Thread 82082498

Over the last 5 years I've met 3 different girls from /r9k/. Each time I flew across the country thinking maybe this time it would work.
First girl (2019): talked for a year, same music, same humor. She saw me at the airport, her excitement died on the spot. Spent the weekend being "polite." Never heard from her again.
Second (2021): daily calls for months. Met her and her friends, felt like a tagalong. Over coffee she told me she didn't feel a spark.
Third (last year): thought she was different, she said she liked my voice. Saw me at the airport, same look as the first two. Side hug goodbye, never spoke again.
Three flights, three cities, three polite rejections. Online they like my personality, in real life my face brings me back to reality.

so they don't see your face online? tf
nice made up story

>>82082515
Seeing my face on video call and seeing it irl is different

>>82082498 (OP)
I'm imagining you as a Chad when you type this btw.

>>82082520
catbox it i'll rate you

>>82082525
No some of those girls still use this board I don't want them to derive any satisfaction from rejecting me

>>82082498 (OP)
>Saw me at the airport, same look as the first two. Side hug goodbye, never spoke again.
Did you just 360 back onto the plane and go home?

>>82082560
No, it was a long flight and I had already booked a hotel for a few days so I just stayed there and went to a museum.

>>82082498 (OP)
Yep, even when you meet up irl most e relationships end up like this. It's just not worth it, better to meet girls locally at least the heartbreak is less.

>>82082578
Was it at least a nice museum kek?

>>82083212
Yeah, I go to one every time I travel

>>82082498 (OP)
i met my gf from here and flew to her and lost my virginity to her

>>82082498 (OP)
Kek. I had for 3 years a long distance relationship and we would fly to see each other every like 2 months. She had the audacity to say to me "oh i thought you were taller" when we met the first time, even tho she cheated, frauded and edited her photos to look 40kgs slimmer. The bitch couldnt cook, all she ate was fast food deliveries, didnt clean anything and she got comfortable quickly to living in my house without paying for shit or even getting a job, she lived off mommys money. I just kept her around because she let me do whatever derranged fetish shit in bed i wanted to without ever questioning, but she was your stereotypical insufferable fat fuck. Long distance dating is not worth it

>>82082498 (OP)
I really needed to read this OP. I've had two girls interested in me online for months and had to put an end to it because I didn't want to show my face. I don't think I could've handled the ego destruction.

>>82083330
>she cheated
Yeah you have to dump them immediately after that happens

>>82082578
The last time I went to a museum on vacation I got a oneitis. Literally nowhere is safe.

>>82083424
How did you get one, did you actually interact with this person?

>>82083353
I meant she lied about her weight and appearance, not as in fucking another guy. She was psycho obsessed with me, she videocalled me every 15 mins to check out where i was

>>82083449
Oh yeah. She works there. We talked about the exhibit for a few minutes until I realized I wanted to marry her and then we kept talking about other stuff and then I found out she was engaged and all of the guns were behind display cases and unloaded so I couldn't even shoot myself. Fun trip.

>>82083467
How did you get a oneitis that fast you must be really young or something

>>82083472
No I'm just very lonely. She was nice.

>>82082498 (OP)
uh did you not do face reveals with these people before flying across the country to meet them? is everyone involved retarded?

>>82083500
>>82082520
ffs read the thread