How do I make my partner love me more as a BPDanon? How do I make him fully obsessed with me the way Im obsessed with him? I have been engaging in whats known as lovebombing, but you cant overdo it because then he will suspect something is off.

>>81930063 (OP)
Why can't you just actually love him

>>81930063 (OP)
You should act pathetic and needy for his affection, then lovebomb him after he gives it to you. Would work on me

>>81930080
Because I want our love to actually be special. I want him to fully love me in a way he loved no one else. And I want that love to translate into mindblowing sex he experienced with no one else

>>81930094
Thats a great manipulation tactic. I think I will use that. Thanks

I started seeing a BPD girl a few months ago and goddamn this shit is fuckin rough. I like her and she's interesting and we have shared hobbies and all kinds of great stuff but she is just so over the top with both the neediness and also with her total lack of self confidence. She is constantly apologizing for literally every little thing and is absolutely terrified to just exist and take up any space in the world. No matter how much positive reassurance I give her she always finds a way to twist what I've said and convince herself that I'm actually saying she's ugly and worthless. It's like she's begging for validation just so she can reject it. I really hope she finds some amount of self-assurance but it feels like she's expecting me to be the one to fix her and I dunno if I can handle that pressure.

>>81930063 (OP)
>lovebombing
This is just a narcissist projection

>>81930246
not op but does she split on you

>>81930094
did work on me but not for long. She manipulated and basically abused me. 2 years of wild ride.

>>81931249
>not for long
>2 years
anon..

>>81930063 (OP)
Are you trans?

I've always wanted a life partner. I want the kind of love where we'd die together as we are nothing without each other

>>81930063 (OP)
BPD woman are evil.

>>81930063 (OP)
This >>81930080
Obsession is not loving, it is needing.

>>81930162
Oh, I get it. This is a parody thread. I'm sorry the pwBPD hurt you, anon. I know the feel.

>>81930246
>we have shared hobbies and all kinds of great stuff
Do you know that she shared these interests before meeting you?

>I dunno if I can handle that pressure
Likely, you won't have to for much longer.

Research the BPD relationship cycle, think about your boundaries, and prepare for devaluation and discarding.

>>81931371
I am not parodying I am most certainly BPD and instead of suppressing it with medication I want to use it to my advantage

>>81931336
Not trans, you sound sweet but I prefer dating someone unaware of my BPD, or at least only finds out on accident

>>81930063 (OP)
My oneitis just posted this same image, which made me notice
What is "Mental Therapist" and "Self-Control" doing in the middle of a bunch of BPD symptoms?

>>81930063 (OP)
Kill yourself hang yourself burn yourself fry yourself shoot yourself kill all women kill all girls no exceptions

BPD people be like
>We love so intensely. No one else loves like us. We're the only people who experiences true love.
Then when you do something mildly annoying
>You mean nothing to me. I hate you. You deserve to be raped and killed. I'm going to accuse you of domestic violence and send your nudes to your family.

>>81930063 (OP)
Lock yourself in a padded room for the rest of your life. Not apologizing.

>>81931371
>devaluation and discarding.
Two things narcissists can't stand

I've heard if you attend groups with people with your disorder regularly it can help to make sense of the world easier so to speak. If you do that maybe you'd be able to approach it easier

>>81931632
How would there be a group for bpds if they are two percent of the population?

>>81931622
>>81931504
Yes I understand we have problems but we want love. And if Im in love with you I will love you more than anyone else.

>>81931660
You are literally incapable of it. You will never be able to function in society. You will make the life of every guy you get involved with a living hell.
>t. trapped in an inescapable relationship with a BPD psycho for 4 years now because she won't get the fuck out of my house peacefully and without retaliation

>>81931626
Yeah, them too.
But I think the vast majority of humans have a hard time when someone they love and who seems to love them does a sudden 180 degree hate-spin.

>>81931632
>>81931641
In a smallish city of 100K, 75K are adults, which means (assuming your 2%) 1500 possible people with BPD to pull a group of diagnosed, self-aware, seeking help.

>>81931660
Just be aware that most BPD love is very "deep" but at the same time very shallow and fickle. And most people's romantic experience with it will be like >>81931504 , or at the very least emotional distress before monkey-branching.
That's a generalization, not you the individual, but you have to be self-aware enough to avoid the pitfalls or else...

>>81930063 (OP)
You should kill yourself. Bpdemons, which are exclusive to women, are dangerous for men. Gaslighting, manipulating, guilt tripping, projecting, deflecting. Constantly. You are a cancer
>>81930246
Get the fuck out of there, man. You will end up emotionally and mentally exhausted, as well as broken, like none other

>>81930063 (OP)
Just trust me, you think you want that until you have it. I have bpd and have a gf that is obsessed with me and lovebombs me constantly and is super horny for me and loves to goon with me and admits that I 100% bring it out of her.

I cheated on her last night just because I could. You would do the same in my shoes.

>>81931983
And when you finally have enough of their shit, you become their most recent abusive boyfriend.

I love the absolute seething from BPD haters whenever BPD comes up on this board. You're all so fucking pathetic and touch/love starved that the idea of someone loving you as intensely as a BPDemon does is like fucking crack to you all but none of you are emotionally mature enough to even handle actual love and so you just dwell on the retarded low functioning BPDemons that just hurt everyone around them... Just like you! :D
The higher functioning BPDemons avoid you fuckers like the plague because you just bring out the worst in everyone around you.... Trust me, I would know.

You'll never have our actual love because you don't deserve it, at best you're just food for the more malicious ones. Most of you are going to die alone, and we... We will always have someone who wants us, and no amount of projection will change that.
Seethe :3

God I wish zI had a yandere wife

>>81932150
Why do you do awful things to people you "love"?

>>81932211
Why are you such a little meek bitch?

>>81932211
The one who doxxed me because i called her out on showing strong signs of Munchausen by proxy so I let her know how much of a miserable cunt she is and reminded her that she deserves her suffering, the one who toyed with my emotions until she got a reality check and got bullied off the internet by me and my friend, or the on who's nudes I leaked after she tried to cuck me, manipulate me into a submissive position and then tried to talk shit and fan the flames of an ongoing situation that had nothing to do with her after I left her and so I leaked her nudes or do you just mean in general?

Because here's the thing about BPD, there are low functioning garbage people with no self awareness that just lash out at everyone to cope with their own pathetic lives and there are ppl who actually make efforts to control their shit and only really lash out at those who provoke us.
Robots hate ppl with bpd because they can't differentiate between the two nor do they have the emotional maturity to not take another persons love and kindness for granted. You're petty and mean, we're highly vindictive. It's a bad mix and it's your fault as much as it is ours.

>>81932290
>with no self awareness
Says the dumbass that dated a bpd

>>81932047
Exactly man
>>81932150
>I LOVE seeing people point out facts about bpdemons like me to warn others who are going to get fucked up mentally by them! Everyone should be able to handle mental and emotional warfare disguised our made up definition of love by us!
I can tell youre a foid by how hysterically youre typing and the absolute retardation youre spewing. I cannot wait until you hit a vein because we all know all you attention whores cut. You are a cancer and will always be left until you die

>>81932569
*as
You get my point

As a BPDemon I am absolutely entitled to love. Anyone who loves me I will love back 10x as much. You are missing out by not dating us unironically

>>81932649
I bet youre a fat ugly middle aged foid

>>81932649
You leech off actually decent guys then try to ruin them. And its not called love, you just care about someone giving you attention and validation until you move onto the next one

I cant even tell if this is bait or just a typical zoomette since all of you are retarded

>>81932569
Sorry for the slow response, I had to go out.
Not a foid and just... lol. Keep projecting. More retards like you kill yourselves than ppl like me do.
I'll wage war with those who push me and I always telegraph it. 4chan is a cancer that just needs to die, seriously fucks like you make the internet a worse place. Whiney incel crybullies who always form a cult mentality are why we can't have nice things and all just get along.

>>81930063 (OP)
Date someone who is lonely and receives very little/no affection in their daily life. They'll become addicted to the "lovebombing"/constant ass kissing. You occasionally have to show them that you're capable of leaving them too, otherwise they become too content and stop appreciating you.

>>81934264
Thanks for the advice. My current bf is somewhat mentally ill(adhd, autism, trauma) but has a good social net. I guess after this relationship I will go for someone who is much more depressed and lonely

>>81934357
>I guess after this relationship
tf is wrong with you?
Oh yeah, parody thread.