my mom offered to get me a cat
she says having something to take care of will help with my depression
i dont consider myself very motherly
if i can barely manage to take care of myself how will i ever take care of something else?
but having a little creature would help me feel less lonely and i would finally have someone to talk to about my problems instead of just blogposting on here all the time
not sure though i want a cat to have a good home and idk if i can provide that

>>81959402 (OP)
Maybe posting your panties will make you feel better. If you are a woman that is

>>81959402 (OP)
im a pgy-3 psychiatry residency
i can tell you have daddy issues
>not sure though i want a cat to have a good home and idk if i can provide that
That's a very maternal feeling I can see you'd be a good mom

>>81959445
resident*

>>81959402 (OP)
they're cute little fellows !
and they could help you feel better
but they can also be overwhelming at times

>>81959402 (OP)

a cute animal lifts the mood enough that you actually begin wanting to make stuff, it's like a cigarette but more potent and with less side effects

>>81959402 (OP)
>if i can barely manage to take care of myself how will i ever take care of something else?
I love cats but I feel the same
And I'm allergic on top of that uggh

>>81959445
>i can tell you have daddy issues
he walked out after my mom got pregnant i never knew him and my moms refuses to tell me anything about him
but thanks for thinking i would be a good mom i guess
i just dont want to be like my mother and she gave me bpd (she has it too) so i feel like either way i would just end up as abusive and nasty as her if i ever had a kid
how can i make myself infertile? i cant end up like my mother
>>81959465
i dont deny that cats are cute but like you said they can be overwhelming and i have a problem with being easily overwhelmed and my mom made it clear a cat would be MY responsibility so its not like i could ask her for help

>>81959476
cigs are gross so i vape instead
still gross but getting high is the only thing that stops my suicidal thoughts for a bit
>>81959485
>I'm allergic
sorry

>>81959507
>i just dont want to be like my mother and she gave me bpd (she has it too) so i feel like either way i would just end up as abusive and nasty as her if i ever had a kid
Lots of options for treatment if you go into psychotherapy, BPD might be arguably the most treatable Cluster B.
>how can i make myself infertile? i cant end up like my mother
Don't do that anon, what you have is totally treatable and I can see that you have a big heart with a lot of lot to give.

>>81959527
>sorry
My skin gets super red after extended contact
You're kinda relatable nd I think you're cool and I like you

>>81959507
>my moms refuses to tell me anything about him
Sounds sketchy. and sounds like *the mother wound*

>>81959402 (OP)
I got a cat it helped greatly they don't need that much attention as dogs do! I think you should get one

>>81959561
i dont wanna be rude but i have a massive distrust of doctors especially mental health doctors
when i first attempted suicide at 19 they threw me in the psych ward for a month and all my doctors made me feel like i was crazy
all they did was put me on different meds everyday until nothing working and they just had me sedated 24/7 and restrained to my bed
i dont feel safe around doctors and i wouldnt be open to trying psychotherapy
>>81959580
>I think you're cool and I like you
thanks
>>81959588
i think it has something to do with trauma my aunt has told me before that he used to beat her

>>81959402 (OP)
idk why does your mother think a cat would be better than therapy, i have a cat and when i have a depressive meltdown petting and cuddling my cat does make me feel better tho but looking after animals can be rough if theres complications

>>81959620
you can go to a psychologist who aren't physicians for psychotherapy and you can do group therapy as well

>>81959620
>thanks
ik I'm being lovebomby rn but I just want to give u a hug

>>81959623
>idk why does your mother think a cat would be better than therapy
i dont work so i dont have insurance or anything and i know she wouldnt pay for therapy
im 22 so i know she COULD put me on her insurance until im 26 but she took me off after i turned 20 and refuses to put me back on
i could file for disability but the application process is so overwhelming and im too scared to go to like idk a state office to apply in person
i dont even have a car or drivers license so idk how i would even get there
im too scared to use public transportation
>>81959631
cant pay for it
>>81959651
i dont think you came off like that
what you said has been the nicest thing anyone has said to me in weeks
thank you

>>81959402 (OP)
you should get it, there'll be 2 pussies in a room instead of just 1.

>>81959668
ur mother seems weird and abusive, is she a narcissist?

>>81959693
unnecessarily rude and mean
people like you are why i dont believe in humanity
the world is too cruel
>>81959707
definitely abusive and definitely a narcissist
although she isnt as physically abusive as she was when i was in middle school
once i went to high school she became alot more emotionally abusive

>>81959726
thats not that mean, just run-of-the-mill smack talk, if someone was actually mean you would crumble into dust

>>81959760
last time someone was actually mean to me i threatened to kill myself and they just looked at me like i was insane

>>81959726
that sucks fembot, i wish i could help but im also a loser robot, do you just keep to your room all day, what do fembots even do

>>81959785
now imagine if you had no support system and your very existence relied on your ability to acquire one

>>81959668
>thank you
I'm glad it made you feel better, you deserve to
I can tell you're a good person
I wish I could make your life better somehow

>>81959792
>do you just keep to your room all day
pretty much
sometimes i try to masturbate but im so ashamed of my body and sexuality i end up crying and can never finish
im covered in self harm scars bruises and dry blood and im a fucking faggot
i try to convince myself im really just straight and not actually into girls but everytime i even try to imagine myself in a relationship with a guy i get stomach aches i wish i was a boy
>>81959803
>I wish I could make your life better somehow
i appreciate the thought at least

why dont you start slow by meeting some people you can talk to first? like online or something
having a cat is fun, but if you are the kind of person that is easily annoyed, has a bad temper, or is aggressive in general, then you could potentially hit your cat or be abusive without noticing

>>81959838
>i appreciate the thought at least
i really really want to hug you
you should vent more if you feel like, i want to know more about u

>>81959402 (OP)
Animals are cool and lovable though unlike people.

>>81959904
>why dont you start slow by meeting some people you can talk to first? like online or something
4chan is my only outlet
if i have something like a discord or whatever (like anything thats tied to a central identity?) everyone i try talking to eventually ends up hating me
every time
im done
>>81959915
>i want to know more about u
not much to tell
i probably wont be around next year

>>81959939
I'll be your bpd friend. I've been to therapy

>>81959939
not the one you commented but dayum, if every person u talk to ends up hating you. there has to be something wrong with ya, at least your at home here.

>>81959961
2 people with bpd will not survive a friendship
>>81959982
oh no i know theres something wrong with me its entirely my fault
i just know im too much for people to handle and its easier to just block me than try to put up with me

>>81959939
>everyone i try talking to eventually ends up hating me
how come? that is sad... there must be a reason... and sometimes its not your fault at all. maybe you are meeting people in the wrong places. would you mind trying talking to me?

>>81959939
>not much to tell
im sure there is
>i probably wont be around next year
I'm a year younger than you, I don't want to go past my early 20s either

Have you always wanted to be a boy or did that start around puberty

>>81960010
I deal with children on the daily so i can put with up with you. But why would i or infact most guys when theres less troublesome people. You should really fix that before trying to hero, you never know....

>>81960010
>2 people with bpd will not survive a friendship
Well I thought I would try....

theres too many people replying to me im sorry i cant do this
thank you all for at least posting in my thread
im sorry im like this

>>81960066
nooo don't leave me
it's okay, anon
gl with everything <3

>>81960066
i hope youll be less depressed after seeing how many people want to spend time with you

>>81959402 (OP)
everyone in this thread should fucking kill themselves

>>81960115
this. orbiters like this for a whore, that leaves once bored, destroy everything.

>>81959402 (OP)
keep 2k$ on hand or get the cat insured.
I speak from experience.

All I can say is: poor cat. They get brought into families like this.

A lot of times they help removing your retarded inaction based on nothing because you learn to care about them. So instead of spamming here you would be taking care of the cat, and would be happier for it having something more meaningful to do.

>>81959402 (OP)
I initially had the same doubts as you. Getting an animal is a big responsibility it is like a child. But the fact you care seems. It would help you. I know this might seem overwhelming but honestly caring for a little fella might also help to start caring for yourself.