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Anonymous No.82069839 >>82069854 >>82069930
Anyone else a serial ghoster?
>appear in someone's life
>make them care
>get overwhelmed
>ghost
My first time doing this was in 1st grade. I moved schools and just completely cut off my friends from my old one. Since then I just keep doing it. I make friends, get close, and ghost them. It doesnt matter if they are online or offline. I have done it to both. My last job i still have people calling me asking about me. I tell myself to be better this time and pick up the call but I never do. Then I tell myself I will call them back and give an excuse, but that is just a lie to myself. I'm never calling them back. They're out of my life and gone. I'll never see them again. I have never had a relationship last more than a year outside of family, and if I could ghost them, I would too. That is what hurts the most. People that have always been there for me are basically expendable and I dont know why.
Anonymous No.82069854
>>82069839 (OP)
story of my life. Why do I want a relationship when I run the other direction every single time someone starts to like me?
Anonymous No.82069867
yea im diagnosed with avpd too lol.
Anonymous No.82069874
my first year of high school the first time i ever got a girl's number i was left on read after 3 texts and it was so traumatic to me that i am perpetually in fear of being ghosted so i always do the ghosting first. it's a problem.
Anonymous No.82069930
>>82069839 (OP)
I only ghosted my ex because she was always harassing me. But I do get the appeal of doing that instead of facing the women to break up.