Thread 82058796

why do most foids have rape fetishes?

>>82058796 (OP)
Why the roots of their breasts are glued?
As for the rape fetish, it's hard to explain. Imagine having a hot guy (or multiple) that want me so badly that he fucks me and doesn't care about consequences. It's hot, but in imagination only

>>82058796 (OP)
They only like it in a safe and controlled environment with someone they love and trust. If it was actual rape they'd be severely traumatized and become mentally ill. It's just a fun thing for them to fantasize about. Please don't rape women.

>>82058796 (OP)
because I was raped when I was 12 and it turns me on to feel as powerless as I was when I was 12, but only in a controlled and simulated environment

It's not "most" necessarily, but it's common for people to fantasize about it even if they wouldn't want to reenact such roleplay in person.

There's a lot of reasons for it. Sometimes if you've gone through sexual trauma, its a way of your mind protecting itself and trying to essentially reclaim its own experiences.

Some people think it's really attractive to imagine that someone wants them so badly they don't care about the legal consequences.

Sometimes its a purely masochistic thing, where the actual pain and potential trauma is what brings attraction.

Most commonly though it's the total submission. If your roleplaying CNC, your roleplaying as having no control whatsoever, and that can be attractive for a lot of people. The idea that someone else gets to control your body and do with it what they please can be both comforting and exciting.

Either way though, rape fetishes do not and never do mean that someone genuinely wants to be raped or molested. In the same way that people can have a snuff fetish or torture fetish, its only safe and okay to do in a controlled environment with safe words and lots and lots of aftercare.
Submissive people are still people. It's very important that any people involved remember this and respect them, even if for a while they pretend otherwise.

source; im a sex therapist who specializes in paraphilias

There's a lot of reasons for it. Sometimes if you've gone through sexual trauma, its a way of your mind protecting itself and trying to essentially reclaim its own experiences.

Some people think it's really attractive to imagine that someone wants them so badly they don't care about the legal consequences.

Sometimes its a purely masochistic thing, where the actual pain and potential trauma is what brings attraction.

Most commonly though it's the total submission. If your roleplaying CNC, your roleplaying as having no control whatsoever, and that can be attractive for a lot of people. The idea that someone else gets to control your body and do with it what they please can be both comforting and exciting.

Either way though, rape fetishes do not and never do mean that someone genuinely wants to be raped or molested. In the same way that people can have a snuff fetish or torture fetish, its only safe and okay to do in a controlled environment with all parties consenting.

source; im a sex therapist who specializes in paraphilias. It's quite literally my job to help out folks with kinks to accept themselves and be safe.

>>82058796 (OP)
the same reason moids want a woman to dominate them? everyone wants to feel wanted and desired anon

>>82058934
>im a sex therapist
What should I do as a man that's into rape? I don't want to be like this. The things I look at disgust me and I feel evil. I am evil.

>>82058962
get a gf and roughhouse with her in a harmless manner

>>82059176
Anon, I'm browsing /r9k/. I can't get a gf, that's not an option. My only sexual outlet is masturbation.

>>82059190
by gf he meant a dakimakura

>>82058796 (OP)
very few women have actual rape fetishes, as in if a random man came up to them and fucked them they would not be cumming intensely.

What they want is a man with whom there is mutual attraction to rape them because they like being submissive and like being intensely desired.

because I want a woman to desire me

>>82058796 (OP)
male here but rape is literally the only thing i can think about when working out or doing cardio for some reason

>>82058796 (OP)
Idk for me I just liked the thought of someone being so overcome with despite for me that rejection didn't matter because they wanted me so badly, especially if they wear a mask. I find faceless characters really hot like spiderman or whatever.

>>82059859
Anon, I have a serious problem. You are no help.

>>82058934
>rape fetishes never do mean that someone genuinely wants to be raped or molested
Lmao wrongo

>>82058796 (OP)
Because of the evolution and natural selection.
During most of the history it was patriarchy and rape culture. Women didn't really have a choice regarding mating partners. Society custome, laws, morals all were on the side of man forcing himself on a woman. do you that prior 1970s marital rape was legal in every country?
So women didn't have choice besides laying there and taking it. This is where natural selection kicks in, women who hated that much surely were at disadvantage in probability and amount of of kids they could birth. Women who were ok with rape had much higher probability to have kids and and larger numbers. So women with rape fetish gene simply outbreed women without such gene.
Not all marriages were abusive in history of course, but this gene is nice to have for woman without downsides (in patriarchy). If woman doesn't have abusive partner, it's fine gene doesn't hurt. But if she runs into rapist, this where rape fetish gene kicks in and greatly incresied chances of reproduction of this woman.

But without patriarchy this rape fetish genes is great hurt for women. They unconsciously seek rapists and abusers and meeting such man is nothing good for their life.

>>82061955
thats false. In the few thousand years that humanity has existed no genes affecting such complex behaviour could have emerged.

>>82058796 (OP)
Because for most of human history, most pregnancies resulted from rape.

>>82062914
>few thousand years that humanity has existed
Modern humans have existed for over a hundred thousand years and social homonids have existed for something like 2 million years. That's plenty of time.

>>82061955
There is no such thing as a gene that makes someone enjoy rape, you retarded faggot making shit up just to sound intelligent

>>82063108
Everything you enjoy is because of genes. Why would rape be any different?

>>82062914
Absolute psycho breed of pitbulls wias created in mere 20-30 generations of selective breeding and you tell me thousands generation of humans are enough to select the trait?
Nonsense!

>>82058962
i have similiar problem though its not rape but dark thoughts

as long as you are morally opposed and recognize it as intrusive and dont act on it youre good