why do foids love toxic masculinity so much? - /r9k/ (#82053188)

Anonymous
8/2/2025, 3:51:22 PM No.82053188
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Be me, large-ish man (5'11) very heavy, started going to the gym and became a power-lifter and not a regular fat-guy (BMI 25). Have an angry ugly face since birth.
The chicks who speak to me, start talking about how I must be violent in bed and have really strong hands, and they say it as a positive thing. Some ask if I've ever been in a fight or brawl, and one even said she liked that I had a 'bandit's face'
WTF?
For all the talk about feminism, this foids sure do love some toxic masculinity, and think I'm some macho stereotype who'll fuck them senseless. But if they want me to play that role, none of them at least tries to act cutely or decently. All so tiring.
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 5:35:18 PM No.82053995
>>82053188 (OP)
women will not respond to being called out like this
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:02:33 PM No.82054213
>>82053188 (OP)
image artist?
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:04:31 PM No.82054226
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>>82053188 (OP)
because it makes us feel really feminine and we feel like we have lost that over the years with men trying to be and act like girls so much that it brought it masculine energy in us, and we hate it, its cos of the faggots OP
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:04:49 PM No.82054231
>>82053188 (OP)
Are you the leftist nonny
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:08:32 PM No.82054268
>>82053188 (OP)
>>82054226
Ugly girls need ogres to feel feminine next to. Pretty girls like "twinks" (lean, clean shaven guys)
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:08:58 PM No.82054273
>>82053188 (OP)
Women are inherently evil and want to reward violence and rape-ape behavior. It's quite sad. I feel your pain, brother. Don't give in to the foid psychology, it is better to live your life as a good man even though women will hate you for it. Their hatred is how you know you're on the right path, because evil always is disgusted by good.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:12:35 PM No.82054305
>>82053188 (OP)
Ive noticed how wome dont seem to care about how fat their boyfriends are, the grocery store is sometimes a sad sight
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:15:48 PM No.82054328
>>82053188 (OP)
gym is lifefuel for ricecels
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:18:20 PM No.82054349
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>>82054268
no. girls that grew up toxic masculine fathers need that energy in a partner, my dad is like this and that all i really find attractive in men, thats our idea of a man that can love and protect us. retard
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:19:13 PM No.82054358
>>82053188 (OP)
What if im both a twink and rapey/low inhib?
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:20:27 PM No.82054367
>>82053188 (OP)
i don't like guys that get into actual fights but obviously liking strong/built men makes sense evolutionarily. also it's cuter if you could beat up anyone but you don't do it because of your good heart
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:20:35 PM No.82054370
>>82054349
>that can love and protect us. retard
...is an abusive fat pig? I mean it is Freudian...
Thank God my children won't be retarded like this since I won't be an abusive and neglectful dad
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:20:39 PM No.82054371
>>82054226
>men trying to be and act like girls
Men are just trying to treat you like equals. But it seems like women only really desire to be subjugated and kept in their place. I don't get it.
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:21:39 PM No.82054378
>>82054349
>love and protect us
By beating you?
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:22:17 PM No.82054385
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>>82054367
im a skeleton but i'm pretty tall since everyone around me is a midget so i could beat the crap out of most people and am skinny best both of worlds
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:22:53 PM No.82054391
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>>82054349
Weird. My mother was loving and nurturing, and none of the girls I've liked reminded me of her. Why do you want to fuck your dad?
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:22:57 PM No.82054392
>>82054349
>>82054378
ermmmm woman moment
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:24:15 PM No.82054412
>>82053188 (OP)
>and became a power-lifter and not a regular fat-guy
Lmao.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:24:26 PM No.82054415
>>82054349
freud was a homosexual coping jew btw who couldn't stop seeing cock everywhere
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:24:26 PM No.82054416
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>>82054391
My mother was loving and nurturing and all of the girls I befriend here remind me of her
It's over for mich isn't it
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:24:56 PM No.82054420
>>82054385
this is good too i like this also
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:25:09 PM No.82054423
>>82054371
because youre thinking logically. women are thinking with their pussies. abuse makes them cum
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:28:12 PM No.82054458
>>82054370
he didnt abuse us. he just isnt a submissive subhuman husband and took the role of leading and disciplining us, and is very well spoken and he gets that respect from me because i always looked up to him and for his approval growing up, none of you will get that women will always go for a man that reminds them of their dad, thats what they know, especially if their parents are still married, so my standards are high in some areas because most of you are cucked out faggots that wanna get pegged now.
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:29:53 PM No.82054472
>>82054458
You do know the pegging thing is a joke, right. Try telling any guy in real life that you want to peg him, he wont be a happy merchant
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:30:18 PM No.82054477
>>82054458
>women will always go for a man that reminds them of their dad
So women just want to fuck their dad? That's really fucking weird. I don't want a woman anything like my mom.
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:30:29 PM No.82054479
>>82054349
Truth nuke right here, officer.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:30:37 PM No.82054481
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>>82054458
>you need to be a stoic hypermasc role model or you want to get sodomized!!
Why can't we just be people
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:31:12 PM No.82054488
>>82053188 (OP)
So only the chicks at the gym? Okay
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:32:06 PM No.82054496
>>82054458
if you had an older brother you would have 100% turned into a brocon wouldnt you
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:32:27 PM No.82054499
>>82054481
Only women get to he people, anon. Men have to be hyper-masculine caricatures.
Replies: >>82054508 >>82058620
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:33:28 PM No.82054505
>>82054349
Please never have children.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:33:44 PM No.82054508
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>>82054499
I am overly stoic but that's because I hate myself
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:34:06 PM No.82054510
>>82054477
no i just grew up with a dad that raised me right and made me want to find a man like him to start my family, if a dad didnt do that growing up then he did a bad job, because why would a women be so traumized by and dislike her own father so much that she went for the exact opposite of him in a partner? what does that say about the father? that he sucked at being a dad and that he didnt set a good example for how his own daughter should be treated by a man.
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:35:02 PM No.82054517
>>82053188 (OP)
That's just regular masculinity, you got mindbroken by jews
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:36:36 PM No.82054537
>>82053188 (OP)
They act cute after you fuck then senseless, its in the nature
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:36:50 PM No.82054540
>>82054510
>raised me right
Do you have brothers? How'd they turn out? I think you're going to end up having retard, incel sons because you don't view men as human beings.
Replies: >>82054546 >>82054610
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:37:29 PM No.82054544
>>82053188 (OP)
Picrel is so cute
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:37:36 PM No.82054545
>>82054481
you can be people. im not saying hyper masculine, you just need to bring that energy of a protector and povider to some women, im not saying it just need to be thag and nothing else, treat her right, bring her flowers and take her out, make her feel like a loved and cherished wife. be someone she could love and keep loving, it isnt that hard you know. are you unable of knowing how to treat a woman?
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:37:36 PM No.82054546
>>82054540
no way her dada raised her right she was posting her pussy and boobs here yesterday
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:39:30 PM No.82054561
>>82054545
And how does he get treated in return?
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:39:32 PM No.82054562
>>82053188 (OP)
>Being a big strong fat ogre of a man is in
Where the bitches at ?
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:40:30 PM No.82054575
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>>82054545
>Just be my servant and guard dog
Kill yourself lmao. I'm a full human being, I don't exist to worship you. Go fucking die
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:40:52 PM No.82054580
>>82054562
I am 5 foot 10 and 200 lbs btw. I can bench 3pl8 though
Replies: >>82054602
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:41:15 PM No.82054584
>>82054562
How tall are you, wrist size and can you palm a basketball?
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:41:38 PM No.82054588
>>82054226
>>82054349
>>82054458
>>82054545
holy shit foids are wicked and disgusting. this is why we need to bring back arranged marriages/ slavery/ mass graves
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:43:27 PM No.82054600
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>>82054420
yaaaaaaaaaaay i love having high testosterone
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:43:37 PM No.82054601
>>82054588
Agreed
All women need to be forcefully impregnated by a skinnyfat incel at least once
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:43:38 PM No.82054602
>>82054580
Does your grandma tell you how strong you look or are you an dyel
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:44:20 PM No.82054610
>>82054540
i wouldnt force any role on my own son. my dad was a little harsh just with when he got mad hed yell and break stuff and be mean to us all day, like passive aggressive kinda, even for a couple weeks, but i would get a man that can control his temper better because i feel like my brother does walk on egg shells around him, and i dont want that for my son, thats just one trait i would avoid in a guy that my dad has, because it did lead to alot of the negative things i do today too. i know everyones not perfect so id never hold that against my dad
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:47:39 PM No.82054641
>>82054610
but he was overall a really loving and caring parent, only got mad like that when we deserved it really, i made it seem like he was a raging verbally abusive person that hated his kids and wife kek
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:49:40 PM No.82054654
>>82054641
>brother does walk on egg shells around him
Really? Yeah he sounds real great and loving. You probably just treated better because you're a woman. Honestly, your dad sounds like my dad and I fucking hate him. He ruined my life.
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:51:19 PM No.82054670
I hate being a 178cm, 62kg "man"
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:52:03 PM No.82054677
>>82054670
Oh brother I got it so much worse than you
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:52:18 PM No.82054680
>>82054670
178cm is enough, there are dudes who are 167cm that slay
Replies: >>82054704 >>82054741
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:54:55 PM No.82054704
>>82054680
This website really has people brainwashed about the 6ft thing. As if there arent Hispanic manlets that get more poon than anyone
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:59:24 PM No.82054739
>>82054654
She obviously doesn't see us or her brother as human
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 6:59:32 PM No.82054741
>>82054677
>>82054680
>>82054704
I was complaining about looking tiny and being thin, my height is probably fine even if its not optimal
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:03:09 PM No.82054767
>>82054741
Have you tried eating McDs
Replies: >>82054823
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:03:34 PM No.82054772
>>82054654
i get treated better because i know how to handle that. im not gonna act like i dont know why im getting treated a certain type of way, i know how to read this stuff and how to go about it because im not dumb and i take words and actions very seriously in people, and thats something i utilize and am hyper aware of, therefor i am better at dealing with bad tempers and non vocalized thoughts, its easier for me to understand them compared to someone who doesnt pay attention to stuff like that, like my brother, certain stuff doesnt register to him that makes it hard to get along with my dad
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:04:15 PM No.82054774
>>82054741
>I was complaining about looking tiny and being thin
Yeah I'm 56.5kg and 187cm tall try to compete with that nigger
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:05:45 PM No.82054784
>>82054772
>i know how to read this stuff and how to go about it because im not dumb and i take words and actions very seriously in people, and thats something i utilize and am hyper aware of, therefor i am better at dealing with bad tempers and non vocalized thoughts
That's literally a trauma response lmao. Your dad is such a huge piece of shit and you don't even recognize it. You and your brother have both been literally traumatized by your father.
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:09:04 PM No.82054810
>>82054349
Protect you from what? Jfc
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:10:50 PM No.82054823
>>82054767
A burger doesnt even have all that many calories, i dont understand how people get fat on mcd
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:11:42 PM No.82054828
>>82054510
>dad that raised me right
Ur on 4chan you goddamn retard. Your overt narcissist dad is a failure.
Replies: >>82054850 >>82054858
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:12:06 PM No.82054833
>>82054784
>trauma response
you have a victim mentality. you blame your father for the way you turned out and thats ur downfall. take accountability for your own life and actions or else you will be stuck feeling like you cant fix soemthing you cant control, but you can control it because evrything that made you you and internalized, someone can provoke thoughts or feelings in you but its totally your choice how you react and deal with it, just a measure of emotional intelligence when it comes to things like this, and its really important getting through life if you dont wanna get pushed and thrown around by every single person in your life
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:13:33 PM No.82054838
>>82054833
>you blame your father for the way you turned out
That's what a logical person would do.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:13:52 PM No.82054841
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You fags need to realize that the women here are mentally ill. In fact, we all are, but that doesn't mean you should take their advice.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:14:18 PM No.82054843
>>82054833
Your brother is scared of your dad and you have to be constantly hyper aware of his mood to not make him angry. Say what you want but your dad failed as a father and isn't anything someone should aspire to be.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:15:12 PM No.82054850
>>82054828
kek thats pretty fair, but im here because of my own failure, not his
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:16:33 PM No.82054857
>>82054850
>im here because of my own failure, not his
Extremely illogical statement
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:16:34 PM No.82054858
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>>82054828
>Ur on 4chan you goddamn retard.
I'm not the foid and as much as I agree with you here my dad is a great gentle and humble guy I don't think he should be blamed for me turning into a failure
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:18:47 PM No.82054878
>>82054858
I don't get it. Who TF should we blame?
Replies: >>82054942
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:26:06 PM No.82054940
>>82054857
>i didnt do anything good in my life and am a failure b-because my dad was mean to me
KEK YOU FUCKING RETARD
why are some men actually stupid when it comes to life
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:26:35 PM No.82054942
>>82054878
Ahem ahem
>>>/pol/
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:28:55 PM No.82054960
>>82054349
>thats our idea of a man that can love and protect us.
More like you have no idea what you're talking about lol. You have no concept of love.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:29:42 PM No.82054969
Is it worth it to ogremax if im average height and skinny?
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 7:29:47 PM No.82054970
>>82054940
You're literally a walking example of how a bad upbringing ruins people. You're headed straight towards making the same mistakes your mother made and ending up with someone that'll just abuse your kids.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 9:27:19 PM No.82055926
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>>82054391
My mom was absent for most of my childhood.
Which probably explains how i've gone 27 years on this earth without ever feeling attracted to anybody at all.
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Anonymous
8/2/2025, 10:30:30 PM No.82056474
>>82053188 (OP)
This nigger right here gets me.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 10:33:22 PM No.82056505
That's not what toxic masculinity is.
Just came in to post that.
Anonymous
8/2/2025, 11:57:53 PM No.82057264
So what is it then
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 12:00:43 AM No.82057288
>>82055926
what the fuck are you even talking about dawg that's not how attraction works. you people are surprised that you ended up where you did but in reality you ended up here because you're fucking retarded.
Replies: >>82058320
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 12:13:12 AM No.82057389
>>82054268
>Pretty girls like "twinks" (lean, clean shaven guys)
have you seen kpop fan conferences?
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 1:54:28 AM No.82058320
>>82057288
ok
how does attraction work then
"dawg"
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 2:32:53 AM No.82058620
>>82054481
>>82054499
>>82054588
She just wants a masculine men. That's completely normal
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Anonymous
8/3/2025, 2:36:27 AM No.82058663
>>82058620
She wants someone that'll beat and traumatize her son.
Replies: >>82058724
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 2:38:48 AM No.82058687
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>>82058620
She responded to a meme comic of an orc and some guy saying women liked him because he worked out. You guys keep saying "masculine masculine hypermasculine toxic masculinity " then when we ask what that means you just run away from the thread.

You're just blurting out vibes and memes then when people misunderstand you you say
>grrrr why don't you get it reeee
Replies: >>82058717 >>82058724
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 2:41:49 AM No.82058717
>>82058687
The orc works out but is also fat and disgusting and some women are apparently into that because they think he is super kinky and abusive during sex when in reality hes soft in nature
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 2:42:43 AM No.82058724
>>82058663
Hardly
>>82058687
You shouldn't need someone to tell you what it means to be masculine, you're a grown man.
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Anonymous
8/3/2025, 2:43:13 AM No.82058728
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>>82054226
>we feel like we have lost that over the years with men trying to be and act like girls so much that it brought it masculine energy in us
Good. You will never be courted.
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 2:44:19 AM No.82058741
>>82058724
>Hardly
No, that's literally what she wants. She already talked about it in the thread. Her dad traumatized both her and her brother and she wants someone exactly like him
Replies: >>82058866 >>82058897
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 2:46:17 AM No.82058752
>>82053188 (OP)
Women are still mentally in the Stone Age. They think civilization is for pussies.
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 2:49:13 AM No.82058770
>>82054349
Please don't reproduce. You'll be genuinely doing the world a favor by not spawning more mentally ill freaks.
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 2:50:36 AM No.82058784
>>82058724
>You shouldn't need someone to tell you what it means to be masculine, you're a grown man.
I know what it means, and this "toxic" shit is not apart of that. That's teenager mental illness behavior.
Replies: >>82058866
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 3:00:55 AM No.82058863
>>82054575
>>82054575
I wish this was leddit so I could le updoot this fr. For all the talk women do about how they feel sexually objectified by men, women objectify men just as much if not more, it's just not sexual objectification, rather they objectify men to be some sort of fortress or bastion that will protect them whilst weathering a storm and getting pelted by siege weapons and shit. Men are injected with a desire to mate and women with a desire to be protected, both sexes take this to an extreme in what they desire from the other, and it's objectification in both camps. Only now are people starting to talk about the objectification and commldification of men, though, after years of men being shamed for objectifying women.
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 3:01:17 AM No.82058866
>>82058741
I had passed by without seeing. Strange thing
>>82058784
>toxic
Define this
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 3:02:03 AM No.82058871
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>>82054545
>im not saying it just need to be thag and nothing else, treat her right, bring her flowers and take her out, make her feel like a loved and cherished wife. be someone she could love and keep loving
All of that would easily get thrown out the window the moment a successful evil psychopath walks in.
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 3:05:59 AM No.82058897
>>82058741
thats not what i said . i said besides the fact that he cant really control his temper, he is a good dad and husband to my mom, thats the only thing i would look for different in my husband because i hate my dads inability to control his temper and how it affects everyone around him when hes angry, i hate that in him, dont want that in my partner, and i literally mentioned this before ITT you fucking idiot.
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Anonymous
8/3/2025, 5:26:15 AM No.82059866
>>82058897
Dumbass femcel I don't give a fuck about you or your trash ass father. Tie your tubes you angry bitch.
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Anonymous
8/3/2025, 5:26:31 AM No.82059869
>>82054823
Just drink non-diet soda multiple times a day and you will feel your chin fat growing in less than a week
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 6:25:16 AM No.82060204
>>82058620
being masculine isn't about being some ogre who chokes sluts out you dumb cunt
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 6:44:22 AM No.82060284
>>82053188 (OP)
Am I a bad person for wanting to cuck the pigman?
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Anonymous
8/3/2025, 6:45:03 AM No.82060287
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>>82059866
not a femcel i am volcel
Anonymous
8/3/2025, 6:58:34 AM No.82060363
>>82060284
If you are a man then yes if you are a woman then no because it's hot