Why are so many people rejecting friendships and relationships despite them being necessary for an optimal physical and mental state?

We know that loneliness and social isolation have the same effect on health and mortality as smoking 15 cigarettes a day, but people still refuse to connect with others.

it's not worth the effort. humans are too complex and deceptive. I'd rather just watch anime and wait for my life to end.

>>81914766
You can't live if you die in your 60s. Premature death means you can't retire.

>>81914611 (OP)
Sadly the only ones available are other dogshit human beings like myself, consciousness was a mistake

>>81914611 (OP)
You do you jigaboo

>>81914611 (OP)
Because they grew up sheltered, which fostered within them a fear of.... everything. Every possible possibility that could possibly go wrong, in their mind, will go wrong.
They're completely consumed by they own neurotic thoughts and feelings that they shelter themselves from the world in an attempt to avoid their own feelings.
But.
That's not how it works... It only makes it worse. And as it gets worse they double down on their own behaviors. Making it even worse.

>>81914611 (OP)
>rejecting relationships
>women not wanting us is us rejecting relationship
Kek

>>81914611 (OP)
>Why are so many people rejecting friendships and relationships
what friendships, what relationships

>>81914972
Most of this board did not grow up "sheltered". I went to public school and got bullied and abused there relentlessly for no reason.

>>81914611 (OP)
>Why are so many people rejecting friendships and relationships
I don't reject that, I'm just too busy to deal with anyone right now

>>81914611 (OP)
>same effects as smoking 15 cigarettes a day
>some people smoke 15 cigarattes a day since theyre 12 and live to 100
Im built different, lil nigga. Isolation is literally not a factor for me

>>81914972
When you guys start generalizing anons like that I really get bothered by how stereotypical and boring I am

>>81914611 (OP)
For autists, normies are hard work.
I have a couple of friends left that I barely see, but that's fine.
I am practically schizoid, except that I really just want to have a lot of sex; but no woman will deliver that.
No, I can't do the dating bullshit either. I just like to chill at home, so I will never be 'exciting'. All the good stuff is the sex.
Anyway, as an incel of more than 20 years, I simply never met any woman willing enough to fuck me and keep doing it.
As a NEET, I simply can't afford to finance a social life or relationship, and I don't like going out anyway.

>>81914611 (OP)
Because the more complex personality I have, the less likely I am to actually connect with someone. I took the improovement pill which made me an interesting non-NPC dude, but in a world of NPCs, it feels crushingly lonely

>>81914611 (OP)
>friendships
nobody wants to do anything besides get drunk and stuff their retard faces with trash, and you have to conform strictly to whatever the group thinks or be immediately cast out
>relationships
no idea what those are like but they're probably worse

>>81914611 (OP)
>>81915761
It always crushes me how stupidly non-self-aware an average person is, I used to think the people on this site would've been better, but so many of the times they are just man babies. There were a few times I was able to connect to a few people and think they might've been similar, but I just seemed to have overestimated them and ended up being disappointed in the end. I wish I was more normal.

>>81915033
Yeah same I learned that people are cunts and I kept going out and doing stuff and got harassed by random people everywhere
The normies are a fucking disease but because they are the majority they are the culture
Theyre all trash compared to their ancestors
At least I match up to mine

>>81915246
Correct
Autists and other neurodivergents should not be forced to interact with normies and deserve social housing and the ability just to study their special interests and submit findings to researchers

They wont even let train autists work on trains because they are too enthusiastic
Yet you know theyd make things run way better than the normies could
Normies are cunts gatekeeping the next gen of humanity

>>81914611 (OP)
good thing i only smoke ten

>>81914611 (OP)
most people seem irritated by me and want nothing to do with me, if they don't give me the cold shoulder literally all they talk about is how they don't like something innocuous about me or give me very blunt answers in a sarcastic voice or droney kind of voice like they are completely bored, it has been like this since I was 14, it seems like the wrong thing for me to do to bother people

>>81916007
get off your high horse please, you sound like a self-important cunt who use your own shaky sense of superiority as a coping mechanism and excuse to push people away. you are not as special as you think you are. fuck you

>>81916540
This is something midwits always say to people more intelligent than them
Get back in the bucket motherfucker you say to someone who wants better

I have the solution
I will rescue the escaping crabs then I will pile drive the bucket

Fuck you

>>81914611 (OP)
The human reward system that was wired up to be social was hijacked by social media. 4chan is a part of that.

>>81916540
But I don't really push people away? I'd like to wish I was more like the rest and I don't think there's anything superior about being the way I am, since it has brought me more trouble than good. It is nothing but a byproduct of my horrible upbringing which has led me to this point and even so I wouldn't call myself intelligent or anything like that anon

>>81914766
They aren't complex but illogical and full of shit. Complexity still holds patterns and rationality.

>>81916007
Unfortunately, intelligence is rare. Not sure where I can meet people who are both intelligent and fun

>>81914611 (OP)
I never had friends to begin with
>relationships
lmao

The blackpill is that having friends just means needing to waste precious time doing the most retarded shit ever so you can potentially guilt someone into the same thing way down the line.

>>81914819
Why the fuck would you ever want to live past 60 anyway?

>>81914611 (OP)
I haven't ever been "offered" a friendship or a relationship, I have never even had the opportunity to reject these things.

>>81914611 (OP)
Of course, you know how better for me.

>>81919303
so you can be a parasite on society for 20+ years

>>81914611 (OP)
Advertising since being a baby, convenience, the illusion of online interactions have made us prioritize loving things instead of people, it's a big mistake.

it's the other way around, people reject me because I'm not funny or exciting.

>>81919303
I'm almost 30 and can't imagine wanting to live to be 40 at this rate, just doing the bare minimum to stay afloat and praying shit gets bad enough to make things interesting or that something/someone just kills me at this point

>>81914611 (OP)
Many of the people who are rejecting socialization are the ones that got fucked over by other people, betrayal, humiliation, abused, etc with very little positive outcomes, and so they find it much easier and happier to simply be alone rather than risk any more pain.

>>81914819
>you have to work until your body starts to fail before you can start living
Fuck that noise.