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Anonymous No.82061275 >>82061285 >>82061306 >>82061346 >>82061386 >>82061991 >>82062739
Could it be that the reason for no woman ever being interested in me, is caused by me never being social & enjoying my life as a loner?

I mean seriously, I haven't even talked to woman outside of being polite / being required to at places like work / school ever in my life.
Anonymous No.82061285
>>82061275 (OP)
Not only that, but I have always gone out of my way to avoid talking to women. And when I do I always try to make it so that the conversation is as short as possible.
Anonymous No.82061306
>>82061275 (OP)
Yeah duh.
I get smiles and people like me IRL, but I prefer being neurotic loner who is glued to his technology and dreams.
It's so much more fun. You can do and explore anything. Live life however you want.

I also don't actively seek out girls to interact with. I'm 99% sure, even though I'm like average in looks, I could secure a girl in a week if I tried. My standards are also just "take care of yourself and be nice". But instead, when faced with a confrontation, I put on my schizoid max polite and mechanical talk so it goes by quick and I can get back to my cave.

We are just wired this way.
Anonymous No.82061346
>>82061275 (OP)
>Is the reason I get no girls because I never talk to girls
OP are you like retarded or something?
Anonymous No.82061386
>>82061275 (OP)
The thing is there are many girls who feel exactly the same as you and are loners or get overwhelmed from social interaction. Pretty much every single hobby is going to have girls who also enjoy it so it's best to focus on that and let social and romantic relationships develop naturally. Even a simple hi can be them reaching out of their comfort zone. Yes there will be completion is those spaces but not every girl is turned on by guys fighting for their attention. It narrows down your options but there is no other way to address it than broadening your horizons and dating various people until you find that special someone.
Anonymous No.82061991
>>82061275 (OP)
I've had girlfriends in middle school and that period of my life was the most fake and gay boring time I ever had and I was a loner in hs afterwards. Women are fucking boring and the only ones worth a damn are kind tomboys who share your hobbies and interests everything else is literally suifuel I don't know how guys prefer women who I didn't describe as worth it. Then on top of it they fucking nag about not being enough for her etc etc while being the exact person they shame me for? I wish I was gay OP but I simply like some nice pussy.
Anonymous No.82062739
>>82061275 (OP)
Yes, I have the same issue.
Made worse by the fact that women, even if they were interested, never speak to me; let alone suggest they want to hook-up. TFW unapproachable. Even if by some miracle I finally got some cunny; other than sex, I'd be completely boring to her. Yes, I hate going outside.