Thread 82055408

I turned 35 today. Pic related is all I want out of a relationship, but most women I've met seem to need drama in their lives to function. The perfect day for me: being comfy without drama. I have lived many of these days, and I'm quite capable of doing so on my own. Why don't women want this simple existence?

Most recently, once I saved enough to simply do nothing for a while, my "femcel NEET" gf I met here lost her mind because I wasn't "productive" (I made more last year than she made in her life). She started throwing insane tantrums and being destructive, so I had to dump her.

I think I'm going to change my strategy this year and rather than treating my partner as my equal, I'll simply groom an 18 year old into being sane, then wife her up.

>>82055408 (OP)
>my "femcel NEET" gf I met here lost her mind because I wasn't "productive"
what the fuck can you tell us the whole story anon

>>82055408 (OP)
what do you mean? plenty want that

>>82055408 (OP)
How the fuck a NEET girl is complaining about not being productive?

>>82055408 (OP)
Low attention spans and adrenaline addictions make them search out toxic, but exciting romantic relationships. Sex and drama is all they care about. Grooming an 18yo can work, but it can be a lottery too. Most women are already gone by that age.

>>82055408 (OP)
>I'll simply groom an 18 year old into being sane
and how would you do this?

>>82055426
They say they do, but they don't. Remember what happened to normies during COVID? That happens to women when they do the OP pic enough.
>>82055417
What do you want to know?

>>82055450
hmm how did you meet your "femcel NEET" why was she throwing tantrums what exactly happened
>>82055434
there is an absurd amount of 18-19 year old fembots here with mid 30s boyfriends

having something like the pic is pretty nice. Idk what kind of women ur meeting

>>82055450
don't get with a normie woman then.
>>82055479
>there is an absurd amount of 18-19 year old fembots here with mid 30s boyfriends
i know, but how would one groom someone into being sane?

>>82055479
me looking for those fembots: hellooo??? heellooooo * no response, just echo *

>>82055494
>i know, but how would one groom someone into being sane?
Do you not have paternal instincts fag? Raise her as you would raise a daughter that you have sex with frequently

>>82055479
>how did you meet your "femcel NEET" why was she throwing tantrums what exactly happened
I posted here and we exchanged contacts. She acted cool at first but later revealed that she was insane, unable to simply enjoy a peaceful life.

>>82055481
Literally anyone can sit around watching anime once or twice, but how many people will do it indefinitely? In my experience, almost none.

>>82055501
i'm not a man. i doubt mental illness can be cured by just acting like a father to someone

>>82055494
>i know, but how would one groom someone into being sane?
For her: No TikTok, no parties alone, no "girls night out," maybe controlled phone usage eventually

>>82055511
>but how many people will do it indefinitely? In my experience, almost none.
Was the woman retarded if she didn't want to neet she could just go outside
>i doubt mental illness can be cured by just acting like a father to someone
Oh you would be surprised most men and women just need a non neglectful father figure in their lives

>>82055524
how would you control that?

>>82055481
>>82055450
>>82055431
>>82055417
OP here, basically I made around $375k in 2023 and opted not to renew the contract. I think she saw me as a meal ticket, which was weird because she was beneath me in other ways, even without my earning potential. It was like she felt entitled to my life beyond what I was willing to give her (which, ironically, would've been everything) and when I didn't accept that, she lost her mind and dropped her facade.

>>82055535
i meant to quote >>82055512 sorry

>>82055541
Present those as boundaries and leave her if she crosses them

>>82055558
fuck man what a cunt you should find a humble girl who doesnt want to accept money from you and also likes you

>>82055574
>>82055541
Parental control app

>>82055587
>you should find a humble girl
Where?

>>82055615
>Where?
from here

>>82055622
I've met at least five girls here and they were all varying levels of fucked up. I'm willing to accept flaws, but not when they mean our relationship is a burden rather than a benefit to me. I doubt I'll ever date another girl from this site.

>>82055637
My experience is a split between insane mentally ill women and nerdy introverted chicks my only issue was that I wasn't interested in edating but the good ones aren't attention whoring in the threads so you might not even know if they are lurking or not you just gotta hope you find them

>>82055662
Do you have any tips for filtering out the legit insane people? The scary part is that they're self aware and know how to hide it.

>>82055677
>Do you have any tips for filtering out the legit insane people?
You need to give everyone a fair shot and scum read her in DMs. It is a number's game sadly, dating will always be like this but at least if you do find a foid that you match REALL Y well with you'll be able to tell right away

>>82055701
>and scum read her in DMs
What does this mean? I can't tell right away because they're all the same, playing coy, etc.

>>82055432
>Grooming an 18yo can work, but it can be a lottery too. Most women are already gone by that age.
Is there a better strat to minmax?

>>82055496
>>82055426
show me the 18 year olds

>>82055716
>What does this mean?
You gotta play a lot of Town of Salem to understand. You will become very good at spotting evils from text cues

>>82055769
>Is there a better strat to minmax?
Dating a 18 year old that was already groomed before duh

>>82055938
I wonder why men don't just raise daughters to trade with other men, that way everyone's incentive is to play by the rules

>>82055956
isnt that literally how marriage worked like 100 years ago

>>82055963
Zoomers have the WORST cat pics

i thought women like the one in picrel would be easier to find in places like this, but most fembots are obsessed with sex, love playing those stupid relationship games or are uncapable of loving others

>>82056015
>find fembot
>she goes to toxic niche places online to have bad relationship ideas reinforced by other insane women

>>82055662
>I wasn't interested in edating
That's for children

>>82055938
The word has really Iost all meaning