Thread 81913043

Been e-dating for 2.75 years and I think we both know its over. We've never met up. We just call daily. He's in the US and I'm not

I dont think I want to live in the US and since they check tourists phones at port I'll likely get kicked out

I also have such bad health now that idk if I can be the housewife he wanted, or have kids

I think we both realise it isn't gonna work long-term and we should break up now, he's entering his mid 20's as a failed normie and I'm entering my 20's as a khv. He's already kinda embarrassed by me because he KNOWS e-dating is cringe

We call every day though and I think I'd kill myself if we broke up

Why don't you find a nice meek euro bf instead?

>>81913043 (OP)
end it duh

Sadge times at the Circle K

>>81913043 (OP)
dont care, get fucked

>>81913093
I'm not moving to shitty europoor countries

>>81913098
Probably should. It's fucking difficult though

>>81913043 (OP)
e-dating would be hell for me because i am incapable of Breaking Up a relationship ever so if i had some internet bitch i Had To call every day out of obligation, I would simply do it and effectively incelize myself for no reason in the process. such is the burden of having a sense of responsibility

>>81913181
>I'm not moving to shitty europoor countries
What if he moved to you? What counry are u from?

>>81913439
Maybe? I guess that could work but it'd really depend. But these questions don't matter cause I wouldn't even try date for a loooooong while if I seperate from my boyfriend. If I don't kill myself

>>81913383
It's hell and isn't worth it. Don't bother

>>81913043 (OP)
Online ex who's a girl cheated on me around the same timeframe, it'll be horrible but you'll somehow get over it. Fuck it is tough though

>>81913043 (OP)
I feel happy that your stupid bf will never meet you. It fills me with joy. He will find someone else. It's only a matter of time.

>>81913778
It was tough in 1 month e-relationships, it took 3 months to get over, so I can only imagine how hard this is going to be. It'll probably be years before I fully recover

>>81913799
Well aren't you a miserable little faggot

>>81913043 (OP)
>We've never met up. We just call daily. He's in the US and I'm not
why cant you two fuck ups just buy a plane and visit each other

>>81913848
He doesn't want to come here. I wanted to visit but with the shit going on the the US I'm too scared to go. Plus he wants me to stay for a few months and I can only realistically stay 6 weeks. He wants me to stay on his mothers dime. He doesn't have a job and neither do I

I did save up $3k of disability money though

>>81913905
where do u live in that it's such an issue?

>>81913828
>Well aren't you a miserable little faggot
It just makes me very happy. He will find someone better and I'm delighted in OPs misery.

>>81913905
>I did save up $3k of disability money though
You pathetic soul. Are you disabled? Your e-"bf" will dump your ass for sure. You'll never even get to hug him.

>>81913043 (OP)
can't he leave? The US is shit, having a ticket to a better country is something a lot of Americans want these days
t. got out via marriage

>>81913910
It's not where I live thats an issue (other than the price of travel and that my disability will get severed if I stay for more than 6 weeks) I don't really wanna mention it cause he uses this board too

>>81913953
I'm autistic. He is too lmfao

>>81913974
He's patriotic, voted Trump and still somehow stands by it. He thinks every other country is shit in comparison. He would never move elsewhere even if it was for me, unfortunately

>>81914005
>I don't really wanna mention it cause he uses this board too
ngl fair enough even tho you already said enough about him that he may know. odd that he still stands by trump despite the epstein list stuff. and i'm saying that as someone who would've 200% voted for him in 2024
it's gonna be on him for this stuff not working out then. pretty sad.

>>81914005
>He's patriotic, voted Trump and still somehow stands by it
So he is a retard?

>>81914005
>He's patriotic, voted Trump and still somehow stands by it. He thinks every other country is shit in comparison
well foid your fault for dating a low IQ autist

>>81913043 (OP)
I've been e-dating an American girl for almost five years.
I flew to visit her twice. She flew to visit me once. We both went to Japan together also.
LDR is hard, there's no real pathway for us to live together in the next few years and I'm not getting any younger, but I don't think I can meet a girl in my own country who will like me lmao

OP is Australian

>>81914037
There's probably quite a few autistic male trump voters here so I hope not. He copes hard about the list, says he wasn't part of that stuff and totally somehow didn't know. He thinks trumps denying its existence now because trump is scared he'll be killed by the elites

>>81914043
>>81914063
Yeah. I didn't know he'd end up this bad

>>81914120
He sounds mentally ill. You should leave him or at least consider other options.

>>81914081
If you've already visited her and vice versa, it'll probably work out for you. I wish you the best in your LDR

>>81914141
I don't think it will.

>>81914133
There's a lot of reasons to part ways but it doesn't make the idea any less difficult

>>81914173
date me instead OP I'm also Australian

>>81914173
>There's a lot of reasons to part ways but it doesn't make the idea any less difficult
Of course, but it's either him or you. If you wait long enough he'll be the one who calls it off and that'll be painful. You will never meet, obviously.

>>81914208
It'll be painful either way, no matter who does it

>>81914206
IDK why you guys think I'm Australian, I'm not

>>81914120
he sounds dumb as bricks i dont get why women would date low IQ men like this

>>81914227
>IDK why you guys think I'm Australian, I'm not
If you're not American or Euro or Australian then there's not much else you can be. South American? Kiwi? SEA?

>>81914227
>It'll be painful either way, no matter who does it
It'll be more painful if he does it. It's scary but it's better if you do it.

damn, imagine having someone love you so much they can handle waiting 3 years for you

>>81914246
could be north asia too.

>>81914238
He's pretty intelligent outside of political discussions and some other shit. He used to be super sweet and loving, we've had a lotta good moments and rarely argue too. Its a pretty pleasant relationship as long as we don't talk about certain topics

>>81914246
Like I said, I'm not gonna say because he browses here. I also don't want offers of relationships. I haven't even left my current one. How would you guys feel in that situation? Seriously

>>81914247
You're probably right about that

>>81914304
You're wasting your youth dating a jobless loser who doesn't even want to meet you in person.
Time to date me instead.

>>81914313
Like I said, how would you feel in this situation? Your GF of almost 3 years asks gor advice online and someone tries to get her into a relationship with them instead. You wouldn't like it right? Exactly

>>81913043 (OP)
what the fuck
why are you interacting like this guy pretending to be a girl has provided tits and timestamp?

NO TIMESTAMP NO TALKIE, retard

>>81914470
>SAAAAR I NEED TITS AND VEGANA I DEMAND BOOBI AND VEGANAAAA!!!!! NOWWW!!!!

>>81914476
The tits are ancillary. The timestamp is what's important, shit for brains.

>>81914481
>retarded cope that i just made up

>>81914486
>Retarded larp that I just pointed out

>>81914470
>>81914481
"Pls cheat on your bf for 4chan and become an undateable whore"

>>81914499
She can post clothed tits with a timestamp. But no timestamp means you're dealing with a man, probably a tranny, who gets off to your care and interest. I'm helping YOU, retard, unless you're actually OP sockpuppeting as an adoring fan.

>>81914506
>>81914506
>who gets off to your care and interest.
who gives a shit you retarded schizo, i post and reply to whoever the fuck i want
nta

>>81914506
I am OP, I'm not sockpuppeting. It's 4chan dumbfuck, its anonymous, you can pretend to be anyone

I'm asking for advice on my relationship. You're asking me to slut myself for 4chan. I don't give 2 fucks if you doubt I'm a woman lmao.

>>81914511
>I like being lied to and wasting my time chatting with a man pretending to be a woman
ok. guess you're retarded AND gay

>>81914519
>wasting my time
i'm on fucking r9k nigga. you really think i give a fuck who's a woman and who isn't? if i got advice to give out i give it, it's literally inconsequential.

>>81914517
You won't post so much as a hand with timestamp because you have a meaty man hand and a tiny dick. Fucking larpers. I really dont know why people indulge your pathetic fantasies

Truth used to matter.

>>81913043 (OP)
where are you living in

>>81913043 (OP)
Are you a third worlder like Thai or Chinese?

>>81914527
>YOU WONT EVEN POST A HAND!!!1!1
>Literally begged for tits and never mentioned hands

I'm still asking for advice and don't care what you think I am. It's not like I'm here to e-date you. Why do you care so much

Also no one asks for tits and timestamp anymore litetally name the last time that actually worked

If you really have no way to meet up then it is probably for the best to call it quits. I met the love of my life here, dated for 5 years and fucked it all up because I was too much of a fuckup to meet up with her.

>>81914537
Nah. I'm white. I've already said I'm not going to specify

>>81914541
>I'M GETTING AWAY BEING A MAN PRETENDING TO BE A WOMAN
No, you're not. YWNBAW, tranny. Your fat fingers would out you as a man the second you posted them.
>the last time that actually worked
Happens every day on this site with actual females. You know, the kind that like male attention and showing that they are actually women.

>>81914544
That's fucked anon, I'm so sorry. Maybe one day you'll find your way back to eachother and fix your mistakes.

LDRs suck. Its probably for the best to call it quits. Its so hard, though

>>81914548
I've been here for almost a decade and I've never once seen it work, and like I said I'm not here for you lmao. Are you really that fucking retarded?

>>81914562
You're OP? You're admitting you've been on 4ch for 10 years?
And you're
>entering your 20s as a khv
?

Fucking larper. You always give yourselves away.

i have never dated online
however, i have exchanged messages with a few north americans and europeans on a language exchange app to practice my english
well, i found their carelessness and positivity unbearable
they asked me to meet them irl because they were planning to travel and study in my country
and they asked me to be their interpreter and guide
but i did not understand these western girls at all
i was uncomfortable with their naivety in meeting me, a man in his early 20s whom they had never met, without any sense of caution
we are not lovers, and this is not even a date
in my conservative view, these careless girls need to be scolded by their parents or siblings

>>81914571
Almost a decade. I spent some of my preteens and all of my teens on this dogshit site

>>81914552
>Maybe one day you'll find your way back to eachother and fix your mistakes.
Praying for it every day. Just trying to fix myself now as best I can.
LDRs are definitely hard. I think they only work if you have a clear goal in the foreseeable future that you both can see. The moment that goal becomes clouded or invisible for either one of you there's trouble. And you have to be able to really see and touch each other in person eventually.

>>81914606
You can drop the act now

>>81914602
What fundamentalist -stan shithole do you live in? Almost all white zoomers meet people and make lovers this way. They all use Tinder. Are you a religious fanatic? Where do you live?

>>81914608
I really wish you the best, anon.

Yeah, I think its become clouded for us both now but neither of us want to admit it to eachother. I wish those conversations were easier. I don't think its ever been entirely realistic for us though if I'm being honest

>>81914120
>He thinks trumps denying its existence now because trump is scared he'll be killed by the elites
well, idk what I expected for someone who unironically thinks you can have a relationship through a screen, lmao

>>81913043 (OP)
>they check tourists phones at port I'll likely get kicked out
what is on your phone that'll get you kicked out?
also great idea talking to random /r9k/ faggots about this instead of him. sounds like the perfect inroad to a healthier happier relationship

I had someone I thought was "the one" but he told me we didn't have a shot so he dumped me, I guess he was kinda right but it still broke my heart and now we're not even friends anymore.

>>81914643
no, in my country, there is a culture of meeting people you met on the internet face to face irl
(i don't know why, but we call it lightning in slang)
i live in south korea
but i don't think it has much to do with my culture or even nationality
i just think i was strongly influenced by my stubborn father who had conservative tendencies

>>81914685
That is based and real-world pilled, people who think they know someone through the internet are actually insanely delusional. This used to be common knowledge.

>>81914675
We've been together since I was underaged and he was 20. 18 is the AOC in his state. You can kinda guess where thats going.

They kicked out other tourists for suspicious deleted messages. If they ask for evidence I have an American partner, well, yeah

I've asked here before for advice lmao

>>81914680
That fucking sucks. But at the end of the day it was probably better for both of you. Cause trying and having your heart broken later would feel worse

>>81914763
>Cause trying and having your heart broken later would feel worse
yeah I guess, I really wanted him, and I was willing to uproot my life and borderline worship him but in the end it wasn't enough. Maybe I'm a simple person and that's why I wasn't worth waiting for. I think that hurts a lot worse than saving a few checks and waiting.

>>81914763
>They kicked out other tourists for suspicious deleted messages. If they ask for evidence I have an American partner, well, yeah
so you just haven't tried at all?
>I've asked here before for advice lmao
This isn't helping your case. Talk to your bf.

The US isn't that bad, you're spooked.

>>81914727
you are probably right
and from what I know, most people are disappointed with the looks of someone they met online when they actually meet him/her irl
sadly, most people place a lot of importance on his/her physical attractiveness when meeting someone irl
i am average-looking and i don't want to be ignored by someone because of my unremarkable looks