Management is shit and very few people can handle the stress.

>>81915816
>no girlfriends, no friends, no prom, no school trips
this is high school for the average autist even without a lockdown

>>81907778 (OP)
Indeed drag him out of the house, sorrow pools when enclosed.