Thread 81939748 - /r9k/ [Archived: 118 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:33:23 AM No.81939748
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A girl used me for attention for 2 weeks, before going back to her ex of 2 years
Is that normal
Are girls just like that
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:36:55 AM No.81939772
>>81939748 (OP)
yes take the black pill now
Dimitri Alexandre Blaiddyd !!Lup2q3LQ5Kv
7/24/2025, 7:42:56 AM No.81939804
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>>81939748 (OP)
That happened with my last FP...A. Except I talked to her almost daily for a year...lol.
To be fair she was way out of my league though. Literally a 15/10 gigastacy like a Victoria's secret model with a very profitable job and apparently her dad (abusive, neglectful) was like a billionaire lole.

It was crazy how much she was leading me on she got cheated on by her ex who she met at Uni or whatever wasn't even that good looking like I think she was she was the one who approached and basically groomed me used to randomly hold and grab my hand and stuff insanely smart and perceptive crazy girl insanely popular too I wonder why she picked me out of everyone I still wonder if she was leading me on anyways yeah we did a bizarre mating spiral for like 1 year and she got back with her ex inb4 simp but I don't care I don't regret it this girl was really sweet...but a little bit cruel I suppose. Still on good terms with her though.

She wasn't happy though. far from it. I was basically her therapist for like 1.5 years...and the shit I heard O boy. She's basically proof you can have literally every blessing in the world...and still be miserable. (we both had BPD apparently she used to be like 200 pounds lole).

But yes some foids will do this...relationships especially among the immature or noncommittal are a lot of power shit...either hold the chains or be chained. Shoot or be shot. Kill or be killed. If you wanna avoid what happened to you...shoot first next time, alright?

But yeah females can be insanely inconsiderate and tormenting without even realizing it, its just how they are raised....though to be fair no one is entitled to a relationship or love. Still, it sucks to be discarded like a toy when outliving your usefulness. O well, at least there's like 4 billion of them.
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An0nymous
7/24/2025, 7:46:48 AM No.81939837
>>81939748 (OP)
They are evil creatures
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 7:48:00 AM No.81939849
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>>81939804
>cheated on by her ex
She vented this to me and after I consoled her, asked if I wanted to marry her

>this girl was really sweet
>but a little bit cruel I suppose
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Dimitri Alexandre Blaiddyd !!Lup2q3LQ5Kv
7/24/2025, 7:53:05 AM No.81939874
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>>81939849
Dodged a bullet anon. I'm BPD so I have FPs and I need a specific type of person but I would honestly recommend if you're e-dating just make the move and ask for commitment early and if they don't express clear interest just block them. Too many friend collectors...if you want friends like me that's fine but if you're looking to avoid friendzone if you don't get interest instantly then its over. Just move on.

Girls generally get so much male attention that they have separate mental categories for male friends and boyfriends and they decide which one you are from my experience usually instantly within a few interactions/intuition, which is pretty random when online and working off limited knowledge. No immediate interest means she doesn't care about you. You are just a rag to be used until you outlive your usefulness. Ghost and move on. If they like you they'll return interest.
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Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:11:46 AM No.81939981
>>81939874
this is true. the girls ive wanted made me chase for months and the girls ive had mutual interest with from the beginning let me hit it no matter how shy she was after the first date while continuing to say shes never done that before. also the model girl you fucked her well and enough times, right? dont tell me you didnt
Anonymous
7/24/2025, 8:12:06 AM No.81939987
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>>81939874
>I need a specific type of person
So do I,, there's a reason I fell for her bullshit

>ask for commitment early and if they don't express clear interest just block them
She had no qualms about lying just a few days before. I don't think I was really a person in her eyes

>No immediate interest means she doesn't care about you
She did the whole never leave mee we're soulmates!! thing within a few hours