Thread 81942146

aren't you little nervous that you're getting older and still single? especially if you have no experience
this both for men and women

>>81942146 (OP)
Why does it matter. i want to be loved but am awkward and a crybaby

>>81942146 (OP)
Yes, I am nervous. It's one of the things that eat away at me at night. But I'm already at an age where a lack of experience with women is seen as a gigantic red flag, and there's not much I can do about it besides trying to mask it and counting on getting lucky.

>>81942146 (OP)
I hope I will find the courage to kill myself

>>81942146 (OP)
I care more about the other pressing matters of my personal life as well as connecting genuinely with people as a whole. Romantic matters are too tiresome to carry alone, and many people are not prepared or willing to commit to their part in a relationship. My age has no bearing on this alone, so much as it simply being difficult to connect with people in general when your social network is limited or nil at this age.
>t. 28

>>81942146 (OP)
I am 23 and i've never dated, never tried dating and probably never will. It's scary because I am content just being alone and i don't seek out people because of it. Genuinely over for me

No, relationships are such a hassle. Better to stay single and have sex occasionally.

A little bit, yeah. But I'm also a divorcee and single dad in my mid 20s, and I feel like it's just not all that probable I'm gonna find a decent woman in my age bracket who is gonna be interested given that I already have a child.

Cest la vie, I guess. We all get to suffer the consequences of our actions.

>>81942146 (OP)
Eh, I'm not very emotional so it's not like I'm getting nervous or panic. But I do acknowledge that my time is running out. My parents had me when they were in their early to mid 20s. I'm early 30s now. I remember how much fun I had with my dad when I was a kid and I'd like to pass on this joy to my future kids, but I know that as the time goes on, I'll have less and less energy and strength. I started to look for serious relationship relatively late, in my late 20s to be exact, due to both circmustances and my own suboptimal choices in the past. But crying over it won't change anything so there is no point. I have to admit though, looking for relationship in your 30s sucks. Half of women are either single mothers or ruined with ugly tattoos. They also expect you to have your own place in this shitty housing market and like absolute shortsighted retards don't care about your sizeable savings that will allow you to actually buy or build house in upcoming 2-3 years. But instead of lamenting I simply grind and send messages. I'm thinking of trying some other ways as dating apps are awful for average guy like me. It's easier to find casual sex with sluts on degen websites than find actual relationship with woman who also wants to build family.

>>81942146 (OP)
Not really. Not anymore.
I've decided to just stop trying. I have better things to do with my time than trying to get laid. Things I appreciate more and that have actual results.
If I end up meeting the right people and IT happens then fine, I'll gladly take it. If it doesn't, oh well. I can't imagine sex being worth abandonning every other pleasant aspect of my life in the hope that I might be able to make it happen once.

>>81942146 (OP)
no, i dont psyop myself into thinking im missing out

>>81942383
Sounds like my dad. It'll be easier to find someone as you get older.

>>81942146 (OP)
I have a small dick(4.5 inches), tf you want me to do?

>>81942959
Put on the chastity cage while I go fetch the oversized horsecock strapon.

>>81942944
Yeah. Just disappointed I screwed my chance at young love. Plus I wanted more kids, and you only really have so much time before fertility declines, or you at least risk genetic malformations.

>>81942146 (OP)
Eh, I got over it a while ago. I'm 32. It is what it is. I'd rather be an asocial, schizoid, volcel then a divorce raped cuck.

>>81942146 (OP)
Of course I am. It's eating me away. It makes me wonder what the hell I'm missing that would make me a catch for women.
I know what gets women attracted, but there has to be a cheat code for someone that isn't abhorrently ugly.
Anyway, I'm not as horny as I used to be, so maybe I'll stop caring about it before long.

>>81942964
That doesnt help meeee

>>81943010
No, but it entertains me greatly.

>>81942146 (OP)
I made my peace with the fact that I'll always be alone long ago. Thank god I'm a schizoid so it's light work for me, I just wasn't built for it.
t. 28

>>81942146 (OP)
i turn 20 this year and think about killing myself cause of it daily. i fucking hate life alone

Sure I'm nervous. I want children but you can't do that without a woman, among other things I currently don't have. It's part of our nature to have children, but the way things are going, it's a backup plan for me

>>81942964
>>81943016
Please be a real woman

>>81943016
Your just one foid I need positivity from at least 4300 foids

>>81943016
Man, I don't understand the appeal of strap-on sex for women, as the giver. Is it just a psychological thing about power or what?

>>81943122
Only foids with futa on male fetishes get it

>>81943141
>foids with futa on male fetishes
Those can't be common. I imagine girls aren't into futas in general unless they're real fuckin weird, and also lesbians.

>>81943181
Penis envy is real.

im 33 and single
at this age you dont give a shit anymore

No. In fact, I'm more content.

>>81942146 (OP)
No I gave up years ago. I'm happy as a man child

Being 32, no. I lost that drive years ago. I'm glad about it.

>>81943187
But like... fuckin why? It just kinda sits there and wobbles around all day or tries to embarrass you in public if you get hormonal

>>81942146 (OP)
no
I don't care about sex or having a relationship
also I'm disgusted by the idea of my first time being with a non-virgin, no matter how old may I be at the time
so experience doesn't play a role here

>>81942146 (OP)
no, im more concerned if i get in a relationship, it'll bring more problems than comfy solutions
so i'm patient about it until I feel good with my problems, or have enough of my own solutions to not burden anyone else in a relationship with, if i'm gunna fix someone else, i wanna fix myself 100% or more
cuz im indebt and unemployed

>>81943295
Women feel the same about their breasts yet you'll have a hard time finding a man who didn't think at least once "having boobies probably feels nice I'm sure"

>>81943602
You know what, that's absolutely fair, and I kind of hate that it has now been successfully conceptualized for me.

Still weird though

>>81942146 (OP)
Acceptance is the final stage of grief, I think im old enough to have gone through the whole process at this point. I have mostly come to peace with the fact that I will probably remain alone, and even if an opportunity comes up I will probably not take it because I lack experience and dont really feel like playing catch up. Relationships are too much of a hassle, why get in one when I could be focusing on my hobbies or career? I dont dislike women, Im just indifferent to them nowadays, the same as I am to random dudes

I'll be 20 next month and honestly, this might be worse than total hopelessness. I am at a point where it might be possible to make a return, but that would require effort and skills I have no hope obtaining. At least when you are an old man you have already come to terms with the fact you fucked up and start looking forward, I look in the mirror every day and see wasted potential

Of course. I'm pushing 40 and still incel as fuck.
Though I am starting to get closer to unpaid cunny. Had several chances that admittedly fell apart.
I seem to be getting some interest by just being open about my having very little sex. I'm now pushing them to be more direct, as I hate the talking stage.