Why would men rather kill themselves and/or others than open up about their feelings?

>>81913159 (OP)
death before dishonour, originally

>>81913159 (OP)
Is there a reason you've come here to ask such questions, newfag?
Unless you're a tourist, you'd know everyone here is mean. Very mean.

>>81913159 (OP)
You cant possibly believe it when guys say they cant open up. Regular guys do open up to their girlfriends or friends. The guys here just dont because they dont have either.

>>81913159 (OP)
the only living beings you can open up to as man are dogs or other animals that are not human

>>81913159 (OP)
Therapy is completely worthless to men, because men don't "solve" (delay and compartmentalise) their problems by talking about them with a credentialed "professional". Men solve their problems via action, and when most men have problems because of the unbeatable, immutable characteristics of 21st century living, they cannot take action.

I have a therapist I talk to sometimes, and she's mostly worthless. Male therapists are too. Mostly, I am significantly smarter than they are (20-40 point IQ gap, depending) and I am able to rhetorically destroy them into more or less admitting that I am right about everything and that they have no solutions. This would be satisfying if it weren't so depressing. I am able to just counteract any pathetic "self-help" suggestion they have, either because I am already doing it (eating healthy, working a fulfilling job, socialising, working out, fucking regularly, cleaning my bedroom) or because it's myopic nonsense that only works on women (travel more, see the world, try meditation).

Therapy is a fucking scam for women and low-to-mid IQ normalfags who are upset because they couldn't buy the new shoes they wanted or can't get laid, it doesn't work when your worldview and experiences are simply incompatible with reality.

>>81913195
yea, but a lot of guys ONLY have their gfs as the sole person they can open up to. no wonder they kill themselves.

Doesn't matter. You spend more than half a century, arguably more, shitting on men. You don't get to act like the good guys now.

>>81913159 (OP)
Noone give a fuck. Every woman I've attempted to talk to about my issues has either gaslit me or just gotten sick of me (or both).
>>81913195
This.

>>81913231
I opened up too much to my gf and we haven't had sex in a week. I am worried she isn't attracted to me anymore

>>81913159 (OP)
>men self harm
literally me u_u

It's okay to open up a little, just casually, but if you seriously want to talk about all your bullshit and be heckin understood and validated then you need to pay a whore/shrink.

>>81913159 (OP)
Opening up always leads to the people you care about exploiting that pain to punish you.

>Why would men rather kill themselves and/or others than open up about their feelings?
Because women are on record with getting the ick every time this happens.