Thread 81969107 - /r9k/ [Archived: 29 hours ago]

Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:19:32 PM No.81969107
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Women can be lonely too, and the excuse of "you're a fembot" shouldn't be enough to want them off of the board or delegitimiize their situation.

But yeah, the ones that play pick me and post their tits are mad gay. They just want oribiters and should not be entertained.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:20:32 PM No.81969114
>>81969107 (OP)
>be foid
>go on dating app
>get 500 matches
femcels aren't real.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:21:25 PM No.81969120
Women can't be lonely. End of the discussion.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:43:00 PM No.81969367
>>81969114
>>go on dating app
>>get 500 matches
90% of whom are looking for a one night stand. Or they are super weird and still live with their parents.

Being hit up almost exclusively by trash can be almost as bad as never having anyone hit you up at all, and I can definitely understand the paranoia of wondering if someone just wants to take advantage of you. It's why online dating is such a shitshow for both sexes.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:46:13 PM No.81969400
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>>81969107 (OP)
>Women can be lonely too
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:46:45 PM No.81969409
>>81969367
Meanwhile girls who are weird and live with their parents can easily find a boyfriend
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:48:38 PM No.81969423
>>81969367
As a man if I could get free sex on tap I would never complain about beibg lonely
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:48:51 PM No.81969425
>>81969107 (OP)
>Women can be lonely too
Demonstrably false
Washie
7/26/2025, 6:53:39 PM No.81969470
You people genuinely think having an empty relationship where it's just a glorified sex partner is fulfilling and the epitome of a perfect life.

No wonder that you guys think the women who can get that privilege can never complain or have a hard life. Because you nitwits glorify sex as a fix-all solution
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:55:00 PM No.81969479
>>81969367
>woman thinks 90% of men are trash
lel do women not realize that they confirm incel talking points?
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:55:21 PM No.81969485
>>81969470
Nearly everything we do as men is an attempt to improve our sexual market value
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:55:44 PM No.81969490
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>>81969107 (OP)
Please consult the graph created yesterday through empirical evidence.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:55:49 PM No.81969491
>>81969470
Ok roastie, thank you for your insightful and original contribution
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:56:12 PM No.81969493
>>81969107 (OP)
Lmao weak bait, we both know you have a penis. Dumb tranny
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:56:46 PM No.81969496
>>81969485
What about me wearing a chastity cage and riding a dildo?
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:57:02 PM No.81969499
>>81969107 (OP)
Women can only be lonely since they consider non-chads not to be human.
If I'm alone outside and there are some ants and other insects, I still feel lonely. It's the same for women and non-chads.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:58:01 PM No.81969508
>>81969470
>You people genuinely think having an empty relationship where it's just a glorified sex partner is fulfilling and the epitome of a perfect life.
Why do you believe you deserve more? What have you done to earn it?
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 6:59:49 PM No.81969524
>>81969107 (OP)
>ones that play pick me and post their tits are mad gay
Those are the only ones that are tolerable. At least they give something back
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:00:49 PM No.81969530
>>81969367
10% of 500 is 50 matches, that's a lot, even if it were 1% 5 matches with acceptable people is more than most men get.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:00:50 PM No.81969531
>>81969367
Incels proven right once again. I hate women.
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Washie
7/26/2025, 7:04:51 PM No.81969563
>>81969485
Thats what failed men do.
Instead of improving yourself for meaningful friendships and/or yourself, you're Instead wasting time trying to find a fuck that'll just make you feel empty afterwards

What's the point of sex if you're just using it to find the next mindfog that'll distract you from your lonely life-sucking life? You'll just always end up feeling bitter at the end anyways because the sex didn't change anything meaningful for you. It just distracted you momentarily
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:09:43 PM No.81969603
>>81969563
>meaningful friendships
We can't have those with women because women are succubi. Meaningless distraction via sex is the best you have to offer, and we wish we could just get that much.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:11:24 PM No.81969619
>>81969563
>meaningful friendships
Don't exist. You either get a romantic relationship or you get nothing.
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Washie
7/26/2025, 7:13:53 PM No.81969649
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>>81969491
It least I'm saying something somewhat original you retarded fag

>>81969508
Not even implied that I'm on the dating market, if anything, I'm avoiding it since I know it'll suck for the other person because of my mental health issues
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:15:43 PM No.81969666
>>81969649
>It least I'm saying something somewhat original you retarded fag
I guess the sarcasm went over your head
>Not even implied that I'm on the dating market, if anything, I'm avoiding it since I know it'll suck for the other person because of my mental health issues
Good. Please stop bothering men, even for the empty sex.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:16:33 PM No.81969676
>>81969563
I can't be bothered to try to make friends with men, it feels pointless

Meanwhile talking to a girl gives me an incredible rush for a few days/weeks until she invariably ghosts me
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Washie
7/26/2025, 7:20:54 PM No.81969711
>>81969603
>>81969619
If you fucks can't get in a platonic relationship with a women, then get one with a man, whare the fuck did I imply that you only need to befriend people of the female sex?
Life obviously will suck and not feel worth it if all you do is chase for potential sexual partners
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:22:18 PM No.81969728
>>81969711
>then get one with a man
That's what I'm saying. Fulfilling friendships are almost non-existent for men. You either get a relationship or get lucky and have a good family or that's it.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:22:26 PM No.81969729
>>81969711
I lost interest in platonic friendships after college, they feel like too much work and not enough reward to maintain
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:23:58 PM No.81969751
>>81969107 (OP)
>Women can be lonely too
Stopped reading tbqh
Washie
7/26/2025, 7:24:59 PM No.81969762
>>81969666
>i was being sarcasm
KEK what? I was making fun of you for saying recycled shit as a reply, not the sarcasm part
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:25:15 PM No.81969767
>>81969711
>all you do is chase for potential sexual partners
Why are you under the impression that this is all we do?
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:25:55 PM No.81969773
>>81969107 (OP)
Women are not sentient so they cant experience feelings as deep as loneliness
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:27:06 PM No.81969790
>>81969762
I was making fun of you for saying the most milquetoast roastie misunderstanding ever. Like, you think you're saying something real, but you're so off the mark it doesn't warrant being taken seriously.
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Washie
7/26/2025, 7:36:55 PM No.81969915
>>81969767
We're leaving out crucial words now?
>IF all you do
Is different from
>all you do

>>81969676
Then you're better off talking in female-majority friend groups, more beneficial since you can not get ghosted in friend groups because there's always someone talking, even for me 1 on 1 is a shit experience with people you aren't already bonded with

>>81969729
Do you think a romantic relationship is any different or?

>>81969790
The more you talk the less sense you're making, so I'm just gonna agree
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:37:51 PM No.81969924
>>81969915
Why would you be telling it to us if you didn't think we did it?
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:37:55 PM No.81969926
>>81969107 (OP)
>Women can be lonely too
with the revelations of the tea leak,
fucking
laughable
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Washie
7/26/2025, 7:39:45 PM No.81969948
>>81969924
Anon, do you not know what a hypothetical example is?
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:47:30 PM No.81970029
>>81969470
No, I just wish women cared for more than just sex, but it's the only use we have for them. We are nothing but walking dildo's in their eyes.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:50:47 PM No.81970064
>>81969948
Okay, your hypothetical doesn't apply to the situation at hand, so it is pointless.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 7:54:26 PM No.81970114
>>81969563
Sorry we dont want to be strung along by femoids and tricked into being beta buxx
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:02:07 PM No.81970202
>>81970029
>We are nothing but walking dildo's in their eyes.
That's not true.
Women also often see men as walking ATMs.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:03:45 PM No.81970216
>>81970202
Those are just the men they aren't physically attracted to aka don't want to pump and jump.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:04:08 PM No.81970220
>>81970202
Only the poor ones. But all women see men as walking dildos.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:27:15 PM No.81970415
>>81969409
Hard to find a boyfriend or girlfriend if you don't leave the house. Im sure most of the people here can attest

>>81969423
You are part of why people here can't find a decent relationship. Most people (girls especially) don't like one night stands.

>>81969470
>nitwits glorify sex as a fix-all solution
I think a lot of guys see sex as a physical expression of intimacy, which is why they crave it so bad. Don't get me wrong, a lot really do just want to cum and then fuck off, but a lot want a genuine connection and just have trouble with focusing on the wrong thing.

>>81969479
>>woman thinks 90% of men
Am not wamen. But yeah, people on dating apps tend to be shit. Onlyfans whores, single moms, dudes looking for hookups, guys that live in mom's basement and glaze their anime figures all day. Dating apps are fucking cancer.

>>81969530
Lets say you want a hug. You have to get punched in the face nine times to get that hug, and there is no guarantee that the person giving you the hug is someone you will genuinely care about. How would you come to feel about hugging?

>>81969531
>Incels proven right
Taking yourself a lack of sexual intimacy as an identity is defeatist. And gay.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:31:36 PM No.81970465
>>81969926
How many fembots do you realistically think used tea?

Yes, normies are fucking retarded and normies make up most of the population, women included. That doesn't mean that women in your peripheral subcultures of your hobbies, religion, Bhutanese Yak Shearing imageboards, etc... are automatically the same as normie chicks.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:33:48 PM No.81970490
>>81970415
>muh dating apps are bad
But where are you supposed to talk to women then? All common activities are just all men and youre kot supposed to talk to women in bars, street, train or just in public
>>81969107 (OP)
Kek no any girl has dozens if not hundreds of orbiters and many more friends or whatever. They have no idea what its like being completely unwanted by everyone
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:38:50 PM No.81970546
>>81969107 (OP)
Having someone to talk to at all on demand is better than having none. Why is this such a difficult concept for people like you to process but you still have to maintain you are lonely? You're not lonely, you just feel lonely, because you're weak.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:41:23 PM No.81970586
>>81970490
>youre kot supposed to talk to women in bars, street, train or just in public
Probably not a good idea to approach someone you don't know, sure. But let me ask you, how do you meet your your guy friends? I talk to women at church, at work, the bar, etc... I just dont want to date any of them.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:42:57 PM No.81970605
>>81970546
>someone to talk to at all on demand
Ah yes, because people with the ulterior motive of "I don't really care I just want to stuff my cock into you" make great confidants. Tell you what anon, go to the local gay bar and talk to some people when you're lonely. I bet that will make you feel better.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:45:15 PM No.81970637
>>81970586
>church
All men
>bars
I just go up to men and talk to them, theyre not going to be offended or report me to my company
>work
I dont talk to women at work. Thats how you get hr ed.
Basically as a man especially an ugly men your not supposed to even look at women. Just die alone somewhere or get drafted just like women wish
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:52:28 PM No.81970713
>>81970637
>All men
Mine's half women. Granted, the vast majority are old or married, but none of them look at me sideways because I don't creep on them.

>bars
I don't ever walk up to random dudes, or random women. Usually conversations start with a "What's up" when someone sits next to me, or by playing pool or darts.

>Work
If you are avoiding talking to women then how are you complaining about not meeting women? And yeah, I don't fucking pester them but I'll give a "Hey (fem)anon as they pass or while we're on break. If they don't talk, I don't force it. If they do, I listen. It ain't hard.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:54:50 PM No.81970732
>>81970713
>If you are avoiding talking to women
Are you seriously asking why i dont bother my coworkers or women from other department who already have so many orbiters. Do you know thats how you get fired right? Isnt there a saying that goes like dont shit where you sleep?
Im teying to meet women aoutside of work but i cant meet any, alla ctivities are just men.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 8:58:38 PM No.81970764
loneliness isn't a competition
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 9:03:09 PM No.81970808
>>81970732
>asking
No, I'm saying if you don't talk to girls, actively, then you can't be like "well where do I talk to girls."

And yes, I do believe in "Don't shit where you eat" but you can still talk to them and be friendly. Use that as experience foe when you, say, go to the bar or whatever. But if you actively avoid them you can't complain that "well it's e-dating or bust."

Here's the secret: There is no good answer. Every age has had hardships and ours is social isolation. Overcome or perish
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 9:09:02 PM No.81970865
>>81970808
>you don't talk to girls, actively,
Where is it legal and okay to talk to girls.
Because youre obviously not supposed ti talk to coworkers or bother girls in public. So where should you actively try to talk to women
>you can still talk to them and be friendly.
Youre not supposed to. You say hello when you come in. Good bye when you leave and thats it. These girls get hit on everywhere, even on linkedin, why would they want a uggo to bother them when they work?
>Use that as experience foe when you, say, go to the bar or whatever
Again youre not supposed to bother random girls when they just want to have a night out or something. Thats creepy.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 9:13:26 PM No.81970914
>>81970865
>where should you actively try to talk to women
You don't have to be that active. Literally, as you're passing just be like "What's up, Anonette." If nothing else, that will build propinquity and eventually you'll have a conversation. You dont have to have instant gratification, sometimes getting people to talk takes time.

>would they want a uggo to bother them when they work?
Then don't bother them. Come off as willing to talk without forcing it. Bam. That's all you gotta do.

>not supposed to bother random girls
That's why you play pool, or darts, or whatever and if they talk to you during the game you don't drop your spaghetti everywhere
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 9:18:31 PM No.81970983
>>81970914
>What's up, Anonette." If nothing else, that will build propinquity and eventually you'll have a conversation.
They dont want that though. Everytime i do shit like that they dont even reply, they dont even say hello to pelple when they come in. Only men do that. They come here to work and thats it, they dont want to talk about meaningless shit with uggos
>Come off as willing to talk without forcing it.
Already do that. They dont want that, they pretend like you dont exist unless its work related.
Thats why you arent supposed to talk to people at work. Thats just not the point.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 9:20:13 PM No.81971004
>>81970914
>you play pool, or darts, or whatever
Already do
>if they talk to you during the game
They dont and they wont. I dont live in the US. People especially girls wont come to you and talk about random shit. So unless you explicitely bother them youre not going to have any interaction with a woman in your life as an average man or a uggo
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 10:10:56 PM No.81971610
>>81969107 (OP)
Women can be lonely if they're completely deformed and attack anyone who looks at them.
Men can be lonely if they cry when their parents die.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 10:41:56 PM No.81971988
>>81969107 (OP)
Yes you can be lonely by choice.
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Anonymous
7/26/2025, 10:42:58 PM No.81972002
>>81971988
there's no other way to become lonely for a man or a woman, we literally have all the tools we need to socialize anywhere we want.
Anonymous
7/26/2025, 10:53:34 PM No.81972115
>>81971004
>unless you explicitely bother them youre not going to have any interaction with a woman in your life as an average man or a uggo
Then die alone you fucking defeatist. I don't know what to tell you.