>>82055595You're conflating feelings of self-worth with how society values you. You can think you're the hottest shit in the world, but if women don't, then good luck getting laid. Male virginity is one of those things that women see as universally repulsive. Ignoring that fact and not addressing it will keep you alone, getting older and older, and women seeing you as more and more repulsive. As a guy you have to live in reality. It doesn't mean that you should hate yourself. Contrary to what feminists say, a guy being a virgin doesn't mean that he must be a horrible person. But you still have to recognize what women value, if you want to have intimate relations with them. A lot of guys don't just luck out into being desirable. It takes active work.