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Anonymous No.82070955 >>82070965 >>82070989 >>82071022 >>82071039 >>82071042 >>82071048 >>82071056 >>82071117 >>82071119 >>82071154 >>82071198 >>82071472 >>82071507 >>82073086 >>82073119
Realistically, what are you supposed to do in a dead bedroom marriage? It sounds 1000x worse than ordinary inceldom
Anonymous No.82070965 >>82071044 >>82071453
>>82070955 (OP)
Divorce.
Anonymous No.82070989 >>82071038 >>82071453
>>82070955 (OP)
Not getting married in the first place. Anyone still getting married in 2025 is literally a braindead drooling retard that deserves whatever comes after
Anonymous No.82071022
>>82070955 (OP)
don't let it happen in the first place by fucking your wife properly and knowing how to court and seduce her.
Anonymous No.82071038 >>82071528
>>82070989

This. The only winning move left for men is not to play. Even Chad is suffering from hoeflation.
Anonymous No.82071039
>>82070955 (OP)
It seems like a symptom of deeper problems that are the result of a lack of self awareness and poor communication. It's probably avoidable but it's too late once you're already in the situation.
Anonymous No.82071042
>>82070955 (OP)
Talk things out and if the relationship cannot be rekindled, just leave.
>Buh buh buh but muh kids
Start a new family lmao
Anonymous No.82071044 >>82071062 >>82071071 >>82071098 >>82071161
>>82070965
>just throw your children under the bus because you're not getting le pussy
You should be able to talk to your wife and tell her your needs aren't being met and inform her that you're going to meet them elsewhere. This doesn't mean a divorce, just an open marriage with strict rules to protect the kids.
Anonymous No.82071048
>>82070955 (OP)
just take it by force nigga, women are cute when they cry anyway
Anonymous No.82071056 >>82071287
>>82070955 (OP)
Attraction can't be forced. You just fuck other women. Some married men in my office has affair with the female coworkers and "subtly" act like a high school couple. It's a bit cringey but I'm indifferent to it and mind my business. I don't think men aren't meant to be monogamous.
Anonymous No.82071062 >>82071076
>>82071044
>just an open marriage
Take your cuck fetish somewhere else, loser.
Anonymous No.82071071 >>82071077
>>82071044
>Just talk to your wife
Not one woman on earth is so retarded she doesnt know no sex is fine.
Anonymous No.82071076 >>82071098
>>82071062
>open marriage = cuck
Your thought process is very telling, anon.
Anonymous No.82071077
>>82071071
>isnt fine
You get the picture
Anonymous No.82071098 >>82071124
>>82071044
That will go about as well as telling women who are overreacting to calm down.
>>82071076
Why would an open marriage mean only the guy sees other women? It's ironic you talk about kids when you recommend living with a woman you've given permission to fuck other men. That must be how you grew up.
Anonymous No.82071117
>>82070955 (OP)
Cheat on the bitch
Anonymous No.82071119 >>82071146
>>82070955 (OP)
the japanese solution is to just not expect anything else and have an understanding where you let her cheat and she lets you fuck hookers.
Anonymous No.82071124 >>82071134 >>82071146
>>82071098
>Why would an open marriage mean only the guy sees other women?
It wouldn't, but saying that two adults deciding to see other people means the man is a cuck is just embarrassing. The sexual, romantic aspect of their relationship is over, and that's okay. No need to attach immature, fragile ideas of masculinity to the situation and make things worse for everyone.
Anonymous No.82071134 >>82071159
>>82071124
> fragile ideas of masculinity
>It wouldn't, but saying that two adults deciding to see other people means the man is a cuck is just embarrassing.
It's not embarrassing. You are insane. Sharing your spouse is never a dignified arrangement.

Are you a woman?
Anonymous No.82071138
If your woman isnt sexual for you but can be sexual for others like in le open marriage cope above she isnt yours in general. Either place no importance on sex or think it important but dont be a cuck that accepts your wife finding it important if she can have it with others.
Anonymous No.82071146
>>82071119
The real solution is to not marry and encourage sterilization
>>82071124
Well you're saying you're staying married to her after giving ger permission to fuck other men and she has your children. She took vows she failed to keep and your way of fixing this is giving permission to fuck other guys, for the child kek. How is it immature to have a problem with your literal wife fucking other men as some solution for not fucking you? Divorce would be a better example than this.
Anonymous No.82071154
>>82070955 (OP)
nothing lol. that's your reward for falling for the marriage/trad meme. marriage is the end of the male life cycle, now you live for the kids and your nagging bitch wife.
Anonymous No.82071159
>>82071134
It's worse because of the kids involved and dishonest nature of the situation. You're living a lie at that point instead of just honestly breaking up with the bitch.
Anonymous No.82071161
>>82071044
commit SUICIDE right now and post the stream in here you fucking retarded faggot
Anonymous No.82071176
murder suicide like the cool guys in the news
Anonymous No.82071191 >>82071195 >>82071203
Imagine sneakomaxxing and having an open relationship with your wife and mother of your kids. Sleeping in the same bed as this fishy smelling stranger larping as a wife. And paying for it.
Anonymous No.82071195
>>82071191
Men get so cucked over time in relationships it's incredible. It's a slow erosion, they don't even notice until it's too late
Anonymous No.82071198
>>82070955 (OP)
Rape your wife
Anonymous No.82071203
>>82071191
>Sleeping in the same bed as this fishy smelling stranger larping as a wife.
This is it.
Anonymous No.82071219 >>82071234
There is nothing to do. Evolution made it this way

>>82070298
Anonymous No.82071234 >>82071254
>>82071219
Low sex drive is different from dead bedroom thoughbeit.
Anonymous No.82071254 >>82071263 >>82071312
>>82071234
it is a direct consequence of it. lol. lmao even
Anonymous No.82071263
>>82071254
Low libido doesnt mean hasnt had sex in 6 years retard. Low is different from no libido, retard.
Anonymous No.82071287
>>82071056
This, you should just cheat and be open about it.
Anonymous No.82071312
>>82071254
lol no, women in dead bedroom marriages are notorious for still having their normal libido and facing temptation to cheat. the ones who don't cheat have low libido (somewhat normal for women, but sure as fuck not all of them).
Anonymous No.82071453
>>82070965
>>82070989
First two posts, best posts.
Anonymous No.82071472 >>82071529
>>82070955 (OP)
If you can't tell if this is going to happen ahead of time then it's not really her fault. I promise you there were signs.
Anonymous No.82071507
>>82070955 (OP)
What the hell is a dead bedroom? Are you planning to be a lesbian? If so, I've got bad news...
Anonymous No.82071528
>>82071038
I think this guy is just a savant
Anonymous No.82071529 >>82072631
>>82071472
maybe so but women employ all kinds of tactics to get you to tie the knot, consciously or otherwise, including being more into you sexually. so you really have to go out of your way to establish a lasting rapport with them when you have the chance and really get deep into her psyche instead of assuming that things are good enough to coast on forever.
Anonymous No.82072631 >>82072817
>>82071529
This is unironically why you shouldn't have sex right away.
Anonymous No.82072817 >>82072833 >>82073083
>>82072631
my ex wanted to 'take things slow' turns out a year in she admitted she had no sex drive

i dont understand it but turns out women will date guys they arent attracted to.
Anonymous No.82072833 >>82072844
>>82072817
There's a difference between her wanting to take things slow and you choosing to do so.
Anonymous No.82072844 >>82072856
>>82072833
there effectively was no difference. i was a tradfag, she was a virgin, so i thought i actually found a compatible woman.
Anonymous No.82072856
>>82072844
If she wants to no matter what then yeah it's already over. If she doesn't and you do then you have hand.
Anonymous No.82073083
>>82072817
>she admitted she had no sex drive
Until Chad shows up
>women will date guys they arent attracted to
for money and resources
Anonymous No.82073086
>>82070955 (OP)
Surely pounding her g-spot & clit would be it
Anonymous No.82073119
>>82070955 (OP)
Years ago married women would be shunned by society for being unfaithful whores.