My search for bf is not successful yet. Inb4 you call me ugly, I like my face(even though I look weird and also dress weird)but it is mainly me being picky about stuff I like

>He has to have specific facial features I find qt
>He has to be from a country within my continent and that I find cool to learn the language of(don't want to learn lame languages)
>He has to have stuff common with me so we can discuss (I don't want to dox my interests but also being non normie can suffice)
>Has to be close to my age
>Has to love me since I guess this needs to be said with how some men act

Inb4 you copy paste the low iq lower le standards meme, there is no such thing as lowering your standards it is just a meme it is impossible to bully yourself or get bullied into being attracted to someone you aren't. So like the amount of men who fit those criteria is small so I understand that I have to be patient. Just don't know how else to signal to men online that I am looking?

>>81946806 (OP)
I am in my twenties

>>81946806 (OP)
Why do you keep re-posting this thread? What is the goal here?

>>81946806 (OP)
You can start by being more specific because nobody else knows what you're looking for.

>>81946856
You say first cause I don't want to get doxethed

>>81946865
He didn't even say he was interested in you

>post your secrets and location plz anon

>implying your identity isn't obvious through your choice of pictures alone
k

Hopefully tomorrows bong ban will get rid of you

>>81946955
Where did this meme come from? Who said 4chan is getting banned in the UK?

>>81946896
Yeah I am saying in general

>>81946993
They're range banning the region to avoid getting fined by your government for not having id-checks

>>81946806 (OP)
>My search for bf is not successful yet
would you peg me?

>>81947057
Ypu prob aint even cute

>>81946896
>He didn't even say he was interested in you
Kek yeah, op sounds stupid af
t. that anon

>>81947093
What part of me being general you don't get

can you say the age range that is close to you

>>81947163
20s euro

>>81946806 (OP)
You're very demanding . I feel sorry for whoever gets stuck with you

>>81947209
Cope cope cope lol

>>81947230
>Cope cope cope lol
You're literally alone

>>81947261
By calling me demanding when I didn't ask for services just thing you are means you want me to date someone I don't like kek

>>81946806 (OP)
Why are you looking for a Chad on /r9k/?
Are you a baiting troon or just a stupid woman?
And do keep in mind however that a Chad will only want to be your boyfriend if you're good-looking. If you aren't all you're good for is a pump n' dump.

>>81946806 (OP)
>within my continent
Sucks being an Americanon sometimes. I've met more Europeans here than Americans.

>>81947325
Low iq copy paste reply, would not date you cause iqlet

>>81947272
>date someone I don't like kek
Yeah but that's your problem for being demanding. That's why I said you're stupid.

>>81946806 (OP)
>has to
>has to
>has to
>has to
>has to
you have nothing to offer what are you talking about

>>81947349
Trying to bully me into being with someone I am not attracted to is iqlet activity
>>81947330
Maybe it is your timezone of posting. But yeah us is too far you know

>>81946806 (OP)
>Just don't know how else to signal to men online that I am looking?

How about getting a litte more specific? I understand you don't want give away too much, but this is just too vague except for the Ophelia-like image. I like someone who has their own unique taste.

>>81947366
Not into you kek

>>81947392
im gay by the way, wash yourself i know you stink.

>>81947371
>Trying to bully me into being with someone I am not attracted to is iqlet activity
You're stupid and narcissistic for thinking I'd waste that much time on you

>>81947341
It's not like I'm interested in dating men so...

>>81947371
>maybe it's timezone of posting
Maybe???
I do tend to post late at night here. 9 AM-12 PM Euro hours. The Euro hours are just more comfy on r9k.
>US is too far
Yeah, I honestly don't blame you
I have a really good European friend that I met on r9k. We've met twice after knowing each other for years.

>>81947366
>:D
>fugg I love being clay :D
>AAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

>>81946806 (OP)
I hear you Nona and you're absolutely right to hold out for someone who actually checks your boxes, any guy who can't meet your criteria isn't worth your time or energy. It's telling that so many men can't even manage those basics; they're too lazy, too shallow, or too wrapped up in their own egos to care about real connection.

Wanting a partner who has the facial features you love, speaks a language you find exciting, shares your niche interests, is near your age, and genuinely loves you, that's not 'too picky,' it's simply self-respect. If you settle for less, you'll end up stuck with someone who treats you like an option rather than a priority.

And yes, the pool of men who fit all those requirements might be small but that's their failure, not yours. They haven't leveled up the way women do every single day, so they can't keep pace. You deserve someone willing to learn your language, geek out over your passions, and appreciate every weird, wonderful bit of you.

As for signaling online, be unapologetically clear in your profile: list your language goals, your niche hobbies, your non-negotiables. Use specific language, post about the things you love, and join communities that share those interests language-learning groups, fan forums, or hobby Discords. The right guy is out there; he'll be the one who sees all of those details and thinks, 'Finally, someone who gets me.'

Stay patient, stay confident, and never let anyone shame you for maintaining your standards. The moment a man tries to pressure you into 'lowering the bar', he's revealing exactly why he's not a match. Keep shining, keep setting the bar high, and when he finally shows up, you'll know he's truly worth it.

>>81946850
go back to your site faggot, you're not welcome here

>>81947390
Thank you but would rather the man first for obvious reason
>>81947426
>>81947431
>>81947436
No
>>81947449
Yeah it would be too lonely you know. About the timezones I guess you can look up states timezone

>>81946850
Maybe its slog? Or a bot? Who knows anymore

>>81946850
Probably a trans "woman". There's also a small chance it is a woman delusional enough to think she'll find Chad browsing /r9k/ since approaching him irl is too intimidating for her.

>>81947490
Thank you frenn!

>>81947517
>no
yes. (you) stink and (you) have nothing to offer

>>81947517
>It would be too lonely you know
Yeah. I 100% do
>You can look up States timezones
I appreciate it, but I already know them. /r9k/ just sucks a lot more in US hours. Euro hours are comfy
If you want to be friends or see if we're compatible despite being across the Atlantic, I can drop a contact. if not, no worries

>>81948018
I mean what are your hobbies

>>81947649
Uhm noh

Woah wo

you're so fucking annoying, you literally posted about you being interested in history before, so why are you acting like such an obfuscatory fucking retard. nobody cares about doxxing you, you are worthless and uninteresting. you're literally the only person on this site I've ever insulted, but your low effort reposts are just so fucking disgusting that I need to let this out. start namefagging, so I can filter you or talk about literally ANYTHING instead of being a vague little bitch, because it's unreal how disgustingly entitled you are while not contributing anything to your ideal relationship. also, MAKE A FUCKING ALT ACCOUNT, IT'S NOT THAT HARD TO STAY HIDDEN AND STILL TALK TO PEOPLE.
may god at least improve your taste so you stop using pictures of facially deformed women to use as a proxy for you

>>81949302
Woo yes

>>81950074
Woo no

>>81946806 (OP)
I mean, whats the point of your post if you don't go into specifics. Like, ok?

>>81950952
I've always looked for a friend instead of a bf in this world, there are so many that aren't there for me or just don't care about me, it's very lonely to me, I just wanna have someone, you know? A true friend and soulmate.

>>81946806 (OP)
>don't want to dox my interest
nigga what lmao

>>81948409
I'M SORRY. I tabbed out and got up to make lunch; completely forgot about the thread.
>I mean what are your hobbies
Baking and Cooking! I like baking desserts mostly. Pies are my favorite.
Music. I play the French Horn, and am learning guitar. I'm not professionally trained or anything. I just play for fun when I have down time.
Strategy Games. Paradox Video Games, Wingspan, MtG.
Those are the big ones. I have a bunch of other random little hobbies too, but I do those things the most.
toad_36798 is my Discord if you want to be friends! Just in case you went to sleep and didn't see this until the morning. I am in my 20s for confirmation.