>>82052744 (OP)
You'll get discord friends or drinking buddies, maybe an actual cis woman to ERP with if you're very lucky. The VRChat blackpills are that Chad still dominates in pulling women there, and that you're a second class citizen without some kind of full-body tracking.
>>82052774
Sounds like you're going to Black Cat/Midnight rooftop worlds, which are absolute trash. Stick to PC only worlds, late night clubs, or bar worlds that are age verified. I've never encountered kids in the music scene.