kissing is way hotter than sex. Our tongues are way more sensitive than our genitals and swapping saliva is a much more intimate experience than putting your dick into a pussy. Kissing allows you to express your sexual energy in more clearer ways, you can tenderly kiss someone while cuddling in bed as a way to show affection or you pin a wall down and french kiss her with a lot of passion. I genuinely think I'd rather have someone I can frequently make out with over having sex