genuine question, do men feel "love"? or at least the same "love" women feel? it doesn't seem like they do.

I am in love with Belle Delphine.

>>81950901 (OP)
I have a big heart and have so much love to give it honestly hurts me deeply when I am in love and I start feeling a huge paternal/protective feeling over my crush

>>81950901 (OP)
It's really funny and cruel that the men and women that desire pure love never find each other.

>>81950901 (OP)
yes, but we also feel lust just as much, and the 2 cross over if you aren't experienced in both. So men might say they love you, but they just have lust and it will fade sometimes.

>>81950901 (OP)
Nice reversal faggot. It is women that can't love

>>81951167
genuinely don't understand how you can believe this

>>81950901 (OP)
why do we never see the opposite of shit like this? its always women
YWNBAF
((YOU) will never be a femcel)

>>81951171
Because the entirety of human written record demonstrates that women are incapable of Agape and their Philia is exclusively restricted to their children and parents

>>81951171
Because that's been my experience.
You can't argue with your gf or expect her to change anything or it's "you don't love me for who I am!!"
Like what the fuck is this? Women would rather chase dipshits that don't care about what they do than be questioned or challenged by a guy that's into them. You want your idealized version of "love" where you get your asses kissed 24/7 (at least fj the guys not Chad) and not an actual guy who you have to interact with

>>81950901 (OP)
Define love and how women see it.

>>81950901 (OP)
I don't. People are just convenient until they're not.

>>81950901 (OP)
isnt it fascinating? this icy veneer between men and women, its like two completely different galaxies apart. each looking to the other but never interacting. makes me wonder how humans have made it this far. apparently the global birthrate is declining. more chatbots, more men are withdrawing, women given more leeway into their own antics, more gynocenctricism. makes me wonder who and what exactly will make it out the next generation or two.

>>81951495
>makes me wonder how humans have made it this far.
unironically women not having rights, meant that men were guiding the direction of civilisation while women tagged along instead of the two actively fighting each other on it

>>81951309
Lolwut.
Women experience agape aka philanthropy and general love for this world way more often than men. As evidenced by all of those new-age and other hippie cults as well as volunteering programs being populated by 75% women. Men are very discriminatory and only ever consider their own tribe(whatever it means) as worthy of happiness.
Women not loving men romantically is lack of eros , not agape.

>>81951278
Men get aroused by female tears. It is much worse because it means men are biologically wired to enjoy female suffering.

>>81950901 (OP)
They do until their hearts get broken

>>81950901 (OP)
Your gender can't feel love. Lust for chad's penis isn't "love".

>>81950901 (OP)
>genuine question, do men feel "love"? or at least the same "love" women feel? it doesn't seem like they do.
not the chads that pumped and dumped you no

>>81950901 (OP)
>do men feel "love"? or at least the same "love" women feel? it
I can describe how it once felt for me.

When I was young and in love she brightened my day. I thought about her all the time, and every facet of my future plans involved her. I wanted to make her happy. I wanted her to feel secure. I wanted to pick up the broken pieces and put them back together for her. And I routinely made sacrifices that I didn't want to make because I knew that in the end it would be either what was best for her, or because it would make her happy.

Even when I was angry with her I never wanted her to go away. I never resented her. I was upset that I felt like she wasn't doing what was best for herself. It broke my heart when during the "I told you so" moments because I just wanted her to listen to me and avoid the pain she always wanted to dive headlong into.

Anyway, the cunt stole six grand from me and told me over text she wanted a divorce while I was deployed to a foreign country.

I feel your love fembot come and live in my mom's basement with me

Based on a massive amount of data processed, it's a yes. There are two main differences though, due to the artificially inflated societal manipulation of the threshold where all ugly/mid women think they're supermodels they always feel like they're settling even with someone better than them, and you only really get 'love' when you think you're with a great pick or even more so if you think they're better than you. Women can maintain this despite a man getting with other women if the man is very high value because they understand naturally that good men are supposed to have multiple women, but a man's love for a woman is deeply rooted in her loyalty to him unless he thinks the woman is at least double his value and can bend the rules like a woman will do. If a woman is unfaithful it's generally unsalvageable as the man can no longer be sure any children will be his and the love will deflate like a popped balloon and will often turn into an equal amount of disgust gained as love lost.

>>81950901 (OP)
Men feel "love", but it's a very different sort than what women feel

Women's love is complicated, very transactional, revolves around power and status, the performance of preset archetypes and "roles", and it's a thing that expects and demands constant effort and always "proving yourself"

Men's love on the other hand is much simpler, much less demanding. Often just happy with basic decency and companionship, and appreciating a woman for who she is even if she doesn't fit any preset roles or whatever. Often being happy to just exist and chill with her. For many men, love is basically just a very close friendship that also involves sex. And the friendship of course is a simple almost childish sort of friendship, rather than the more mature and "grown up" sort of friendship that women engage in, that involves all sorts of low-key toxicity and cattiness and backstabbing and comparing each other to each other and such

The fact that it takes so little to make men happy really bothers women, and contributes to how women often see men as immature man children

>>81952152
>all of those new-age and other hippie cults as well as volunteering programs
women join these to make themselves feel better/to be SEEN doing it/to pat themselves on the back, they do not actually care about the others. Men donate more and often anonymously, men stay with their wives even when the feelings go/life events change, men die for each other or for women.
Eros is the tingles, which is all women feel for their men. They cheat or leave as soon as the tingles go away.

>>81950901 (OP)
Men love like dogs, we are just happy to be in the presence of the person we love. Women love men for what they can provide for them.

>>81950901 (OP)
No, men don't feel the same love women do. They feel real love, not a drive to use people.

>>81952167
men just feel awkward by female tears, unless they have a sister whom they had to cheer up before

>>81952167
what if i love and respect my boyfriend but get turned on when he cries?

>>81950901 (OP)
The way we love is... ethereal
It goes beyond, once we love someone or something, we make it our life's goal to fully embody it
pic related

>>81952167
I get turned on by female tears because I like the idea of being comforting and nurturing and performing emotional labor. I don't enjoy female suffering, I enjoy the opportunity to take someone who is suffering and help make her suffer less

Also why I love eating females out on their periods when they are all crampy and uncomfortable, since orgasms help with period pain

>>81952916
>Also why I love eating females out on their periods when they are all crampy and uncomfortable, since orgasms help with period pain
No you love eating vagina because you are disgusting cooombrained scrote! - some girl online

>>81950901 (OP)
i feel genuine love, id imagine its the same way a woman does, but how could i know that? i cant even know if i experience the world like other men do. i will say im definitely more hopeless than most women i meet tho. this world, as beautiful as it is, seems to be breaking down and i find it hard not to just hide away from it. i express most of my love for others trying to listen to their problems and try to make them feel better and less alone

>>81950901 (OP)
You only pay attention to men who don't care about you.

>>81950901 (OP)
I've never been in love but I'm autistic to be fair.

I DON'T FEEL NO LOVE
BUT I FEEL THE DRUGS
WRECK MY WHIP INTO THE POLICE
AND THEN GET FILLED WITH SLUGS
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LxqlVZkGZ_I

>>81952885
thank you for sharing that anon, it really touched me

>straight relationships is ultimately about the woman

Of course you say this because you get more of out of it. Women either want transacational love from a normal man or passionate love from a psychopathic abuser

>>81952152
>Women experience agape aka philanthropy and general love for this world way more often than men
That must be why they're fat female supremacist feminists who disproportionately flock to men like wade wilson or the rich or genetically gifted. That's why they let others races get away with murder while demonizing their own just so they don't look racist. Because they're so heckin caring and never discriminate. They just heckin love humanity.

where are all the normal, kind women? Tell me please. I want love just normal love, i want to embrace another human, but i am only attracted to women, but by far most of you are materialistic, shallow, performative and vile. I was an innocent boy who believed in love, but seriously im getting more jaded and cynical every year. My blackpill was just interacting with you. Just listening you all act and talk to each other is so disgusting. It made me sick to my stomach to see how you view men and even your other fellow women. Not a single crumb of idealism in your bones. The amount of respectable fully fleshed out women i have met , who i truly accept as good persons with higher thoughts is in the low double digits. I despise the most of you so much the hate is consuming me. You can call me an incel, but ive actually had sex, but having to listen to you spew some nonsense and having to pretend to be interested in your stupid self absorbed chatter after i reached post-nut clarity made me so disgusted that i rather take opiates and masturbate than having to endure your presence. How i wish i was gay and physically attracted to men, then i could disregard you completely

>>81953319
>it really touched me
can I touch you?

>>81952174
this is the bleakest chart I've ever seen and why the founders of dating apps should be hung

>>81950901 (OP)
women only "love" as long as they're getting something in exchange, they cannot truly love for the sake of it itself

I'm surprised how many knowers there are here. Women are truly the jews of the genders and (good) men deserve better.

>>81950901 (OP)
>the same "love" women feel
You mean "I want to use this person for their resources and utility until I find a better deal"? No, men don't look at women that way.

>>81952152
>volunteering programs being populated by 75% women.
No they legit ban men from entering. Those are basically travel clubs for women using mommy and daddys money.
Otherwise my local disaster relief team is all men
t.tried to apply to volunteering opportunities abroad

>>81954045
They dont exist. Theyre basically a male fantasy. Same with romance and love btw.

>>81950901 (OP)
idk what love you women feel
but i can love
simple as

I never experienced healthy love growing up - it was either incomplete, conditional, or exclusively material. As I became a man I feared I was incapable of loving another, and that this shallow, possessive, strings attached love would manifest in my relationships, and at times it did. The pure and gentle love of a woman brought it forth from me, but that newfound sense of selfless love also drove me to let that woman go - to spare her of my neuroses and the suffering I invariably inflicted upon her.
From my experience, I know that women can love even when they perhaps should not, and that I as a man could love someone enough to sacrifice everything that made my life worth living. A decade later, and I am nearly ready to share my life and love with a woman again.