Thread 81973443

i've been dating a sporadically insane bpd bitch for 3 years and i'm basically 99% of the way to calling it quits and she's being profusely apologetic saying how she's so sorry for everything that's her fault and how she's going to go get help for herself finally even though i've been telling her such things for literal years. she's talking about how she doesn't want a future with anyone else and this and that. should i believe her?

I don't know if there's any "help" BPDemons can get. The condition is terminal

>>81973443 (OP)
I dunno. Has she been improving? Getting better? Or just doing the same immature crash outs from 3 years ago? What kind of crash outs?

And if you break up and she kills herself, could you live with yourself? That's the problem with BPD chicks once you take root in their heart you can't really 'pull out' safely...not for the faint of heart.

>>81973443 (OP)
Just nut in her until she's got your bun in her oven then put a ring on her. Why are moids afraid of commiting to a loving foid?

>>81973443 (OP)
God you're lucky and I wish I was you

>>81973474
1.5-2 years ago she started mildly improving then plateaued and started regressing hard several months to a year ago. crash outs were frequently over the most minor things and occasionally over nothing at all, just out of - in her own words - "boredom that nothing happens". i kept plugging forward under the assumption that things would eventually get better. the straw that broke the camel's back was earlier this month i bought her something for $10 after she said she would pay me back then lashed out at me when i dared to ask to be paid back, which i guess was the thing that finally opened my eyes to the likelihood that things would never get better. there is not a single i have blindsided her with here, i have told her multiple times of the things i don't like to which she has agreed to get help on - despite the fact she likes to say she's changed her mind and won't get help on anything ever and how she has no problems whenever arguments arise.

>>81973640
>boredom that nothing happens
She's going to get real excited for this next part lol