Women who lie about their past and women who have not yet realized that they can and should lie about their past. Just fucking lol if you think your girl is any different. GL dating a generation of women who grew up with an abundance of casual hookup apps.

>>81969172 (OP)
Boomer cuck fucking deserves it.

>>81969172 (OP)
That's why I go for teenagers and no amount of shaming will stop it. Stop being whores and I'd date an adult, since they can't do that then don't blame me

>>81969172 (OP)
Why do anons believe these made up stories riddle with plot holes and errors?
Is it the lack of life experiences?

For those wondering the error of thinking a 41yo woman with 4 kids would use reddit for advice. I'll let you all figure out the other holes in this.

>>81969172 (OP)
Good. Women judge men all the time over things they can't change. You can't change your past, so fair is fair.

Honestly for a reddit post from a woman this is surprisingly rational.
Though, she's only feining accountablility now that she was caught I suppose.

18 years and 4 children I mean that is pretty good indicator that she is changed actually. I side with the woman on that one honestly. Yeah she lied its shitty, but becoming a mother of four in 18 years of marriage is very strong, he need to get over it.

>>81969172 (OP)
>women are the same trust me
Okay so explain how your dad could bag a woman but you can't are you just retarded?

>>81969189
You do see the error in your logic right? What kind of good women is still left when they are older? If they were of any value they would have been snatched up by peers when younger. And that's the uphill fight you'll have is finding a girl that is actually ok with the age gap and won't use you because usually the types that guard their virginity don't want to date older men.

>>81969186
Being an adult is realizing baby boomers were retarded liars about literally everything. They deserve every bit of suffering they get until death finally rids the world of them.

>>81969172 (OP)
Hope that poor guy has the spine to just divorce her.

>>81969248
Wait, they married when she was around 24. Isn't that a little old to see yourself and "young and immature"?

>>81969217
I'm starting to think these stories are posted to just bait out gullible idiots that buy into this so they can sell them some sort of product or service.

>>81969189
>adult women are all whores so i corrupt teens instead
kek

>>81969248
Anyone can bag A woman, the goal is to bag a GOOD woman, but those don't exist.

>>81969242
Yeah, she just lied about her entire past and kept it a secret for 18 years, and he only ever found out because of other people which shows she never intented to tell the truth. No big deal.

>>81969172 (OP)
That image reads like chatgpt tried to imitate teenage incel slop but the subject of your argument is that you have trust issues right? Do you know how humans throughout history have learned to build trust, you fucking moron?
>men are all violent apes hurr patriarchy
shut up bro

>>81969259
anon if they are 41/39 they ain't baby boomers ( 1940s - 1960s) They are Millennials (1980s - 1990s) have you lost track of time? Are you old?

>>81969242
kys woman apologist

>>81969242
If she told the truth about her virginity they would not be married.

>>81969217
You realize 41 year olds are Millennials right now right? We've been on the internet since we were children. Post might be a larping chud but 41yo roasties are most definitely on reddit and Facebook airing out their dirty laundry.

>>81969275
Like when their were all those alt dating apps and we had piles of "femanons" show up here asking to hook up on them?

>>81969277
>corrupt teens
That'd be the case if went around fucking them. I don't like casual sex. I make them my girlfriend first with the intention to marry(not in civil law since I'm not a retard)

>>81969290
> subject of your argument is that you have trust issues right? Do you know how humans throughout history have learned to build trust, you fucking moron?
"Trust" never existed, retard. We had an honor based system with arranged marriages in small tight knit communities where people already knew your character and if you did things that tarnished your character people would know about it. You didn't simply trust people, you already knew whether they were honorable or not for the most part.

>>81969300
Didn't read the chat gpt incel bait. Total boomer death faggot.

>>81969242
That's called sunk cost fallacy
>You already spent so much time together, just forget it, it isn't a big deal anyway

>>81969172 (OP)
You guys are retarded as fuck if you think she could have kept that secret before the wedding. That was the 2000s when they got married and when most were really retarded with networking too much. I can promise you his razor phone would have been lit up with texts warning him the whore he was getting.

>>81969290
I think that screen cap might be Chatgtp.

>>81969331
you parents are in an arranged marriage? that's wild.

>>81969343
That's called degenerate fallacy
>everyone should avoid raising a family and become transgender because what if one day you find out something uncomfortable!

The point of not dating a whore is that whores are unlikely to be good wives or mothers. It's a red flag. If they already are a good wife and mother for 18 years, then the casual sex LITERALLY is not a big deal anymore.

>>81969350
My parents are divorced and fought every single day of my childhood because they routinely lied to and cheated on each other, are they really example you want to bring up to try to make your point?

>>81969368
>>everyone should avoid raising a family and become transgender because what if one day you find out something uncomfortable!
Raising a family with a whore is more pathetic than being a tranny, and I'm on the opinion that trannies should all kill themselves, just like pathetic cucks like you

>>81969379
wasn't anon's point you had trust issues from those parents?
>>81969290

>>81969172 (OP)
This, only an idiot would think that a woman would feel guilty about this.

>>81969290
>any story in which a woman (pbuh) does anything wrong must be false

>>81969217
This, only an idiot would think that a woman would feel guilty about that

>>81969412
Anyone who doesn't have "trust issues" in 2025 is an idiot.

>>81969411
Some people are pathetic. Doesn't change what I said. If you end up with a good wife and a good mother for your kids, then you won. The degenerate fallacy doesn't solve anything.

The existence of casual sex apps has one shotted the concept of trust. A woman could go get gangbanged by guys she met on tinder, then a day later act like nothing happened.

>>81969415
Women do a lot of things wrong. Also, that image looks like a fake story designed to be rage bait for both incels and women. I wonder if it got any replies in this thread!

>>81969465
>won
Won what? The cuck awards?
>le lineage
If you want children that bad you can just donate your sperm, pretty sure the mother of that kid will be an okay one

>>81969455
>t. going to live and die bitter and lonely
lol

>>81969172 (OP)
I would genuinely never speak to her again. That's fucking devastating.

>>81969506
>don't have a family, you should just donate sperm instead
LOL yeah man you really showed me how gay you are, I'm definitely impressed.

>>81969343
nothing to do with that retard

>>81969487
Or you could just hang out with women who share your values instead of idolizing those who get gangbanged. I guarantee some of you retards know the names of porn stars but haven't been on a serious date in weeks.

>>81969512
The only people who are bitter and lonely are the ones who continue to hold onto the concept of romantic disney love and let their inability to achieve it depress them. When you see relationships between humans for what they really are you stop giving a fuck and play an entirely different game altogether. A woman is either an asset to me or she isn't.

>>81969546
cynical, materialistic and JEWISH mindset

>>81969546
>disney mentality is bad
>transactional mentality is good
Both are retarded

>>81969546
The problem with objectifying women is that it has never worked before. That's not how humans evolved, so you'll constantly have trust issues or go through that ebin midlife crisis we see from celebrities.

>>81969588
You never have trust issue if you never cared for them in the first place, they either give you what you want or dont.

>>81969523
If not being a cuck makes me gay, I'll wear that happily. It's your choice to be a cuck anyway, do whatever you want

>>81969558
No, it's pragmatic. This is how relationships have always worked for the history of civilization. Nobody cold approached a woman and bonded with her by bowling or some dumb shit, instead the parents of both agreed to the terms of marriage and both partners were expected to uphold their end of the deal. Real non-transactional love between two people who understand each other is probably achieveable in a literal sense, but guess what? Billions of people on earth thousands of miles a part with a limited lifespan of a few decades to find her. It's simply not going to fuck happen, you're not going to meet your "soul mate" in a bar and grill an hour away from your house.

>>81969622
People adapt to each other. Arranged marriage almost never worked for a reason. I can agree that "soulmate" is a meme that only follows the paradox of having too many options, but if you don't have family values beyond materialistic transactions then you better be a rich oligarch for that to be worth it.

>>81969658
>Arranged marriage almost never worked for a reason
It did for thousands of years

>>81969690
it never even worked for nobility. parents and your religion were a big part of the development of a relationship, but you were not marrying random people for money. that's how you get shitholes in the middle east that stopped having a good life thousands of years ago.

>>81969622
you forget that many arranged marriages were between people who knew each other since childhood, it was usually between two families who knew each other for a long time
the stereotypical view of an arranged marriage where two people who've never met each other are forced to marry by their families was very, very rare
it was something practiced by the rich for wealth, politics and all that gay shit and even then it wasn't taken to the extreme you seem to be thinking of
your view is cynical not pragmatic, it's biased and doesn't take into account that most people don't share your views of marriage and relationships
the average father did not treat marriage like a business transaction, his daughter/son's happiness also came into account
>'s simply not going to fuck happen, you're not going to meet your "soul mate" in a bar and grill an hour away from your house.
you don't need a soulmate, you just need someone you are compatible with, there isn't a single soulmate out there that's perfect for one person only, but there're hundreds if not thousands of possible, compatible partners