>>82053315 (OP)>>82053528>>82053929The problem is that it's basically a self-perpetuating spiral in that the longer you go without pussy/success with women, the harder it makes it in the future.
For me, I found that after coming out of a long-term relationship with a woman, and after also having a FWB-type situation with a different woman, I developed a sort of natural confidence that wasn't forced at all. It's a confidence that comes from having had regular sex with good looking women in the past, and a alot of it comes from the realisation that women aren't actually that special and that sex isn't that amazing. It is the ultimate blackpill and is essential for any real man in the real world to actually go forward being confident. Because you need to not just act indifferent and chill but actually feel like that inside. To not feel desperate for sex and female affection. I can tell you, I feel so much more naturally and effortlessly confident and chill with women now than I did two years ago before I had sex or had relationships with women. Even though I'm single and gone through breakups, I don't care because I sort of "get" women" in the sense that I don't put them or their pussies on a pedestal, and I don't care if they don't like me or misunderstand me.
Like, when you actually know deep down that fucking a woman's pussy, even a legit 10/10, doesn't feel THAT amazing, and that it legitimately is not worth the headaches she will give you on a daily basis, THEN you will reach a level above beyond an incel.
To truly become confident with women, you have to have been with women to pull away the veil and make you realise you were silly for glorifying pussy so much. You can't cheat or skip this step, you gotta experience it yourself naturally.
And the hilarious thing is that women actually like that. Deep down they love when men DON'T idolise them or treat them like super-special goddesses or aliens.