Thread 81909307

My irl gf is annoyingly clingy. We've been dating for like 5 months, and she demands i text her at least every 10-15 minutes and she gets incredibly hostile towards any friends i have, especially if they're girls. I don't go out to parties, i don't do anything crazy, yet she's constantly afraid that too many girls are trying to hit on me either IRL or online. how do i tell her to chill without setting her off?

>>81909307 (OP)
>clingy gf
fuck off

10-15 minutes??? how do people like you get a gf

>>81909307 (OP)
>how do i tell her to chill without setting her off?
Break up with her

>>81909307 (OP)
>Doesnt go out, Doesnt party.

How tall are you? Are you okay face wise?

>>81909335
I met her at my previous workplace when i was 16 and she was 18, i got her number.

>>81909337
She's overall a great person, and fun to be around, just very overwhelming and suffocating when she doesn't have stuff to do on her own.

>>81909365
Not sure what that has to do with anything.

>>81909390
Has to do with how you even got with this girl in the first place if you're on this board.

>>81909410
I'm 6'4 and i'm okay face wise. Like a 6.5/10.
But besides that my hobbies are very inside.

>>81909453
>6'4 tall
And there it is.

>>81909477
Do you honestly thing being 6'4 is enough to keep a girl obsessed with you?

>>81909307 (OP)
First kys
Second bitch clearly is Insecure she will literally bite a waitress for acting nice you need make her understand your boundaries while assuring here you are not dumping her or cheat on her witch i hope you do
>overwhelming and suffocating when she doesn't have stuff to do on her own
Are you being groomed or she is a dog assuming your 18 how the fuck 20 year old doesn't have anything to do
>Not sure what that has to do with anything
He is trying to assure himself that the only reason he doesn't have girlfriend is that he is not 6,4 or look like the giga Chad

>>81909778
She know's im 17 and she's 19. It's not a big deal. Im not being groomed lmao. And i do love her, just wish she wasn't as overwhelming. She genuinely like, "snaps" whenever i even mention that a girl is going to be in the same vicinity as me.

>>81909810
Good for you she is older but as a the partner with more sensibility you have to make her understand boundaries and not be psycho or your relationship will not last keep also make sure she doesn't go through your phone somehow also you get banned for not being 18 on here retard wish you the best kys NOW

>>81909307 (OP)
I will never understand how people like you end up in my ideal situation and then think it's a problem. I'd jill for a gf like that.

>>81909453
>I'm 6'4
Makes sense

That's not being clingy, that's being psychotic. It will get worse the longer you tolerate it, she can feel that you're weak whenever you let her throw her tantrums and let her dominate your actions. Draw boundaries clearly, lay down the law and stick to it.

>>81910891
It sounds fun until you want to do other shit. Like i wanna go hang out with other friends or draw and having a person who needs to be texted every 10 minutes is not fun.

>>81911131
Look, i get the tall=girl's attention stuff, and to some extent it's true, but not to this level. She'll showup to my house without texting me, and since i cant really send her home, i let her in and it's a fucking impossible task to get her to leave.

>>81911169
She's constantly worried about me leaving her, or me finding some other girl, and even after hours of hanging out, or helping her after breakdowns, she's back to it after a day.

>>81910891
It used to drive me crazy desu I couldn't stand how people would humblebrag about what I dreamt for and complain about how much they hate it.
Then they'll say unbelievably inane tripe like
>it's good until you want to do X or Y or Z
Maybe I already don't X and Y and Z, maybe we are different people so the things which you find fault are things I find preferable. But of course I'm ugly and short so no woman will ever be obssesed with me.