Thread 81934338

My girlfriend told me she's asexual. We've been in a relationship for 3 years, and things started going downhill about a year and a half ago. Until then, we used to have sex a few times a month, and now it's only a few times a year... which is really frustrating. When I talk to her about it, she says sex is painful and she doesn't feel comfortable. She's not cheating, she still loves me. But I don't know how to handle this situation

>>81934338 (OP)
>But I don't know how to handle this situation
Break up with her

>>81934346
But I looove her meen

>>81934363
>But I looove her meen
Then don't. Problem solved.

>>81934378
But I want sexy time

>>81934381
>But I want sexy time
Then break up with her

Punch her in the gut and then break up and tell everyone she cheated on you

>>81934403
B-b-but I lover her!

>>81934338 (OP)
>feels painful
ask her to see a gyno this sounds concerning.

>>81934434
>B-b-but I lover her!
Then don't break up with her

>>81934363
>looove her
She doesn't love you, though.

>>81934462
She does but she's asexual!

>>81934473
>she loves me but doesn't want to show it to me even though she knows I am sexual, honestly, she loves me, she totally doesn't use me while withholding what she knows I crave.
Stop being so fucking pathetic. Talk it off with her. If she doesn't enjoy it that much, she should at least do it for you, as in a relationship the two are supposed to be a team.

>>81934338 (OP)
Sounds more like she just doesn't like bottoming. Try having sex in ways other than PiV.

>>81934493
this, even IF she is asexual she should still want to have sex with you because it's the clearest way to show your love for someone and she knows you want it.

>>81934530
And let's be real here, she is not asexual, if she is trying to withhold from him, she is getting it somewhere else while he pays for the apartment and gets nothing.

>>81934338 (OP)
There are not asexual women anon, they all ovulate at least once per month. If they had any control over their sexuality, sadly our species would be extinct, she is fucking someone when she is horny and you are not it. She has you for betabuxing and emotional tampon shenanigans because Chad wont commit.