Thread 82079619

is it normal to be scared to call your e-bf

>>82079619 (OP)
ahahha do you need some cock bby girl

>>82079629
i think i'm good

>>82079619 (OP)
That's cute and I think that's normal. You should try to meet someone irl though. Online shit is a waste of time.

>>82079619 (OP)
You are tranny, shut up faggot.

>>82079650
>I think that's normal
how do you fix it though?
>You should try to meet someone irl though. Online shit is a waste of time
if you're both dedicated i don't think it is
>>82079703
i'm neither of those things

Yes, I'm an adult man and I don't talk to anybody

>>82079717
Lmao sure tranny. Fuck off always tryna demonize us incels. You're worthless

>>82079784
I am a tranny and I stand in solidarity with incels.

>>82079784
okay sure whatever

you should work with him to get over this instead of slow roasting him over the roaring flame of your insecurities and unresolved trauma

>>82079808
You just wanna make us turn gay don't lie.
>>82079809
Glad you can agreed you have a penis.

>>82079837
how do i do this please

>>82079858
yes my penis is huge and i'm going to violently rape you with it until you're in so much pain you can't type anymore and are unable to shit up my thread

>>82079619 (OP)
>e-bf
What a fucking loser, why not a real one dumbass, I would never have a e-gf cause i cant dick her down through the screen.

>>82079860
by not being avoidant and selfish and openly approaching the problem like a mature adult

>>82079619 (OP)
yes i get scared calling my egf desu

>>82079884
well it's not just about that for all of us
>>82079915
how do you bring it up though?? it's kind of weird to just be like hey i think we should call more often but i am weird and scared
>>82079918
how do you get over it???? please

>>82079918
>>82079944
What I wanna know is how you guys end up in online relationships with this level of online anxiety. This kind of thing usually kills it before it even begins.

>>82079970
because i have more anxiety in real life than online and i still want love

>>82079944
>it's kind of weird
no it's not
is this a real relationship or a fucking game?
are you going to be with this person longer than a month?

>>82080007
how about you actually tell me how to do it instead of just making fun of me

>>82079944
i talked to them about it

>>82080050
how'd you say it/bring it up?

>>82079619 (OP)
Is he aware of your issues with anxiety and avoidance? Has he generally tried to be supportive? How long have you known him?

>>82080083
>Is he aware of your issues with anxiety and avoidance?
anxiety yes, but not avoidance
>Has he generally tried to be supportive?
i think so, yeah
>How long have you known him?
not that long, couple of months

>>82080097
In that case it shouldn't be too hard. If he's been supportive it's likely that he'll be willing to work with you on this. Just message him that calling makes you anxious and ask if he can initiate calls or discuss other ideas to make it easier for you. Also, out of curiosity, how did you meet him?

>>82080068
idk i just type, but i also talk to my therapist abt it

>>82080119
>Just message him that calling makes you anxious and ask if he can initiate calls or discuss other ideas to make it easier for you.
it's just that i am also anxious about saying it, i'm not very good with those things and i don't know how to express it or when to bring it up. i overthink that stuff a lot. also, i don't think he likes calls all that much so asking him to initiate might feel like i'm putting all the pressure on him and i don't want to make it feel like that
>Also, out of curiosity, how did you meet him?
the specific thread is a bit embarrassing, but we met on here

>>82079619 (OP)
Have you ever ghosted anyone?

>>82080871
you know you don't have to ask that

>>82080884
Is that a yes or what?

>>82080871
only because i was anxious and none of them romantic, i know it's bad and that's why i don't really try to talk to anyone anymore

>>82079619 (OP)
You kind of sound like somebody I know who ghosted me. I would appreciate it if you could share your first initial or mention the country you're from. If you are that person knowing that you're not interested in talking to me anymore would help me move on and if you're someone else knowing that would also help. Thanks in advance

>>82080925
>none of them romantic
What were they?

>>82080932
i haven't really ghosted anyone who knows my country or initial, so i don't think it's me

>>82080955
Just to be sure have you ever ghosted someone who wears glasses and whose first name starts with a P?

>>82080949
just people i tried to be friends with or simply had a conversation with once

>>82080967
no, i don't think i've ever talked to anyone like that.. sorry

>>82080978
Thanks for letting me know. Appreciate it originally