Thread 82057343

do you love your family guys?
do you have a lovable, cute little family?
personally i'm lucky and most of them are loveable little fellas.

>>82057343 (OP)
Yeah my parents are getting divorced so the family as a whole is kinds a fucked I guess but I still love all of them and I think they are all decent people

>>82057343 (OP)
I don't like my mother or father or step parents but I love all my siblings very much. They're probably the only reason I've been alive for as long as I have.

I've just gone out yesterday and had a lunch with my fellows. All very fine people, even my brother-in-law, who on principle must be considered an adversary. We men drank pints of Kilkenny, while my brother, a young boy of 27, drank soda.

>>82057343 (OP)
I have three older brothers and my parents. The first brother is a flat earther crypto bro, the second is a schizophrenic narcissist, and the third is a convicted sex offender. My dad is a young earth creationist who collects bibles and believes yoga is satanic, and my mom is... weirdly normal and reasonable but also very sad a lot of the time I think. Yes, I love them all despite their flaws.

>>82057719
What did brother 3 do to get on the offender's registry?

>>82057343 (OP)
Mom's side:
>mostly dead
Biological dad's side:
>still very much alive, but haven't spoken to me since 2007
>dad himself died a couple of years ago; they didn't tell me directly
Step-father's side:
>generally don't talk to or about me

Such is life. By now (age 36), I get that I'm 'supposed to' be preoccupied with my own family anyway.

>>82057741
Possession of child pornography

>>82057762
That's pretty awkward. I can't imagine the dinner table discussions surrounding that fact.

>>82057801
It has certainly been awkward. One side of extended family has essentially stopped associating with us. I used to have mutual friends with him but since they hate his guts now they don't really interact with me besides the occasional meme through Snapchat or something. It's very difficult to be family with someone who is so hated by everyone

>>82057343 (OP)
I try to love 'em but man, it's uneasy. My mom is a huge femcel with triple the autism that I have. Can't into people, can't into relationships, didn't teach her kids shit, she's the biggest looser on this planet. I try to justify, it's her limitations that made her do all those mistakes, but nah, she continues to pick an obvious mistake over something that involves any sort of effort or responsibility on her part. She can't be helped. But to have a mother like that, being an orphan seems like a mercy path.

Sisters were pretty kind people, family oriented. Were, because after the pandemic they've became unrecognizable. Social media addicted, before they barely use any. Also after the change, they couldn't care less about family now, neither of them wants their own family.

>>82057343 (OP)
I had a weird upbringing, on paper a large family but everyone fell out when I was young so I only briefly met cousins, furthest I got I had a cousin who I became good friends with then one day I wasn't allowed to see her again, wish I knew what she was up to now. But my parents have all sorts of mental health stuff, dads got multiple personalities, autism, mums adhd and never lasts in employment and because dad became disabled due to being a builder for years they both became neets. They used to do government work last and were paid fairly well but the financial crash of 08 fucked everything and since leaned into disability welfare with my mum acting as my dads carer. So childhood was just me and those two. They did try their hardest with me and I actually turned out okay but it was very lonesome as I never saw anyone else in the family, never had family functions, christmas dinners, growing up with cousins, brothers, sisters etc none of that. Mums side was kinda the same, grandma didn't speak to me ever again once my auntie had a kid, think hes like 8 now and ive never seen him, didn't really speak to her much anyway.

I love my parents, I do not have a cute little family nor have I ever really known a proper family dynamic, gfs family never invite me to do stuff either. Is what it is.

>>82057343 (OP)
no. my dad was an asshole, my mom is a narcissist, my older sisters only care about themselves and never invited me to be a part of their lives. the only good thing growing up was i was physically very comfortable, but emotionally i was completely alone